https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Tue, 07 Apr 2026 07:15:44 +0000 Wed, 20 Jul 2011 18:02:45 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=39823 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1365268&title=complicated-situation#1365268 Author: BikeBaby
Subject: 39823
Posted: 20 July 2011 at 6:02pm

Hmm maybe you could talk to your midwife and see if she knows anything about getting a paternity test done while you are still preggers? I heard that it could be done too but not sure where.

Good luck with your pregnancy and remember to keep smiling, a good laugh always makes things look better ]]> Wed, 20 Jul 2011 18:02:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1365268&title=complicated-situation#1365268 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1361174&title=complicated-situation#1361174 Author: Tigerish
Subject: 39823
Posted: 12 July 2011 at 8:12am

It sounds like your own little miracle that you are pregnant. I hope you have a wonderful pregnancy and enjoy your wee baby. Hopefully the 'Dad' situation doesn't become an issue for you! xx]]> Tue, 12 Jul 2011 08:12:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1361174&title=complicated-situation#1361174 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1361129&title=complicated-situation#1361129 Author: _Deb_
Subject: 39823
Posted: 11 July 2011 at 10:14pm

Congrats on your little miracle Lou. I hope everything works out well for you.]]> Mon, 11 Jul 2011 22:14:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1361129&title=complicated-situation#1361129 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1361124&title=complicated-situation#1361124 Author: InthemiddleMummy
Subject: 39823
Posted: 11 July 2011 at 10:10pm

you can have paternity test while pregnant, my dads friend made his girlfriend do it(3years ago) as he had a vasectomy 15years ago so thought she must of been seeing someone else, which she hadnt but his sperm tubes had reconnected themselfs.

Im not too sure how it is done if amino or cvs test? but worth looking into as incase you didnt know.

my cousin was in same situation as you and had blood taken from cord at birth to be tested (13years ago thou) it took 6weeks to determine paternity.
]]> Mon, 11 Jul 2011 22:10:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1361124&title=complicated-situation#1361124 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1360995&title=complicated-situation#1360995 Author: Looey85
Subject: 39823
Posted: 11 July 2011 at 7:08pm

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Edited by Looey85]]> Mon, 11 Jul 2011 19:08:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1360995&title=complicated-situation#1360995 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1360668&title=complicated-situation#1360668 Author: Kazper
Subject: 39823
Posted: 11 July 2011 at 10:58am

Congrats on your pregnancy. Judging by how strong you are being now, you will do just great.

Dating is a pain at times. The best way to calculate is the first day of your last af. The first day of a missed af which is 4 weeks from the first day of the last af is considered 4 weeks pregnant. So if they say bub measures 6 weeks, you have technically been pregnant 4 weeks, but would have only found out 2 weeks prior on the first day of your missed af - hope that makes sense.]]> Mon, 11 Jul 2011 10:58:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1360668&title=complicated-situation#1360668 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1360660&title=complicated-situation#1360660 Author: lisa85
Subject: 39823
Posted: 11 July 2011 at 10:47am

Congrats hun and big hugs. I think your so strong and amazing for telling him you don't need anything from him. Good for you. I hope you have a happy and healthy pregnancy. I am pro choice but I have yet to meet a person that regrets having their baby. My twins were a big surprise for my husband and I. We weren't even planning on having even one baby at the time so to find out it was two was really scary. We considered termination but I look back on the last 3 years and I'm so thankful we didn't :)]]> Mon, 11 Jul 2011 10:47:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1360660&title=complicated-situation#1360660 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1360562&title=complicated-situation#1360562 Author: newme
Subject: 39823
Posted: 11 July 2011 at 7:34am

Looey85 wrote: Thanks all for your kind words. I had my dating scan today and I'm measuring bang on 6 weeks (which doesn't really make sense to me, so I have a feeling its a bit off).

