https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Thu, 30 Apr 2026 13:50:17 +0000 Fri, 13 Oct 2006 13:56:44 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=3775 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=78279&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#78279 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 3775
Posted: 13 October 2006 at 1:56pm

Roksana - don't know at this stage. I kinda just always wondered if there was something there but never considered it an actual possibility.

Anyway. Not going to Pukawa. (and I was soooo looking forward to getting away from the house!!!) His step-mother's sister is going there. ]]> Fri, 13 Oct 2006 13:56:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=78279&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#78279 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=78050&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#78050 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 3775
Posted: 12 October 2006 at 7:43pm

or form anywhere to lovely clean safe warm Blenners... (if it would help sway you, we are putting in an inground swimming pool for next summer..)]]> Thu, 12 Oct 2006 19:43:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=78050&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#78050 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=77836&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#77836 Author: Roksana
Subject: 3775
Posted: 12 October 2006 at 10:26am

Ok I have no idea how I missed this post earlier.....I spend enough time on here to have noticed but oh well.

Re Liz's comment...you can come and live with me Nikki but I dont know how two scorpio kids will cope ...LOL

You know because it is out of the blue and because he is a friend...its meant to be??? How exciting!!! I hope it works out....my question tho is...are you attracted to him as a partner or do you think of him as a friend...it might be a bit confusing. But I will be happy to have you in AKL....

Any one else wanna convert from WNG to AKL???]]> Thu, 12 Oct 2006 10:26:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=77836&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#77836 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=77769&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#77769 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 3775
Posted: 11 October 2006 at 8:38pm

hahahaha
]]> Wed, 11 Oct 2006 20:38:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=77769&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#77769 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=77766&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#77766 Author: my2angels
Subject: 3775
Posted: 11 October 2006 at 8:33pm

hehe yeah but his dad might be in the next room, thats just wrong!!!! (dont listen to me, im just jealous)]]> Wed, 11 Oct 2006 20:33:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=77766&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#77766 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=77741&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#77741 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 3775
Posted: 11 October 2006 at 7:36pm

oooohhh rudies...]]> Wed, 11 Oct 2006 19:36:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=77741&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#77741 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=77739&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#77739 Author: busymum
Subject: 3775
Posted: 11 October 2006 at 7:32pm

Nikki I'd just say, if you're meant to spend the rest of your life with him then you've got ages to decide. I agree with the be friends first advice you've got already. And be careful at least for Hannah's sake, because if it doesn't work out she'll be old enough to remember.

That sounds kind of negative, but I honestly do hope it works out, he sounds like a nice guy.]]> Wed, 11 Oct 2006 19:32:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=77739&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#77739 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=77730&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#77730 Author: james
Subject: 3775
Posted: 11 October 2006 at 6:57pm

i,m, with emma and angelnz get him to look after hannah while you rest and recope have heaps of fun if you do go this weekend ]]> Wed, 11 Oct 2006 18:57:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=77730&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#77730 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=77729&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#77729 Author: AlyAyde
Subject: 3775
Posted: 11 October 2006 at 6:53pm

lol, I reckon you should ask if he can look after Hannah while you go out shopping or have a nice quiet sit down lunch to yourself. What a lovely guy! If you do go this weekend have fun.]]> Wed, 11 Oct 2006 18:53:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=77729&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#77729 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=77725&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#77725 Author: Maya
Subject: 3775
Posted: 11 October 2006 at 6:39pm

He clearly has no experience with children, hence volunteering to look after the almost-two year old.

I say exploit his naivety while you have the chance ]]> Wed, 11 Oct 2006 18:39:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=77725&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#77725 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=77717&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#77717 Author: caraMel
Subject: 3775
Posted: 11 October 2006 at 5:39pm

Oooh Pukawa is great Nikki! My Aunty and uncle have a bach there. Its such a great place to go and relax, hope you have a great weekend!]]> Wed, 11 Oct 2006 17:39:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=77717&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#77717 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=77715&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#77715 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 3775
Posted: 11 October 2006 at 5:36pm

Ahem... update.
Ross invited me to his family bach thing in Pukawa last weekend (essay due on Friday) and said that he'd look after Hannah and cook etc so I could concentrate on study.
HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

It didn't happen because his dad got the dates wrong and someone was using the house... but how funny is it that he said he'd a) cook and b) look after hannah and c) both at once. The man seriously has no clue. But it was a nice gesture. However deluded.

