https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Mon, 06 Apr 2026 17:11:32 +0000 Wed, 28 Mar 2007 12:45:24 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=5595 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=123393&title=vicarious-living-version-3#123393 Author: Roksana
Subject: 5595
Posted: 28 March 2007 at 12:45pm

Lol...naughty Liz!! ]]> Wed, 28 Mar 2007 12:45:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=123393&title=vicarious-living-version-3#123393 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=123185&title=vicarious-living-version-3#123185 Author: lizzle
Subject: 5595
Posted: 27 March 2007 at 8:04pm

Roksana -did you mean Hannah will love HIM or his ass? hehehe. i'm so bad!]]> Tue, 27 Mar 2007 20:04:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=123185&title=vicarious-living-version-3#123185 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=123054&title=vicarious-living-version-3#123054 Author: daikini
Subject: 5595
Posted: 27 March 2007 at 2:41pm

A couple of days after we were back from our honeymoon, Kiya asked me when Daddy was going to go home! She was a little sad when I explained that now that we were married, Daddy was going to live with us. About a month ago, Nat was away for most of two weeks (but back for the weekend inbetween) and Kiya was so upset because she missed him so much!

It takes a little time, work and patience, but it is so worth it! Remember (and remind Tobin as he probably hasn't realised) Hannah is used to having your undivided attention. Its not really personal, it just feels like it. She'll come to realise that Tobin is just as important to Mummy as she is, but is NOT replacing her.]]> Tue, 27 Mar 2007 14:41:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=123054&title=vicarious-living-version-3#123054 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=123045&title=vicarious-living-version-3#123045 Author: Roksana
Subject: 5595
Posted: 27 March 2007 at 2:15pm

Give her some time, its a big change for her. I am sure she will LOVE his as much as you do. ]]> Tue, 27 Mar 2007 14:15:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=123045&title=vicarious-living-version-3#123045 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=123035&title=vicarious-living-version-3#123035 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 5595
Posted: 27 March 2007 at 2:03pm

Yep. Pretty damn good. So easy to live with! I'm freaking myself by overanalysing everything but just need to remember to take a step back and look at it for what it is - the start of a relationship.

Hannah is not doing particularly well... I'm not used to this kind of stuff actually affecting her! I can't remember if I have rambled about it here already and to lazy to check back... but having Tobin around and combined with going back to creche 4 days a week has made her a super toad due to lack of attention from me. So I try... but she takes it out on poor Tobin.

She's getting there though. She snuggled up with him on the couch last night - that's progress.

]]> Tue, 27 Mar 2007 14:03:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=123035&title=vicarious-living-version-3#123035 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=123009&title=vicarious-living-version-3#123009 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 5595
Posted: 27 March 2007 at 1:27pm

so its all still good then?? ]]> Tue, 27 Mar 2007 13:27:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=123009&title=vicarious-living-version-3#123009 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=122973&title=vicarious-living-version-3#122973 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 5595
Posted: 27 March 2007 at 12:43pm

]]> Tue, 27 Mar 2007 12:43:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=122973&title=vicarious-living-version-3#122973 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=122342&title=vicarious-living-version-3#122342 Author: james
Subject: 5595
Posted: 25 March 2007 at 4:59pm

awww nikki sounds like you,ve got a keeper ]]> Sun, 25 Mar 2007 16:59:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=122342&title=vicarious-living-version-3#122342 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=122294&title=vicarious-living-version-3#122294 Author: my2angels
Subject: 5595
Posted: 25 March 2007 at 2:10pm

aaawwwww how sweet. I love it when guys do that, not afraid of PDA. ]]> Sun, 25 Mar 2007 14:10:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=122294&title=vicarious-living-version-3#122294 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=122165&title=vicarious-living-version-3#122165 Author: lizzle
Subject: 5595
Posted: 24 March 2007 at 7:50pm

I'm BACK!!! well, in Palmerston with broadband thank god!!! Dad has DIAL UP and only 10 hours a MONTH!!!! I now have ten pages to scroll through.

