OHbaby! Forums : Now this REALLY f**ks me off! https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Thu, 07 May 2026 09:57:09 +0000 Sun, 19 Nov 2006 14:59:54 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=4513 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : Jess - take heart in the fact...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87592&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87592 Author: Maya
Subject: 4513
Posted: 19 November 2006 at 2:59pm

Jess - take heart in the fact that if she has time to go trawling thru cyberspace looking for places to post random junk then she must have a pretty excting life!

Janine - One pro about bottle feeding you forgot to mention is that IT DOESN'T HURT! My boobs are ouchy just thinking about being chomped on...]]> Sun, 19 Nov 2006 14:59:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87592&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87592 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : what a bicth big hugs jess ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87575&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87575 Author: james
Subject: 4513
Posted: 19 November 2006 at 12:49pm

what a bicth big hugs jess ]]> Sun, 19 Nov 2006 12:49:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87575&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87575 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : What a yucky spack head lady...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87486&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87486 Author: Jay_R
Subject: 4513
Posted: 18 November 2006 at 7:44pm

What a yucky spack head lady Regardless of what your situation was Jess, it's not anyone elses business what you choose to do. You are a loving and devoted mother, no-one in the world could say otherwise, and you are bringing up a happy, healthy little girl. Go you I say!]]> Sat, 18 Nov 2006 19:44:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87486&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87486 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : Dont beat yourself up on breast...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87464&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87464 Author: Guests
Subject: 4513
Posted: 18 November 2006 at 5:21pm

Dont beat yourself up on breast feeding! I did and unfortunately i didnt enjoy being a mum in the first few days. My midwife was ok i was still scared to tell her tho

Just prepare yourself mentally for it and when ur strong enough u will get through it fine. One thing i found that helped was having a supportive husband he ended up telling the midwife coz i was so scared! lol that was just my baby blues to!]]> Sat, 18 Nov 2006 17:21:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87464&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87464 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : mum2 Paris, I don&#039;t think...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87457&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87457 Author: miss
Subject: 4513
Posted: 18 November 2006 at 5:09pm

mum2 Paris, I don't think that anyone would ever take advice the wrong way! I am just disgusted when people are told they are letting their kids down. I mean, we all try so hard to do whatever we can for these babies, then when you can't do something that you really feel you should be able to do people abuse you - grrrr!

Advice from those who have gone before is awesome! I am worried a bit about breastfeeding becasue both of my sister's kids had to go on to formula within 6 weeks due to poor quality milk and bad sucking - I just don't want to get feedback like poor Jezsika has had to suffer!

(The sort of unsolicted comment Jezsika got on her blog makes me think of that terrible sureslim add where they have the baby in the womb and list all the things the mother is doing by being overweight - I would never go to sureslim after that add)]]> Sat, 18 Nov 2006 17:09:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87457&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87457 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : Yer in my situation i have PCOS...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87437&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87437 Author: Guests
Subject: 4513
Posted: 18 November 2006 at 2:29pm

Yer in my situation i have PCOS and i got pregnant by taking Clomid. Later on i read that fertility issues crossed with fertility drugs may mean u cant breastfeed but didnt really think anything of it. It wasnt until the lactation consult at the hospital asked me if have PCOS and what not and i said yes and she said well that explains alot.

I can understand how it happens. The body is tricked into ovulating then gets pregnant maybe its just still confused? lol I tried in vain to pump and hand express but nothing, it was horrible.]]> Sat, 18 Nov 2006 14:29:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87437&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87437 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : That is so unbelieveably rude...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87433&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87433 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 4513
Posted: 18 November 2006 at 2:09pm

That is so unbelieveably rude and sucky. I hate people that do that. I sincerely hope that anyone on here never mistakes any advice i give for Bf as being pushy. lol.   I went through the same thing with Paris and perservered despite all the signs being there that it just wasn't working.. and i was a right mess mentally because of that and a few other things. I did have a good expereince with Ayja though so I do finally know how nice it can be.. but having cuddles giving them the bottle is just as good if not nicer sometimes cos you have all your hands free to give them cuddlysnuggles. I have just found that through working and learning and knowing more and having to help women everyday.. I have a little more knowledge and so am willing to share it.. but yeah...am always willing to give mums the reality as well.. It's fricken hard to learn and sometime syour body just doesn't do what it should.. and theres nothing wrong with formula, most of us were probably brought up on fromula because there was a fad for a while where BF was just "SOOOO uncool" and hey, we all turned out just fine

anyway Jes, I hope you can find out who that nasty piece of work is. What a horrible lady.