Might be going this weekend instead... no essay due in so I'll actually be able to relax. Altho it also depends on whether his dad is going this weekend. I might just crash the party anyway. I think I need a weekend away!]]> Wed, 11 Oct 2006 17:36:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=77715&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#77715 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=73715&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#73715 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 3775
Posted: 24 September 2006 at 8:24pm

I'm in bed now! Sad isn't it... ]]> Sun, 24 Sep 2006 20:24:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=73715&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#73715 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=73713&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#73713 Author: lizzle
Subject: 3775
Posted: 24 September 2006 at 8:10pm

Yeah, but you have a pregnancy-hormones excuse. You are "creating life". I, on the other hand, and getting ooooollllllllldddddd]]> Sun, 24 Sep 2006 20:10:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=73713&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#73713 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=73705&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#73705 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 3775
Posted: 24 September 2006 at 7:28pm

was thinking about bed at 6.30 after JJ went down, AND had a 2 hour afternoon nap..... am often in bed before 8, sleeping too, none of that rudies stuff for this nana]]> Sun, 24 Sep 2006 19:28:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=73705&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#73705 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=73695&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#73695 Author: lizzle
Subject: 3775
Posted: 24 September 2006 at 4:59pm

i went to bed at 8:30 the other night. Out-Nana THAT!]]> Sun, 24 Sep 2006 16:59:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=73695&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#73695 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=73687&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#73687 Author: Maya
Subject: 3775
Posted: 24 September 2006 at 4:11pm

Welcome to the club! I am such a nana...]]> Sun, 24 Sep 2006 16:11:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=73687&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#73687 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=73654&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#73654 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 3775
Posted: 24 September 2006 at 10:27am

Both.

I realised that Ross has absolutely no concept of what it would be like living with a child. And a mother who most of the time, just wants to sleep. Especially when his job is pretty much hanging out with bands and drinking.

Argh. I'm so borrrriiiinnnnggggggg!]]> Sun, 24 Sep 2006 10:27:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=73654&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#73654 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=73652&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#73652 Author: Maya
Subject: 3775
Posted: 24 September 2006 at 10:18am

Are you getting boring in your old age, or is this just sensible mother thoughts kicking in ]]> Sun, 24 Sep 2006 10:18:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=73652&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#73652 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=73649&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#73649 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 3775
Posted: 24 September 2006 at 10:16am

I'm getting over the plan anyway. I think I was just so into it because it was a distraction from school work!!! hehehehe

We'll see in a year.]]> Sun, 24 Sep 2006 10:16:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=73649&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#73649 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=73497&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#73497 Author: lizzle
Subject: 3775
Posted: 23 September 2006 at 7:02am

Lewis and I were friends for...3 years before getting together. moved in after three weeks, and were planning our trip to Japan after a year together.]]> Sat, 23 Sep 2006 07:02:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=73497&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#73497 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=73493&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#73493 Author: Rachael21
Subject: 3775
Posted: 22 September 2006 at 11:17pm

This is my philosophy it might not be for you but its what i like to believe:
Everything happens for a reason, if you are having a hard time making a choice what you choose isn't important because obvously both options are just as good or you wouldn't be having a hard time deciding. It doesn't matter what you choose just as long as you make a choice. You will choose the right thing just have faith.
Good luck Nikki it will be so fun.

BTW me and Ben were friends for a couple of years and then one day we moved to Nelson away from everyone else and got together. It was the best thing I ever did and now we are still together and with Jack ]]> Fri, 22 Sep 2006 23:17:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=73493&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#73493 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72778&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72778 Author: Jennz
Subject: 3775
Posted: 20 September 2006 at 2:29am

Hmmmm ok- um yeah thats what happened...
But honestly, it will give you the inside scoop from someone who followed their heart.]]> Wed, 20 Sep 2006 02:29:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72778&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72778 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72562&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72562 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 3775
Posted: 19 September 2006 at 9:06am

I only wanna talk to Amy if it turned out to be a huge success and she is now married and pregnant with her third child, only after having established a highly successful career which she is planning on returning to once her children are old enough.