Anyway, Tobin seemd very nice - but shy but then he had just met me and I think Nikki and I were talking aboput toilet training at one point - people's eyes tend to glaze over then. Medium height I think, dark hair....tattoes I think (should've taken a bloody picture)...pierced...something. Anyway, important thing was that the overall impression was very nice AND he held Nikki's hand down the street (hehehe)]]> Sat, 24 Mar 2007 19:50:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=122165&title=vicarious-living-version-3#122165 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=120696&title=vicarious-living-version-3#120696 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 5595
Posted: 21 March 2007 at 2:44pm

She's in Wainuiomata with a crap internet connection... you'll have to wait ]]> Wed, 21 Mar 2007 14:44:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=120696&title=vicarious-living-version-3#120696 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=120292&title=vicarious-living-version-3#120292 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 5595
Posted: 20 March 2007 at 2:17pm

ooooh Liz, fill us in!]]> Tue, 20 Mar 2007 14:17:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=120292&title=vicarious-living-version-3#120292 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=120181&title=vicarious-living-version-3#120181 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 5595
Posted: 20 March 2007 at 10:14am

Hannah is getting there - she has started saying he is cute now (she says everyone is cute... but Tobin wasn't cute for the first few days apparently). He has absolutely NO experience with kids... but is really trying! And doesn't even come across akward Jute was laughing at him the other day as he has started to get a bit more assertive... Han has picked him for the weakest link in the household and knows she can get him to do her bidding. He's finally making a stand though. hehehehe

I love that he is trying. He isn't overly freaked by the kid thing at all! It's great

Anyway, Liz is going to meet him today (little does she know it) so she can give 3rd party review of Tobin
]]> Tue, 20 Mar 2007 10:14:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=120181&title=vicarious-living-version-3#120181 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=120133&title=vicarious-living-version-3#120133 Author: newmum
Subject: 5595
Posted: 20 March 2007 at 8:43am

Does Hannah love him??? He looks fun]]> Tue, 20 Mar 2007 08:43:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=120133&title=vicarious-living-version-3#120133 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=120119&title=vicarious-living-version-3#120119 Author: james
Subject: 5595
Posted: 20 March 2007 at 8:02am

yay nikki he,s alright lol yay ]]> Tue, 20 Mar 2007 08:02:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=120119&title=vicarious-living-version-3#120119 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=120091&title=vicarious-living-version-3#120091 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 5595
Posted: 19 March 2007 at 11:24pm

ahhh he's HOT! go nikki!! ]]> Mon, 19 Mar 2007 23:24:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=120091&title=vicarious-living-version-3#120091 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=120038&title=vicarious-living-version-3#120038 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 5595
Posted: 19 March 2007 at 9:14pm

We matched in Dunedin too as I made him get his lip pierced with me

Found out about that btw... turns out he was going through a bit of a sh*t time in his life (well, super sh*t)]]> Mon, 19 Mar 2007 21:14:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=120038&title=vicarious-living-version-3#120038 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=120020&title=vicarious-living-version-3#120020 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 5595
Posted: 19 March 2007 at 8:55pm

yeah, he matches!]]> Mon, 19 Mar 2007 20:55:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=120020&title=vicarious-living-version-3#120020 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=119999&title=vicarious-living-version-3#119999 Author: newmum
Subject: 5595
Posted: 19 March 2007 at 7:52pm

He looks like he would "go" with you hehehehe if you know what I mean? A good match ]]> Mon, 19 Mar 2007 19:52:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=119999&title=vicarious-living-version-3#119999 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=119759&title=vicarious-living-version-3#119759 Author: daikini
Subject: 5595
Posted: 19 March 2007 at 10:34am

Oh YAY!! Sounds (and looks! ) like you've got a keeper! Hope you are about to have your own fairytale come true! ]]> Mon, 19 Mar 2007 10:34:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=119759&title=vicarious-living-version-3#119759 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=119723&title=vicarious-living-version-3#119723 Author: Roksana
Subject: 5595
Posted: 19 March 2007 at 9:43am

The way you described him...I thought he would be ...ahem ...different looking (get my drift?)


But he is really nice looking!! (Dont wanna say HOT, as only you would know if he is...LOL)....but looks like a total package!!

