https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Fri, 08 May 2026 03:53:12 +0000 Mon, 13 Jul 2015 15:58:21 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=44698 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=44698&PID=5886569&title=born-sleeping-my-beautiful-girl-ava#5886569 Author: N Bug
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Posted: 13 July 2015 at 3:58pm

Sands have meetings and a wonderful online facebook support group - look up Sands New Zealand - Bereaved Parents Chat.]]> Mon, 13 Jul 2015 15:58:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=44698&PID=5886569&title=born-sleeping-my-beautiful-girl-ava#5886569 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=44698&PID=5885613&title=born-sleeping-my-beautiful-girl-ava#5885613 Author: _Soda_
Subject: 44698
Posted: 26 June 2015 at 3:06pm

Get in touch with SANDS... I havent used them myself but have friends who have been in your situation who have found their support invaluable. hugs hun im so sorry for your loss xxx]]> Fri, 26 Jun 2015 15:06:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=44698&PID=5885613&title=born-sleeping-my-beautiful-girl-ava#5885613 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=44698&PID=5884328&title=born-sleeping-my-beautiful-girl-ava#5884328 Author: babyleen
Subject: 44698
Posted: 01 June 2015 at 4:10pm

Thanks guys for the support and kind words.. i hope it will get better soon..]]> Mon, 01 Jun 2015 16:10:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=44698&PID=5884328&title=born-sleeping-my-beautiful-girl-ava#5884328 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=44698&PID=5884314&title=born-sleeping-my-beautiful-girl-ava#5884314 Author: Nellennium
Subject: 44698
Posted: 01 June 2015 at 8:58am

I'm very sorry to you and your partner xx have you found any support groups or forums? It helps to be able to talk to those who have been though the same thing. It's ok to cry all the time, and definitely ok to feel the way you do. Take it one day at a time, it's all you can do for now x]]> Mon, 01 Jun 2015 08:58:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=44698&PID=5884314&title=born-sleeping-my-beautiful-girl-ava#5884314 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=44698&PID=5884313&title=born-sleeping-my-beautiful-girl-ava#5884313 Author: Kazper
Subject: 44698
Posted: 01 June 2015 at 8:52am

So sorry for your loss Lina. Has your midwife or Dr put you in contact with a counsellor? There are services
available, but its just finding them. My understanding is you can get a number of sessions free and your partner could also get them or join you with yours. There is bound to be a forum group here or on another site where you can chat to other women that have experienced loss and can help you through this. Well done for reaching out and posting your experience here. Xx]]> Mon, 01 Jun 2015 08:52:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=44698&PID=5884313&title=born-sleeping-my-beautiful-girl-ava#5884313 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=44698&PID=5884312&title=born-sleeping-my-beautiful-girl-ava#5884312 Author: Kumeroa
Subject: 44698
Posted: 01 June 2015 at 8:22am

Oh my that is terrible I can't even imagine. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you. If u can find someone u can talk too. Big hugs xx]]> Mon, 01 Jun 2015 08:22:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=44698&PID=5884312&title=born-sleeping-my-beautiful-girl-ava#5884312 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=44698&PID=5884310&title=born-sleeping-my-beautiful-girl-ava#5884310 Author: Lina185368
Subject: 44698
Posted: 01 June 2015 at 1:05am

It's been a little over a month that my baby girl was born silent. She was perfect in every way at 41weeks. I am not coping well, some days i feel ok every other second day i breakdown and cry and replay everything in my head what i should have done earlier or of i got a better midwife. I don't know where to go for help, my partner and i are pulling apart over our loss. I sit silently everyday not talking about her as the pain and memory is too much to handle. ]]> Mon, 01 Jun 2015 01:05:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=44698&PID=5884310&title=born-sleeping-my-beautiful-girl-ava#5884310