Edited by mum2paris]]> Sat, 18 Nov 2006 14:09:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87433&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87433 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : That is just terrible that anyone...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87430&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87430 Author: miss
Subject: 4513
Posted: 18 November 2006 at 1:40pm

That is just terrible that anyone would be so heartless. I hope you feel better now. I know how important it is to try to Bf, and I will give it as good a go I can, but I also know people who have been unable to and I get fed up with the people who promote it over and above the mental health of the mother. Grrrrr.]]> Sat, 18 Nov 2006 13:40:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87430&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87430 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : Kharma will come back to bite...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87399&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87399 Author: BaAsKa
Subject: 4513
Posted: 18 November 2006 at 10:09am

Kharma will come back to bite those BFing nutts (the ones that absolutely shove it down your throat!) in the ass!!!!
I couldnt BF my son and no one could tell me why but i persevered for 4 months!!!! to no avail and even after all that trying i still felt like an unbelievable failure!!! i even felt like maybe i shouldve rushed into having another bubs just so i could prove to myself and all those other BF nutts that i could do it!!!
Im not sure what those BF nutts expect those of us that have no choice to formula feed, to do!!!??? struggle along till our children get so melnurished that we have to formula feed!!!!. Dont get me wrong though - i totally have no problem with formula feeding even before i had to do it myself! i just have something against those ladies that are so narrow minded!!

That lady "jill" obviously was never told by her mummy that "If you dont have anything nice to say and its uncalled for then dont say anything at all"!!!!]]> Sat, 18 Nov 2006 10:09:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87399&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87399 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : OMG jess. i thought you were...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87379&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87379 Author: lizzle
Subject: 4513
Posted: 17 November 2006 at 10:13pm

OMG jess. i thought you were joking and I laughed, until i realised you were serious. i can't belive someone would have the audacity to mke those kinda comments. note that those kinda people also don't leave details so you can answer back - cowards.

I know what a big deal it is not to breastfeed. even though physically i could, Taine was so more settled and happier on the formula i made the decision to switch. and even though i talk about how we should think about how we are providing the best care for our babies BY giving them the formula they obviously need, it still felt bad to "give up"

Good on ya for not giving into the chocolate (c'mon red team!!)

]]> Fri, 17 Nov 2006 22:13:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87379&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87379 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : What a nasty lady you don&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87377&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87377 Author: Rachael21
Subject: 4513
Posted: 17 November 2006 at 10:11pm

What a nasty lady you don't say that to anyone especially people you don't actually know. Try not to let it get you down everyone else knows how awesome a mum you are. ]]> Fri, 17 Nov 2006 22:11:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87377&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87377 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : Dont take it to heart Jess, you...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87371&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87371 Author: my2angels
Subject: 4513
Posted: 17 November 2006 at 9:42pm

Dont take it to heart Jess, you know its just some jumped up pro b/fing lady who no doubt thinks her opinion on things is the only way it should be. I hate people like that. Even if you didnt have any medical reason to forumla feed its still your decision and its not going to harm Ella just because you formula fed her. Some people are so narrow minded it makes me mad.
And good on you for not going out and getting chocolate, i probably would have.]]> Fri, 17 Nov 2006 21:42:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87371&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87371 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : Weird. How absolutely rude!!! ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87358&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87358 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 4513
Posted: 17 November 2006 at 8:34pm

Weird. How absolutely rude!!!]]> Fri, 17 Nov 2006 20:34:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87358&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87358 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : Hehe im safe i have no chocolate...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87354&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87354 Author: Guests
Subject: 4513
Posted: 17 November 2006 at 8:26pm

Hehe im safe i have no chocolate thanks to the nazi hubby

I have edited my blog so that only registered users can post so if she is determined again ill report her!

Thanks ladies i feel better after venting. I took so long to get used to the idea that i couldnt Breastfeed i had baby blues early like the same day i gave birth coz i was so overwhelmed and thought the world would think i was a bad mother coz i couldnt breast feed. I ended up coming home from hospital early coz i didnt want a new midwife coming in everytime and having to explain the situation it only got me down. I stood in the shower the next morning bawling my eyes out AGAIN coz i couldnt comprehend it. I must have been the only women my midwife has seen get SO excited when i got engorged breasts i thought YAY my milk is here lol But alas it wasnt
Then to have someone like that come along 4 months later and rub that in is rubbing salt into old wounds.
I love my daughter and im actually glad im not BF with her reflux and allergies. It would have made life harder! I applaude and admire women who have children with allergies and still breastfeed!]]> Fri, 17 Nov 2006 20:26:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87354&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87354 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : Just have a little bit of chocolate,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87351&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87351 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 4513
Posted: 17 November 2006 at 8:16pm

Just have a little bit of chocolate, you don't want to let her get to you or let your team down.