Lucky you!! Yay for you!]]> Mon, 19 Mar 2007 09:43:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=119723&title=vicarious-living-version-3#119723 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=119670&title=vicarious-living-version-3#119670 Author: Anna
Subject: 5595
Posted: 19 March 2007 at 6:39am

Oooooo Nikki! He is yummy!! Sounds like he is a darling! Yay for you!]]> Mon, 19 Mar 2007 06:39:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=119670&title=vicarious-living-version-3#119670 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=119657&title=vicarious-living-version-3#119657 Author: caraMel
Subject: 5595
Posted: 18 March 2007 at 10:13pm

Hooray! I was just thinking about this thread the other day because of how sad and boring my life is, and wishing you would update so I could do some vicarious living .
He sounds real sweet Nikki, yay for you guys!!!

Edited by caraMel]]> Sun, 18 Mar 2007 22:13:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=119657&title=vicarious-living-version-3#119657 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=119649&title=vicarious-living-version-3#119649 Author: Guests
Subject: 5595
Posted: 18 March 2007 at 8:42pm

Go Nikki!!!!! ]]> Sun, 18 Mar 2007 20:42:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=119649&title=vicarious-living-version-3#119649 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=119645&title=vicarious-living-version-3#119645 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 5595
Posted: 18 March 2007 at 8:36pm

HOT!!!!! Yup!!!!!!!mmmm hmmmm and the fact he owns and wears a belt and his pants fit and he has tats and long hair..... well, that just does it. He's a keeper.]]> Sun, 18 Mar 2007 20:36:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=119645&title=vicarious-living-version-3#119645 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=119580&title=vicarious-living-version-3#119580 Author: AlyAyde
Subject: 5595
Posted: 18 March 2007 at 2:08pm

YAY for the pants.

And he is HOT! Looking forward to further updates. ]]> Sun, 18 Mar 2007 14:08:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=119580&title=vicarious-living-version-3#119580 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=119577&title=vicarious-living-version-3#119577 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 5595
Posted: 18 March 2007 at 1:56pm

Stole photo



ETA for Annie and Maria - pants definitely fit. First thing I look for and yep, he wears a belt.

Edited by nikkiwhyte]]> Sun, 18 Mar 2007 13:56:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=119577&title=vicarious-living-version-3#119577 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=119573&title=vicarious-living-version-3#119573 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 5595
Posted: 18 March 2007 at 1:41pm

Just wanted to update you all... Tobin is here. And he's so sweet! Been here a week and honestly... so easy! And cuddly! And helpful! And such a freaking breath of fresh air.

It's only the first week, but if it continues like this then

Now... let me see if I can find a pic of him ]]> Sun, 18 Mar 2007 13:41:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=119573&title=vicarious-living-version-3#119573 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=109707&title=vicarious-living-version-3#109707 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 5595
Posted: 13 February 2007 at 7:30pm

Nikki, he sounds hot, (as long as he wears pants that fit, like maria pointed out..)]]> Tue, 13 Feb 2007 19:30:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=109707&title=vicarious-living-version-3#109707 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=109623&title=vicarious-living-version-3#109623 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 5595
Posted: 13 February 2007 at 2:25pm

I don't think Tobin is the type with the pants around the ankles. So he'll look a bit different to the rest!

For a hard man metaller... he's being awfully mushy. I must admit I'm a little afraid of it after my disastrous "I wanna spend the rest of my life with Zeke" (but not really Zeke - anyone would have done) relationship. I'm too scared to get too involved!! ARGHHHHHHH! You can't win.

Time will tell anyway. I wanna read my damn card. It's in frigging Wellington. (P.S. Wellington ladies - stay away from my mail box! )]]> Tue, 13 Feb 2007 14:25:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=109623&title=vicarious-living-version-3#109623 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=109497&title=vicarious-living-version-3#109497 Author: Roksana
Subject: 5595
Posted: 13 February 2007 at 9:20am

