Wine mixed with lime soda water sounds like a really interesting mix!!  The only thing I mix wine with is a prenzel thing "with champers" (been in my fridge so long I dunno if they still sell it even) and that just ADDS to the alcohol content... yippiee!

It's something that you've got to make your own mind up on.  How far along is your pregnancy?  Because the earlier on, the more potential there is for damage.  It's not only about the amount that you drink, but also the time that you drink it - some research says there are windows of opportunity during the 1st trimester for a lot of damage to be done with only small amounts of alcohol and we have no ways of knowing exactly when those times are.  I had one glass of wine when I was preggers with Ella... but it was when I was overdue and I justified it by saying it might scare her out (it didn't).  I had half a bottle before I discovered I was pregnant (got a negative preg test result... don't trust them!!) and that had me worried later on.  I wouldn't point the finger at someone having one glass when they're pregnant, but that said, it's not something I'd knowingly do (unless I'm overdue again and that'd be just the one small glass)!