Good thing you could delete it, hopefully she doesn't come back again.

]]> Fri, 17 Nov 2006 20:16:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87351&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87351 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : That is awful, I can&#039;t believe...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87349&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87349 Author: Red
Subject: 4513
Posted: 17 November 2006 at 8:10pm

That is awful, I can't believe someone would post something like that! ]]> Fri, 17 Nov 2006 20:10:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87349&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87349 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : I must say that makes me pretty...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87348&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87348 Author: Peace
Subject: 4513
Posted: 17 November 2006 at 8:06pm

I must say that makes me pretty mad as well, you think people with "the brains" to think up witty comments that are full of knowledge actually know what they are talking about.
I'm with you Jess, we can't help that we couldn't physically breastfeed and no amount of "you should have, you could have" can change that.
Bigoted intolerance just rips my nightie!]]> Fri, 17 Nov 2006 20:06:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87348&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87348 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : gsmum - yer it does that for me...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87347&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87347 Author: Guests
Subject: 4513
Posted: 17 November 2006 at 8:00pm

gsmum - yer it does that for me aswell but if they choose anonymous then i dont know their email. I may see if there is an option to turn it off. I have deleted it but the nerve of some people!

Now i need chocolate! MY DIET IS RUINED ]]> Fri, 17 Nov 2006 20:00:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87347&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87347 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : i agree, thats a shocker! i can...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87346&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87346 Author: mum2emj
Subject: 4513
Posted: 17 November 2006 at 7:58pm

i agree, thats a shocker! i can understand how you must be feeling jess. big GRR'S to the "jill" person. man that would make me soooooooooo mad.]]> Fri, 17 Nov 2006 19:58:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87346&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87346 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : sounds like spam or something...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87345&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87345 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 4513
Posted: 17 November 2006 at 7:57pm

sounds like spam or something - unfortunatley when stuff is out there for the public that can happen. I have a web page for my boys and any comments i get to see the address it came from - i hope you can delete the comment.]]> Fri, 17 Nov 2006 19:57:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87345&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87345 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : wow, the nerve of some people!!!!!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87341&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87341 Author: hailstones
Subject: 4513
Posted: 17 November 2006 at 7:50pm

wow, the nerve of some people!!!!! No wonder you are fuming I would be too!!! And this person doesn't know you??? Hope you can track her down, I'm with mummy_becks this interferring busybody needs to be put in her place!!!]]> Fri, 17 Nov 2006 19:50:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87341&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87341 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : Nah she left a message on the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87339&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87339 Author: Guests
Subject: 4513
Posted: 17 November 2006 at 7:45pm

Nah she left a message on the blog and just put her name and no contact details i have no idea who she is or where she is from!! Makes me wild! My daughter doesnt even look awful she looks loved and is definately filling out now her reflux isnt hurting her!]]> Fri, 17 Nov 2006 19:45:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87339&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87339 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : Jess, so you should feel that...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87337&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87337 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 4513
Posted: 17 November 2006 at 7:42pm

Jess, so you should feel that way. She has no idea what happened to you and why you can't BF. How dear she saw anything like that to someone she doesn't know. Is there anyway of tracking her down and giving her a ear full throught the net??]]> Fri, 17 Nov 2006 19:42:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87337&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87337 <![CDATA[Now this REALLY f**ks me off! : I have a blog for ella i started...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87335&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87335 Author: Guests
Subject: 4513
Posted: 17 November 2006 at 7:39pm

I have a blog for ella i started it the month after i had her for family that arent in the same city as us mainly my parents and my husbands parents.

Well i updated it yesterday and today i get an email saying there was a comment left on the site and this is what it said!!

Originally posted by JILL JILL wrote:

If you cared about your daughter's future health (less risk of ovarian cancer, less chance of fertility problems, less risk of weight problems) then you would have breastfed her. Mothers milk contains special hormones and saccarides that programme a babies immunity, thyroid and endocrine functions.


Now i am REALLY F**KED off coz only my friends and family can see the blog its not for just anyone to see. This person called Jill has NO idea why i formula feed!!!

It just really pisses me off that people can be so rude about things like this when it is NONE of their business and they have no idea why i cannot breast feed!!!

Edited by Jezsika]]> Fri, 17 Nov 2006 19:39:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4513&PID=87335&title=now-this-really-fks-me-off#87335