LOL Maria.....]]> Tue, 13 Feb 2007 09:20:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=109497&title=vicarious-living-version-3#109497 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=109466&title=vicarious-living-version-3#109466 Author: AlyAyde
Subject: 5595
Posted: 13 February 2007 at 8:01am

oh yay a valentine. Ill keep an eye out for him, lol. Half only about quater of the ppl here look like that and half have their pants around their ankles. OMG im showing my age, but i wish i could buy them all a belt. ]]> Tue, 13 Feb 2007 08:01:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=109466&title=vicarious-living-version-3#109466 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=109464&title=vicarious-living-version-3#109464 Author: ellabellame
Subject: 5595
Posted: 13 February 2007 at 7:57am

aw thats so sweet nikki!! reading your posts makes me want a valentines day card from a tattooed, pierced, stretched earlobes, Iron Maiden t-shirt wearing male. ]]> Tue, 13 Feb 2007 07:57:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=109464&title=vicarious-living-version-3#109464 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=109429&title=vicarious-living-version-3#109429 Author: james
Subject: 5595
Posted: 12 February 2007 at 10:09pm

awwwwwwwww yay thats sooo kool ]]> Mon, 12 Feb 2007 22:09:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=109429&title=vicarious-living-version-3#109429 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=109405&title=vicarious-living-version-3#109405 Author: Lucy
Subject: 5595
Posted: 12 February 2007 at 9:21pm

AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW That is so cute. Im getting all mushy!! How sweet]]> Mon, 12 Feb 2007 21:21:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=109405&title=vicarious-living-version-3#109405 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=109401&title=vicarious-living-version-3#109401 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 5595
Posted: 12 February 2007 at 9:19pm

haha He's there now... look out for the tattooed, pierced, stretched earlobes, Iron Maiden t-shirt wearing male.

He sent me a Valentine's Day card ]]> Mon, 12 Feb 2007 21:19:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=109401&title=vicarious-living-version-3#109401 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=109323&title=vicarious-living-version-3#109323 Author: AlyAyde
Subject: 5595
Posted: 12 February 2007 at 5:50pm

YAY Go for it Nikki, And catch a ride up to Whangarei with him and come visit me. ]]> Mon, 12 Feb 2007 17:50:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=109323&title=vicarious-living-version-3#109323 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108819&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108819 Author: Lucy
Subject: 5595
Posted: 10 February 2007 at 9:13pm

my2angels wrote: on the pull is going out to find someone to hook up with basically. If your on the pull your looking for some action!!!

Oh i get it. Like pulling someone in, on the pull! ]]> Sat, 10 Feb 2007 21:13:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108819&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108819 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108703&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108703 Author: Lucy
Subject: 5595
Posted: 10 February 2007 at 3:31pm

RachandJack wrote: Woohoo go Nikki he sounds great. Hey Lucy are you from chch? I think we met once at a teen mums plunket group. I'm rachael and Jack is one and a little bit.

Oh yes i remember....How you doing? PM me. I stopped going to those meetings cos i got a job!]]> Sat, 10 Feb 2007 15:31:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108703&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108703 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108537&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108537 Author: my2angels
Subject: 5595
Posted: 09 February 2007 at 9:57pm

on the pull is going out to find someone to hook up with basically. If your on the pull your looking for some action!!!]]> Fri, 09 Feb 2007 21:57:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108537&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108537 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108532&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108532 Author: Rachael21
Subject: 5595
Posted: 09 February 2007 at 9:43pm

Woohoo go Nikki he sounds great.

Hey Lucy are you from chch? I think we met once at a teen mums plunket group. I'm rachael and Jack is one and a little bit.]]> Fri, 09 Feb 2007 21:43:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108532&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108532 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108505&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108505 Author: Lucy
Subject: 5595
Posted: 09 February 2007 at 9:04pm

What does on the pull mean? Ive never heard that before! ]]> Fri, 09 Feb 2007 21:04:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108505&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108505 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108445&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108445 Author: my2angels
Subject: 5595
Posted: 09 February 2007 at 4:53pm

The english have some funny phrases aye. Ive never got the whole 'on the pull' thing. what a strange thing to say.]]> Fri, 09 Feb 2007 16:53:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108445&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108445 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108372&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108372 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 5595
Posted: 09 February 2007 at 2:36pm

go for it nikster! why not? what have u got to lose?he obviously really likes you, come on then u and me can refer to our men as DBs (dear boyfriends) until they are worthy enough to change to DPs ....

come on, u'll get some action, bit of in and out and put the kettle on hahahahahaha ...sorry! im very rude and immature today !

yeah nikki! get in!

