https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 11 Apr 2026 02:07:02 +0000 Mon, 09 May 2011 09:00:41 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=39020 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1321513&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1321513 Author: newme
Subject: 39020
Posted: 09 May 2011 at 9:00am

We BD-ed every day in the 5 days leading up to O, then the day after too, just to be sure. Normally around lunchtime. And I would then lie on my back with a pillow under my bum and my knees pulled up to my chest. Worked like a charm! But it was a bit of a chore, i must say, but it was worth it.]]> Mon, 09 May 2011 09:00:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1321513&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1321513 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1319852&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1319852 Author: Brunettie86
Subject: 39020
Posted: 06 May 2011 at 2:10pm

Really interesting that BDing in AM is more sucessful. Might have to give it a go! We have been terrible the last couple of months - travelling an hour each way for work does that to a girl's libido! Just resigned so bring on the baby making!]]> Fri, 06 May 2011 14:10:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1319852&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1319852 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1319547&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1319547 Author: KcP
Subject: 39020
Posted: 06 May 2011 at 8:33am

Usually every day from day 10, then every second day throughout the rest of the cycle Mostly cos of my insane sex drive ]]> Fri, 06 May 2011 08:33:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1319547&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1319547 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1319154&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1319154 Author: CarleyRose
Subject: 39020
Posted: 05 May 2011 at 3:43pm

We used to BD everyday - or near too at the start and slowly its just getting to the right time of the month! ]]> Thu, 05 May 2011 15:43:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1319154&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1319154 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1319140&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1319140 Author: RachFizz
Subject: 39020
Posted: 05 May 2011 at 3:32pm

well more like every 2nd day and occasionally a couple of days in a row lol ]]> Thu, 05 May 2011 15:32:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1319140&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1319140 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1319052&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1319052 Author: Birdie
Subject: 39020
Posted: 05 May 2011 at 2:01pm

Booboo wrote: Do you mean bding in the morning rather than PM? Argh, DH leaves at 5am - do I HAVE to do it that early ha-ha.

Yep in the morning Booboo! I was lucky that the month I got UTD with no1 was labour weekend so there was no getting up early for either of us

Edited to say: Booboo if you know your cycle well and can predict when you will ov, try and book some time off for you and your DH and have a wee 'mini break'

Edited by Birdie]]> Thu, 05 May 2011 14:01:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1319052&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1319052 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318604&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318604 Author: babycrazy
Subject: 39020
Posted: 04 May 2011 at 6:24pm

Interesting reading everyone's theories.
I'm like Didi and don't want it to be a chore so just do it when feel like it. We have very different libido's which makes it rather frustrating at times! I usually try to get in a couple sessions around ov - normally manage one right on ov.
]]> Wed, 04 May 2011 18:24:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318604&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318604 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318580&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318580 Author: didi99
Subject: 39020
Posted: 04 May 2011 at 5:49pm

I think the morning BDing theory is interesting as I've just looked back at my charts and my last two BFP's where a result of morning BDing, not sure about the first as I wasn't charting then.
Personally I just BD when I feel like it as I don't really want to make it feel like a chore. Although from after AF to ov I notice I have always been alot more frisky than after ov so it naturally happens quite alot at the "right" time anyway. My naturopath did say that if DP's swimmers where on the low side then we would need to cut back to every 2nd day, but as that is not a problem there is no need (thankfully as I would of hated to have that conversation with DP).]]> Wed, 04 May 2011 17:49:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318580&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318580 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318537&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318537 Author: kebakat
Subject: 39020
Posted: 04 May 2011 at 4:57pm

Dal - we did it every day for that month All 3 times ]]> Wed, 04 May 2011 16:57:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318537&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318537 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318533&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318533 Author: _Lou_
Subject: 39020
Posted: 04 May 2011 at 4:51pm

We normally start around CD10/12 and do every day or every second day up until OV. Usually its around 4 or 5 times in that week and by then we're over it and need a break! ]]> Wed, 04 May 2011 16:51:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318533&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318533 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318528&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318528 Author: KarenMae
Subject: 39020
Posted: 04 May 2011 at 4:47pm

Yep - I used to be a daily girl too ]]> Wed, 04 May 2011 16:47:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318528&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318528 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318514&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318514 Author: GuestGuest
Subject: 39020
Posted: 04 May 2011 at 4:31pm

Can tell you have just started TTC Rachfizz That sounds like us back in the day ]]> Wed, 04 May 2011 16:31:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318514&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318514 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318511&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318511 Author: curlysue
Subject: 39020
Posted: 04 May 2011 at 4:30pm

Lol im not a morning person so not really a chance of BDing then for us plus DH is away to work early.