Just in case you didn't know, when you are 6 weeks pregnant, it means you conceived 4 weeks ago. The way they work it out is a bit strange :)]]> Mon, 11 Jul 2011 07:34:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1360562&title=complicated-situation#1360562 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1360371&title=complicated-situation#1360371 Author: babydoll09
Subject: 39823
Posted: 10 July 2011 at 4:47pm

Well done for telling him. And for not being too cut up by his opinion of termination. It is completely your baby to do whatever you like with. I wouldn't let anything he say let it influence you at the moment. I think you have such an awesome attitude to the situation.
Congrats on the scan and hope to hear lots of exciting updates in the due feb thread.]]> Sun, 10 Jul 2011 16:47:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1360371&title=complicated-situation#1360371 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1360072&title=complicated-situation#1360072 Author: Looey85
Subject: 39823
Posted: 09 July 2011 at 8:08pm

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Edited by Looey85]]> Sat, 09 Jul 2011 20:08:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1360072&title=complicated-situation#1360072 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1359778&title=complicated-situation#1359778 Author: weeheebaby
Subject: 39823
Posted: 08 July 2011 at 10:07pm

babydoll09 wrote: Congratulations. Situations like this may not seem idea to most but that doesn't mean to say that there will be any less of an amazing outcome.

I really like this bit and whole heartedly agree.

]]> Fri, 08 Jul 2011 22:07:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1359778&title=complicated-situation#1359778 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1359327&title=complicated-situation#1359327 Author: millemama
Subject: 39823
Posted: 07 July 2011 at 9:33pm

Life throws us curveballs and it easy for others to judge but unless they have walked in your shoes, get them to mind their own business. Do whats best for you and bubz. Its hard to think clear at this point but it will come, and give the 'dads' the opportunity but don't rely on their strength, rely on yours. Good luck ]]> Thu, 07 Jul 2011 21:33:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1359327&title=complicated-situation#1359327 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1359226&title=complicated-situation#1359226 Author: Luckymama23
Subject: 39823
Posted: 07 July 2011 at 7:14pm

COngrats Looey!! -p.s. something similar happened to one of my guy friends.. got a girl pregnant, they werent together or anything like that, at first he was horrified, thought it had ruined his life etc. But now 18months or so later he has done a complete 180 & cant imagine his life without the bubba.. (I know youre prob in a completely diff situation, just wanted to let you know its not necessarily as bad as u think??!!]]> Thu, 07 Jul 2011 19:14:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1359226&title=complicated-situation#1359226 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1359133&title=complicated-situation#1359133 Author: Looey85
Subject: 39823
Posted: 07 July 2011 at 4:29pm

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Edited by Looey85]]> Thu, 07 Jul 2011 16:29:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1359133&title=complicated-situation#1359133 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1358891&title=complicated-situation#1358891 Author: babydoll09
Subject: 39823
Posted: 07 July 2011 at 9:47am

Congratulations.
Situations like this may not seem idea to most but that doesn't mean to say that there will be any less of an amazing outcome. You've obviously tried without conception before so that may have been the reason for lack of protection which as understandable. You were never malicious in anyway or could have predicted that perfect conception timing.

Don't get caught up on thinking your ruining anyones life! This is your pregnancy to do it how you please. Enjoy it because your going to get a lil baby at the end.

Best of luck with your scan]]> Thu, 07 Jul 2011 09:47:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1358891&title=complicated-situation#1358891 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1358793&title=complicated-situation#1358793 Author: Rachael21
Subject: 39823
Posted: 06 July 2011 at 9:27pm

Congrats on your pregnancy It's an emotional time without any added stress so take care of yourself. This is not the first time a situation like this has happened and it won't be the last, they are as much to blame as you are so you have not 'ruined' anyones life!

Enjoy your scan tomorrow, it's a special time and then worry about figuring things out and telling potential fathers. ]]> Wed, 06 Jul 2011 21:27:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1358793&title=complicated-situation#1358793 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1358783&title=complicated-situation#1358783 Author: AandCsmum
Subject: 39823
Posted: 06 July 2011 at 9:08pm

Cross fingers that the dating scan can narrow it down to one or the other???

Congrats on your pregnancy, I'm sure what ever happens re the dad your bub will be well loved.]]> Wed, 06 Jul 2011 21:08:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1358783&title=complicated-situation#1358783 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39823&PID=1358768&title=complicated-situation#1358768 Author: Looey85
Subject: 39823
Posted: 06 July 2011 at 8:59pm

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