And as far as I know she hates men as much as me!

Nah, I will talk to her.]]> Tue, 19 Sep 2006 09:06:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72562&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72562 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72534&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72534 Author: Jennz
Subject: 3775
Posted: 19 September 2006 at 12:49am

Talk to Amy!!!! She has been through this almost EXACT situation so she'll know what you are going through ]]> Tue, 19 Sep 2006 00:49:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72534&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72534 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72505&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72505 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 3775
Posted: 18 September 2006 at 8:17pm

And Emma, I'll be up to deal with them when they hit one... that's when it gets toughest anyway right? By then you'll be more than ready for someone to help ]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 20:17:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72505&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72505 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72504&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72504 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 3775
Posted: 18 September 2006 at 8:17pm

at you both Maria and Emma!!!

That's what is weird... NOTHING HAPPENED. (I just must be a fantastically cool chick. Hrmm.)

But now when he comes down next there is some sort of expectation for something to happen (not THAT!)

It's a little bit scary!]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 20:17:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72504&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72504 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72449&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72449 Author: Maya
Subject: 3775
Posted: 18 September 2006 at 1:48pm

Bugger that it won't be happening for another year - I could do with some help with these gremlins

Seriously tho, like everyone else said, do what feels right. I moved in with Willie the day after we met and everyone said I was crazy, and yes it hasn't been all roses, but 7 years later we're still here and I have no regrets.

But like Maria said, it must have been SOME weekend!]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 13:48:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72449&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72449 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72438&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72438 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 3775
Posted: 18 September 2006 at 1:29pm

Get to know him again, spend some time together in both cities - thats what weekends are for and see what happens....who knows and go into with a what will be attitude and you will be fine...
Keep us posted!!! ]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 13:29:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72438&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72438 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72430&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72430 Author: lizzle
Subject: 3775
Posted: 18 September 2006 at 1:02pm

mARIA! frankly I'm shocked! ]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 13:02:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72430&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72430 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72417&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72417 Author: newmum
Subject: 3775
Posted: 18 September 2006 at 12:22pm

ROFL ]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 12:22:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72417&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72417 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72357&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72357 Author: AlyAyde
Subject: 3775
Posted: 18 September 2006 at 8:51am

lol id say it must have felt VERY right. ROFL]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 08:51:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72357&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72357 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72345&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72345 Author: newmum
Subject: 3775
Posted: 18 September 2006 at 8:00am

I say go for it!! LOL, It's a year away anyway so you have heaps of time to try and talk yourself out (or in) to it!! I say if it feels right, do it. ]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 08:00:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72345&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72345 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72341&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72341 Author: AlyAyde
Subject: 3775
Posted: 18 September 2006 at 7:50am

lol, I think its great!! Hell, you wont know if you dont try right. And you have got a year to think about it. BTW must have been SOME weekend ]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 07:50:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72341&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72341 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72328&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72328 Author: my2angels
Subject: 3775
Posted: 17 September 2006 at 10:48pm

I think it sounds exciting and scary at the same time but what have you got to lose if you havent really got that much tying you to where you are now. If you dont like it then its an experience and its not like you are dropping everything and taking off with some random guy you meet on the net or anything. Good luck if you decide to go!]]> Sun, 17 Sep 2006 22:48:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72328&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72328 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72320&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72320 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 3775
Posted: 17 September 2006 at 8:59pm

A year is ages to decide either way Nikki... Chocolate sounds like the best idea tho! ]]> Sun, 17 Sep 2006 20:59:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72320&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72320 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72308&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72308 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 3775
Posted: 17 September 2006 at 8:05pm

Mmmmm chocolate. I know Mum left some here somewhere.]]> Sun, 17 Sep 2006 20:05:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72308&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72308 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72307&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72307 Author: Guests
Subject: 3775
Posted: 17 September 2006 at 8:04pm

My gut always wants chocolate haha]]> Sun, 17 Sep 2006 20:04:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72307&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72307 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72295&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72295 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 3775
Posted: 17 September 2006 at 6:41pm

