OHbaby! Forums : pregnant and 14 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Wed, 06 May 2026 11:24:29 +0000 Sat, 15 Jan 2011 10:53:07 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=37473 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[pregnant and 14 : I know of a few places in Wellington...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=37473&PID=1240853&title=pregnant-and-14#1240853 Author: High9
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Posted: 15 January 2011 at 10:53am

I know of a few places in Wellington so PM if you want...

There is a school that helps in Porirua + The House of Grace in Newlands, Wellington which takes in young mums during their pregnancy + the first 3 months post baby and teach you everything you need to know. ]]> Sat, 15 Jan 2011 10:53:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=37473&PID=1240853&title=pregnant-and-14#1240853 <![CDATA[pregnant and 14 : yas good on you for reaching out...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=37473&PID=1240818&title=pregnant-and-14#1240818 Author: Marengo
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Posted: 15 January 2011 at 10:08am

yas good on you for reaching out for some help, its a scary time being pregnant and it sounds like you have had a rough time of it..

you can always ask questions on here if you have any questions about how to find a midwife, or any questions you have

having support is important so any offers you get of help make sure you take them up on it :) thats wonderful that you have your aunty to help you and your good friend also..

as kelly says you will be able to do this :) ]]> Sat, 15 Jan 2011 10:08:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=37473&PID=1240818&title=pregnant-and-14#1240818 <![CDATA[pregnant and 14 : I second A Girl Called Hope Never...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=37473&PID=1240807&title=pregnant-and-14#1240807 Author: Whateversville
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Posted: 15 January 2011 at 9:55am

I second A Girl Called Hope

Never been myself, but I've helped fundraise thru my church


Good luck with your pregnancy. Everyones pretty much covered what you need to do next ]]> Sat, 15 Jan 2011 09:55:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=37473&PID=1240807&title=pregnant-and-14#1240807 <![CDATA[pregnant and 14 : I strongly recommend A Girl Called...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=37473&PID=1240736&title=pregnant-and-14#1240736 Author: MuppetsMama
Subject: 37473
Posted: 15 January 2011 at 8:46am

I strongly recommend A Girl Called Hope
The first thing you need to do is find a doctor, independant midwife or someone else who can support you medically through your pregnancy.
Good luck
]]> Sat, 15 Jan 2011 08:46:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=37473&PID=1240736&title=pregnant-and-14#1240736 <![CDATA[pregnant and 14 : I am sorry to hear about your...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=37473&PID=1240589&title=pregnant-and-14#1240589 Author: MummyFreckle
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Posted: 14 January 2011 at 9:58pm

I am sorry to hear about your situation, but glad you are getting some support from your Aunty.

There are lots of places to go for support - here are a few websites to have a look at

http://www.theword.org.nz/site/detail/sexualsafety/teenagepregnancy

http://www.kiwifamilies.co.nz/Topics/Parenting/Teen-Parents-Corner/Teenagers+Pregnancy.html

http://www.rapecrisis.org.nz/content.aspx?id=3

If you are in Auckland - then somewhere like this might be able to offer some good advice - http://www.awc.org.nz/3/information.php?sid=12&mid=3

You will need to find a midwife to care for you during your pregnancy, depending on where you are in the country there are lots of options. It might be good to be under the care of a "team" of midwives at a hospital as they can prob access other support services too.

All the best - its a scary time (regardless of how old you are!)

]]> Fri, 14 Jan 2011 21:58:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=37473&PID=1240589&title=pregnant-and-14#1240589 <![CDATA[pregnant and 14 : Where abouts are you? If you are...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=37473&PID=1240587&title=pregnant-and-14#1240587 Author: TheKelly
Subject: 37473
Posted: 14 January 2011 at 9:58pm

Where abouts are you? If you are in Auckland there is a place called Bethany Centre, run through the Salvation army, its free to stay there and they have girls of all ages, I stayed there when I was 19 and pregnant and it was very good, they do classes and you can continue your schooling by correspondance.
If you are in Auckland (or even outside ) that would be the first place I called.

Im sorry this has happened to you,and it wont be an easy road, especially given the circumstances, but with the right support you will be able to do it.
Have you seen a counsellor/victim support person for what you have gone through ? if you haven't it might also pay to see about doing that]]> Fri, 14 Jan 2011 21:58:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=37473&PID=1240587&title=pregnant-and-14#1240587 <![CDATA[pregnant and 14 : Do you have a teen centre or something...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=37473&PID=1240567&title=pregnant-and-14#1240567 Author: busymum
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Posted: 14 January 2011 at 9:39pm

Do you have a teen centre or something like that in your area? If you don't know, the Police - I assume you have been dealing with them - will know who you'd be best talking with to get support. You'll need to get in touch with a GP or maternity section of a hospital too.]]> Fri, 14 Jan 2011 21:39:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=37473&PID=1240567&title=pregnant-and-14#1240567 <![CDATA[pregnant and 14 : i would like some advice on what...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=37473&PID=1240561&title=pregnant-and-14#1240561 Author: yasbecool
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Posted: 14 January 2011 at 9:34pm

i would like some advice on what to except im currently 12 weeks and 4 days and i'm actually really scared, i dont have the father as i fell pregnant horribly in a gang rape, i'm having a hard enough time as it is so please dont give me any hate i just wanna know what to expect .. im lucky enough to have my auntys support and this one guy who has kept be going threw things he has helped me in so many ways and i love him for it any advice would be amazing i really need it right now i dont know what to expect or what to do ): thank you ]]> Fri, 14 Jan 2011 21:34:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=37473&PID=1240561&title=pregnant-and-14#1240561