We usually try every 2nd day from CD10 until OV but sometimes if I ov later we run out of steam hehe. This month we did every 2nd day from day 10 then once I got +OPK we did that day and then the next two so it was 10,12,14,15,16.]]> Wed, 04 May 2011 16:30:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318511&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318511 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318506&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318506 Author: RachFizz
Subject: 39020
Posted: 04 May 2011 at 4:25pm

every one or two days from end of AF till about day 20 then a bit of a break hehe]]> Wed, 04 May 2011 16:25:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318506&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318506 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318499&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318499 Author: LadyBee
Subject: 39020
Posted: 04 May 2011 at 4:17pm

We BD in the morning! DH is a builder works hard all day then our evenings are usually filled in with paperwork, quotes, pricing, meetings etc so there is not much energy to do anything other than sleep!
His alarm is off at 5:30 am, usually catch him earlier so he's not late on site
Good start to the day I say

I dont think we BD enough, but my FS at repromed said to me every 2nd day was enough.

]]> Wed, 04 May 2011 16:17:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318499&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318499 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318495&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318495 Author: CarleyRose
Subject: 39020
Posted: 04 May 2011 at 4:12pm

Oh, and usually at night too! ]]> Wed, 04 May 2011 16:12:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318495&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318495 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318494&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318494 Author: CarleyRose
Subject: 39020
Posted: 04 May 2011 at 4:12pm

Hey Boo Boo, I usually try to stick to CD 10 12 14 and 15 maybe 16 if im lucky (i have a very high sex drive) haha tmi sorry . I try to get it atleast twice around ovulation. and a couple of times before. Just so i know i've covered all bases!]]> Wed, 04 May 2011 16:12:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318494&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318494 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318481&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318481 Author: GuestGuest
Subject: 39020
Posted: 04 May 2011 at 3:57pm

We NEVER EVER EVER BD in the morning booboo!]]> Wed, 04 May 2011 15:57:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318481&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318481 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318462&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318462 Author: IVFGirl1111
Subject: 39020
Posted: 04 May 2011 at 3:33pm

Do you mean bding in the morning rather than PM?

Argh, DH leaves at 5am - do I HAVE to do it that early ha-ha.]]> Wed, 04 May 2011 15:33:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318462&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318462 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318443&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318443 Author: Birdie
Subject: 39020
Posted: 04 May 2011 at 3:11pm

Hey Booboo I was charting when TTC number 1 so we BD'd every day from CD 10 till I got a temp rise. With number 2 we were not TTC yet and think we only BD'd once that month (the joys of having a 5 month old!) and somehow got UTD, so who knows

I will back up the am theory as the first month we tried am BD'ing we got UTD, the previous months we were doing it in the PM ]]> Wed, 04 May 2011 15:11:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318443&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318443 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318361&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318361 Author: GuestGuest
Subject: 39020
Posted: 04 May 2011 at 2:01pm

Hey booboo, the cycle I got UTD I ov'd on CD15 and we BD'd on days 11,13,15,16.

I ov at roughly the same time every cycle so we always start about CD11 and do every day or every second day until I get a temp rise. My gynae said that every second day was better because it gives the swimmers a chance to replenish themselves fully

Swimmers are meant to be able to hang around for up to 5 days but that's only in fertile CM and I'm not taking any chances ]]> Wed, 04 May 2011 14:01:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318361&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318361 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318356&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318356 Author: CrazyCass
Subject: 39020
Posted: 04 May 2011 at 1:51pm

We bascially tried for every day the week before Ovulation - and every second day any other time of the month (except AF time of course!)

DH was pretty good, he'd ask if there was any chance of me falling preggo & if it was slim then we'd be off to the bedroom!]]> Wed, 04 May 2011 13:51:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318356&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318356 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318348&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318348 Author: KarenMae
Subject: 39020
Posted: 04 May 2011 at 1:43pm

I think it depends on the men's sperm quality...

My DH is 40 and so we do every second day from end of period, until I know I have OV'd...

But if your partner is younger and has no problems, you could do every day if you want around OV time no problems, just don't wear yourself out!!!!

I think 1-2 days is the norm, but not more than once a day (unless within 30min) and don't leave it more than 5 days regardless of where you are in the cycle as that is also bad.... Have also heard that AM rather than PM tends to be a little more successful...

Good luck!!!]]> Wed, 04 May 2011 13:43:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318348&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318348 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318326&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318326 Author: J&Ls mum
Subject: 39020
Posted: 04 May 2011 at 1:27pm

Not at all now, lol!

But when we were TTC we did it at least every second day between CD10 and 24. ]]> Wed, 04 May 2011 13:27:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318326&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318326 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318324&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318324 Author: IVFGirl1111
Subject: 39020
Posted: 04 May 2011 at 1:25pm

I'm thinking we don't do it enough!

So how often do you - and is there anything you follow? Ie every second day, just around ovulation?

]]> Wed, 04 May 2011 13:25:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39020&PID=1318324&title=how-often-do-you-bd#1318324