Ah that's brillo Jess. I've been trying to figure out what head and heart want but gut is what I should be going with! ]]> Sun, 17 Sep 2006 18:41:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72295&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72295 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72291&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72291 Author: Guests
Subject: 3775
Posted: 17 September 2006 at 6:15pm

All i will say is follow ur gut and not ur heart coz the heart wants what the head wants and the gut always knows If u know what i mean lol

But awesome stuff!!]]> Sun, 17 Sep 2006 18:15:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72291&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72291 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72285&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72285 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 3775
Posted: 17 September 2006 at 5:48pm

haha Yeah, it is all a bit insane but the saving grace for the plan is that it is a year away... and plenty of time to back out when I see him next.

It was just a little out of the blue when he started talking about it. And after feeling like a dick for my relationship with Zeke (being in love with being in love rather than with him), I don't quite trust my feelings at the moment. So yeah... time is good.

It's all a bit flaky though. I mean, breaking up with one guy and then a month or two later thinking about moving to the other end of the island for another...?!?!
I'm not usually this bad. I promise. (Well... maybe I am )

Going to take it slow anyway... not decide that I'm going to marry the guy within 6 months like I did with Zeke (Poor man).
]]> Sun, 17 Sep 2006 17:48:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72285&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72285 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72280&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72280 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 3775
Posted: 17 September 2006 at 4:26pm

definately, i go with the others.. you have a year or so so mull it all over and sort it out.. and friends first is always good.. I think it helps cos you don't tend to hide things from friends like you sometimes do with new b/f's.. you're honest from the start.]]> Sun, 17 Sep 2006 16:26:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72280&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72280 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72279&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72279 Author: miss
Subject: 3775
Posted: 17 September 2006 at 4:14pm

Nikki, the best relationships are often with someone who is a great friend first. If he has been wiating for this opportunity, and is prepared to wait that bit longer for your studying to be finished, then why not go for it.]]> Sun, 17 Sep 2006 16:14:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72279&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72279 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72277&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72277 Author: lizzle
Subject: 3775
Posted: 17 September 2006 at 3:56pm

Thanks for the update Nikki (that was for me right?!!) Considering you've said it will be a year before you move, you have plenty of time to mull things over and make up your mind. and if all fails, you can stay with Roksana (!!!)]]> Sun, 17 Sep 2006 15:56:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72277&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72277 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72274&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72274 Author: james
Subject: 3775
Posted: 17 September 2006 at 3:50pm

gotta agree but if it feels right nikki i say go for it lifes to short ]]> Sun, 17 Sep 2006 15:50:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72274&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72274 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72273&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72273 Author: jax
Subject: 3775
Posted: 17 September 2006 at 3:50pm

All I can say is, do what makes you happy ]]> Sun, 17 Sep 2006 15:50:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72273&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72273 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72270&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72270 Author: daikini
Subject: 3775
Posted: 17 September 2006 at 3:15pm

]]> Sun, 17 Sep 2006 15:15:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72270&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72270 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72269&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72269 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 3775
Posted: 17 September 2006 at 3:07pm

OK. My life has had major upheaval in the last half an hour.

My friend Ross came down from Auckland the other weekend. I've known him for about 6 years, but haven't seen him in about 5. We had heeeeaps of fun. Loved hanging out and he thought Han was pretty cool.

Since he has gone back, we've been talking, and somehow he decided that I should move to Auckland with Hannah to be with him. At first I thought he was crazy. Actually still do. But he said that he was coming back down for work on November 21st and would prove me wrong (in my disbelief).

Now I've started to come round to the idea. Am I insane???? I told him it wouldn't be for atleast a year, once I've finished my degree. As I was planning to go and find a job and save to go overseas anyway, nothing pinning me to Wellington in particular (apart from the friends I have made, seeing as I haven't lived this long in a town since Rotorua).

So I might be moving to Auckland at the end of next year to start a relationship with a guy I haven't hung out with for 5 years!!!!! WTF?!?!]]> Sun, 17 Sep 2006 15:07:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3775&PID=72269&title=for-those-who-live-vicariously#72269