(btw get in is an english term it basically translates to awesome! go for it!yay ive just one the lotto! "he" likes me! he asked me to marry him etc etc )]]> Fri, 09 Feb 2007 14:36:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108372&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108372 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108312&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108312 Author: james
Subject: 5595
Posted: 09 February 2007 at 12:41pm

lol lucy
so nikki do you of some fun down this way ]]> Fri, 09 Feb 2007 12:41:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108312&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108312 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108241&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108241 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 5595
Posted: 09 February 2007 at 10:18am

Aw Roksana! Sorry about your accident! I'd have made you a cup of tea or 8 to make you feel better ]]> Fri, 09 Feb 2007 10:18:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108241&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108241 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108239&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108239 Author: Roksana
Subject: 5595
Posted: 09 February 2007 at 10:17am

oooohhhh....nice! Rope him in now.....he sound good!!

Robyn- you are telling me...yesterday I had an accident and I have no Insurance....came home and just wanted to DIE!! Hubby was sooo good about it.....I needed TLC last night but I was tooo down to even bother...Just closed my eye and went to sleep! ]]> Fri, 09 Feb 2007 10:17:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108239&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108239 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108200&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108200 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 5595
Posted: 09 February 2007 at 9:21am

Don't worry Lu - we'll find ya a man yet... or just some fun.

Liz - Yeah... Wairoa His Mum lives there and he is visiting her before he "moves" overseas. And now he's only going for a month!!! haha. (I did think about coming to visit you [and drop in on him] but he leaves for Whangarei soon to visit his Dad.) I do feel a bit bad that I have cut his big OE short, but it's his decision. And he said he'd take me travelling instead

Edited by nikkiwhyte]]> Fri, 09 Feb 2007 09:21:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108200&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108200 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108167&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108167 Author: Lucy
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 11:21pm

james wrote: gooo nikki my friends and fam reconl i need sex but thats a diff storey

You just about made me choke on my diet coke with that! LOL ]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 23:21:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108167&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108167 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108088&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108088 Author: james
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 8:12pm

gooo nikki my friends and fam reconl i need sex but thats a diff storey ]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 20:12:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108088&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108088 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108064&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108064 Author: lizzle
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 7:27pm

oooh, Wairoa is near Gisborne! You could "pop in" while visiting ME!!! but seriously Wairoa??? why???? Oh, and there is a nice park in Wairoa, just before the bridge to cross to turn off to Gissy, near the river...and ice cream store]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 19:27:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108064&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108064 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108053&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108053 Author: newmum
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 6:40pm

We approve!!! ]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 18:40:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108053&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108053 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108048&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108048 Author: my2angels
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 6:12pm

Well boring in a good way.... if thats possible A little romance certainly wouldnt go astray, specially after changing about 10 dirty nappies, going through a box of tissues and either or both of my children crying all day because they are both sick, I'd settle for a back rub and sleep about now    ]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 18:12:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108048&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108048 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108038&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108038 Author: Roksana
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 4:59pm

who are you calling boring.....LOL

Nah Robyn is right...we do have boring lives!! ]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 16:59:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108038&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108038 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108032&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108032 Author: my2angels
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 4:48pm

Yeah go for it. your young, still have a plenty of life left in you so what have you got to lose. Besides if you dont then we wont have any exciting updates to dream over in our boring married housewife lives.]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 16:48:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=108032&title=vicarious-living-version-3#108032 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107988&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107988 Author: Maya
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 3:12pm

Approval granted! ]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 15:12:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107988&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107988 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107983&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107983 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 3:01pm

Don't you worry - I am in regular text contact. Especially because he is currently in Wairoa and has nothing better to do than send me a million texts a day! haha]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 15:01:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107983&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107983 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107982&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107982 Author: Roksana
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 3:00pm

I here with approve you to follow thru...LOL ]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 15:00:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107982&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107982 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107981&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107981 Author: Lucy
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 2:57pm

Roksana wrote: Well then...what are you waiting for??

