https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Fri, 10 Apr 2026 19:49:21 +0000 Fri, 18 Oct 2013 15:59:53 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=43646 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851366&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851366 Author: Babyshrimp
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Posted: 18 October 2013 at 3:59pm

Thanks it was a huge shock that we're slowly coming to terms with but my midwife said we will b well looked after 😊 I'm sad to b leaving her she's been fantastic.

Thanks for sending the password I'll pop in 😊]]> Fri, 18 Oct 2013 15:59:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851366&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851366 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851365&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851365 Author: SouthKiwi
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Posted: 18 October 2013 at 3:57pm

Oh, I am sorry to hear that. It sounds like you and bubs are being well looked after. Everything is going to be fine!

A lot of the ladies that joined the thread are now talking on FB, some of us were not keen so we kept the thread going. They are all very nice girls, very supportive! Will send you the password now. ]]> Fri, 18 Oct 2013 15:57:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851365&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851365 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851362&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851362 Author: Babyshrimp
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Posted: 18 October 2013 at 3:51pm

It's when bubs bowels are on the outside of his/her tummy so usually the come early so will most likely have baby in Wellington instead of palmy (where we are) stay in neonates depends on how well the baby does, they try to operate as soon as they are born, best case we'll be looking @ 4 weeks in hospital.

Yay for finding out we are 2, I'm meeting a specialist on Tuesday & having another scan so fingers crossed we can find out then 😊

I joined the April due thread but they all talk on a FB page which I wasn't 2 keen on. Is there much happening in your thread?]]> Fri, 18 Oct 2013 15:51:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851362&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851362 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851359&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851359 Author: SouthKiwi
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Posted: 18 October 2013 at 3:46pm

I will have to google gastroschisis, I don't know what that is, sorry

You can join the "due in march" private forum if you like. Let me know and I will send you the password.

Yes, we are finding out. I am having a scan next Thursday (anatomy scan) so will find out then, can't wait!!!

Are you finding out?]]> Fri, 18 Oct 2013 15:46:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851359&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851359 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851354&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851354 Author: Babyshrimp
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Posted: 18 October 2013 at 3:33pm

Yea my inlaws live up in Auckland so I only had to see them once or twice a year 😊
It really was the last straw so I don't want anything to do with her.

I'm due 20th of April but our baby has gastroschisis so will probably have bubs @ about 36 weeks so march & right by my bday 😄

Are u going to find out the sex of baby?]]> Fri, 18 Oct 2013 15:33:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851354&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851354 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851353&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851353 Author: SouthKiwi
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Posted: 18 October 2013 at 3:29pm

I don't know. She is moving to another town so I won't get to see her anyway.
What about you?
When is your baby due? Mine is due end of March!]]> Fri, 18 Oct 2013 15:29:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851353&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851353 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851347&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851347 Author: Babyshrimp
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Posted: 18 October 2013 at 3:04pm

Lol good call, are u going to continue a relationship with her? ]]> Fri, 18 Oct 2013 15:04:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851347&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851347 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851345&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851345 Author: SouthKiwi
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Posted: 18 October 2013 at 2:49pm

Same here, I don't want to see her face.
I keep laughing thinking about the tv program "s@#t my dad says", this is more like "s@#t my MIL says" lol]]> Fri, 18 Oct 2013 14:49:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851345&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851345 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851341&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851341 Author: Babyshrimp
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Posted: 18 October 2013 at 1:47pm

Wow, I struggle to understand how people can say things like that. Hope everything goes smoothly for u & ur lil one 😊
Glad I'm not the only one with MIL issues lol

I'm trying not to stress because she's not worth it, I just don't think I could be in the same room with her lol ]]> Fri, 18 Oct 2013 13:47:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851341&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851341 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851340&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851340 Author: SouthKiwi
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Posted: 18 October 2013 at 1:44pm

Hi,
What a nice comment...NOT! Try not to worry too much, stress won't help you or your baby. Just ignore her if you can.
My MIL is just as bad! I am 17 weeks pregnant, I have blood clotting issues so been told by my Dr to take aspirin until the baby is born and then Clexane injections for 6 weeks. So when DF told her this she said "oh well, you two wanted a baby so now you will have to get over it".
DF was speechless.....]]> Fri, 18 Oct 2013 13:44:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851340&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851340 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851333&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851333 Author: Babyshrimp
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Posted: 18 October 2013 at 12:24pm

Thanks for your thoughts & advice, I thought she would have reached out to her son to apologize but she just kept going with her online inappropriate remarks. She was defiantly not sorry & was horrible to see how much it hurt my hubby.

I'm afraid if I reach out I won't b able to control myself lol]]> Fri, 18 Oct 2013 12:24:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851333&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851333 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851328&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851328 Author: JaniceN
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Posted: 18 October 2013 at 11:36am

Hi there. I have a mother in law who doesn't think first and can say and do things that I get so pissed off with and I am not one who will bite my tounge and I will just tell her straight out . I understand your upset and hurt by the comment it was a stupid thing to say. I would calm down abit and then talk to her and tell her exactly how you feel . I would react too . But see what she has to say about it if she confronts you back when you talk to her about it, you will know where you stand then and can make your decision then.
]]> Fri, 18 Oct 2013 11:36:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851328&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851328 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43646&PID=5851324&title=what-would-you-do-mils-comment#5851324 Author: Babyshrimp
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Posted: 18 October 2013 at 11:10am

Hi people just wondered what ur thoughts are or what you would do?

Recently my husband posted a pic of our 12 week scan to FB and his mothers comment was it looks like a rat!

I absolutely lost it and have said I want nothing to do with her & she's not welcome in our home. Also this isn't the first time she's made rude/offensive comments.

This is a much wanted baby after going through IVF and we are also high risk, I just don't want that sort of thing in my life.

Would u be the same?
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