https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Thu, 09 Apr 2026 00:24:49 +0000 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 14:54:12 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=43721 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43721&PID=5855229&title=wedding-adivce#5855229 Author: ooEvaoo
Subject: 43721
Posted: 26 November 2013 at 2:54pm

Choose whoever you like! I'm having my sister as a bridesmaid. Haven't decided if I'm having more.]]> Tue, 26 Nov 2013 14:54:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43721&PID=5855229&title=wedding-adivce#5855229 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43721&PID=5855187&title=wedding-adivce#5855187 Author: Lisa333133896
Subject: 43721
Posted: 26 November 2013 at 9:31am

Congratulations! I support, ask your work friend! Wish you fantastic wedding!]]> Tue, 26 Nov 2013 09:31:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43721&PID=5855187&title=wedding-adivce#5855187 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43721&PID=5854798&title=wedding-adivce#5854798 Author: Mummabear16
Subject: 43721
Posted: 21 November 2013 at 6:45am

First of all, congratulations!
I agree though, ask your work friend! If you guys get along the best, then why the heck not? She'll be so excited, I'll always remember how excited I was when I got asked to be a bridesmaid at my friend's wedding. At the end of the day, it's your big day. Do whatever makes you happy :)]]> Thu, 21 Nov 2013 06:45:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43721&PID=5854798&title=wedding-adivce#5854798 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43721&PID=5854728&title=wedding-adivce#5854728 Author: Jessaroo
Subject: 43721
Posted: 20 November 2013 at 10:40am

Ask your work mate! At the end of the day - its YOUR day! Do it how you like :) Bugger the "expectations"! Do what makes you happy - who cares if you have only known the work mate for a short period - I'm sure she would be thrilled to stand next to you on your big day. Also, bridesmaids don't have to be chicks - how about some close guy friends? It can be anybody who means something to you - who you want to be there with you! Or just have no bridesmaids etc and Just have two witness's? - More common than you think :) Congrats BTW - how exciting! ]]> Wed, 20 Nov 2013 10:40:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43721&PID=5854728&title=wedding-adivce#5854728 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43721&PID=5854723&title=wedding-adivce#5854723 Author: Mumof2&1/2
Subject: 43721
Posted: 20 November 2013 at 10:19am

So I am 23 and my lovely partner asked me to marry him two years ago.. We have finally started to make plans to get married, but my problem is finding bridesmaids. We moved around a lot when I was younger and I just don't have the friends! My sister is 19 we get on great, but we have very little in common - I feel more like her Mother! I also have a friend that I work eight hour night-shifts with, we are very similar and get on amazingly, but we have only known each other for possibly 3-4 months and we have never seen each other out of work, asking her seems a bit inappropriate. I do have a family friend that I have known since I was 2.. But we don't talk anymore and she has lost custody of her son due to drug use and I have no idea whether I could rely on her.. Without all the background information but basically we have a lot of expectations with our wedding and not having bridesmaids will be frowned upon and the judgement will ruin our day!

Any advice on how to choose my BMs? Should I ask my work mate, or should we have known each other longer? What about my family friend?

Edited by Mumof2&1/2 - 20 November 2013 at 10:22am]]> Wed, 20 Nov 2013 10:19:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=43721&PID=5854723&title=wedding-adivce#5854723