Exactly my thoughts. Contact him NOW lol and get this started. Not point wasting time ]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 14:57:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107981&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107981 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107979&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107979 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 2:49pm

The approval of the OB ladies ]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 14:49:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107979&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107979 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107978&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107978 Author: Roksana
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 2:47pm

Well then...what are you waiting for?? ]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 14:47:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107978&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107978 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107975&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107975 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 2:38pm

Uhuh.. I already had for the previous 3 years! He was always my "Oh, it could have been so cool" regret. (Even tho he ditched me after our first date. Silly man.) He said he thought about me heaps after I left Dunedin. *muhahaha*

Anyway Roksana, to answer your question about being serious... yes, I'm HEAPS more serious (as in not just out drinking and sleeping around any more ) - that was the issue. He wasn't into sleeping round... that freaked me out because that's all I really had. (Geez - go figure how I got pregnant!) So yeah, it suits me now, and obviously he's still got that committment thing going down. ]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 14:38:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107975&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107975 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107970&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107970 Author: Lucy
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 2:28pm

Yeah id say go for it too! Over the years alot has probably changed and you have probably become more serious. I think you may as well, or you spend the rest of your life thinking "what if"]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 14:28:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107970&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107970 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107957&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107957 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 2:17pm

Shut up Annie ]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 14:17:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107957&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107957 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107940&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107940 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 1:31pm

he he becca, was "loose" a freudian slip? ]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 13:31:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107940&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107940 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107938&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107938 Author: daikini
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 1:28pm

I just enjoy having a real life soap opera play out in front of me! So much better than tv! Nikki, we love you really!

I say give it a shot... what have you got to loose?]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 13:28:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107938&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107938 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107929&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107929 Author: Kels
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 12:55pm

Loving these posts too and totally agree "go for it"]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 12:55:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107929&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107929 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107907&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107907 Author: EthansMummy
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 11:19am

Yip I also love these posts I agree with everyone else GO FOR IT ]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 11:19:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107907&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107907 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107883&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107883 Author: Maya
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 9:44am

Go Nikki! Sad reflection on the state of my life that I get so much entertainment from yours but I agree with your Mum...

CARPE DIEM!]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 09:44:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107883&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107883 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107875&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107875 Author: Roksana
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 9:12am

Like Annie...I love these posts!! He he he ha ha

I say go for it too...but the question is if he is still the same guy, how serious have you become??]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 09:12:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107875&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107875 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107869&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107869 Author: newmum
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 9:00am

I say go for it too!! What's the worst that can happen!? ]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 09:00:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107869&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107869 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107866&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107866 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 8:47am

Choice! Go Nikki! I love your vicarious living posts!
Go for it!!]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 08:47:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107866&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107866 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107863&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107863 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 5595
Posted: 08 February 2007 at 8:37am

OK OK... another guy story.

This one is Tobin. A pierced, tattoed, metal loving man (Annie would love him ). I went out with him when I was in Dunedin but our little romance was cut short because of the ridiculous amount of gossip at our work.... and Tobin being quite a private guy.

Anyway, I emailed him a few months ago (after 3 years! haha) and met up with him before new year in Christchurch. It was cool, we had pizza. Watched Scooby Doo and then he went home. Then I started getting lots of text messages from him... I decided he was Love of My Live Version 3 (Yes, taking the piss out of the fact that I have a new love every 5 minutes. )

But Tobin was moving to Australia... so it didn't matter if he was briefly Love of My Life... until last night.

Now he has changed his mind about travelling around the world and is going to come back the end of March to see me. I haven't ascertained whether he means come back and stay, or come back for a visit. But eeeeeeek!!! I couldn't sleep last night! I wasn't sure it was a great idea... but then Mum said to take a damn risk for once. (The last Love of My Life (aka Ross) was never going to happen... it was a great distraction from school but he's away with the bloody fairies - moreso than me )

So yeah... wonder what's going to happen with this one! Difference from the last two LoMLs is that he is actually a reeeeeeeally nice guy. (That was my prob when we had our Dunedin thing... he was too "serious" for me! In my party fuelled promiscuous days!)

Right. Novel over. Just had to tell someone(s)

Edited by nikkiwhyte]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2007 08:37:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=5595&PID=107863&title=vicarious-living-version-3#107863