OHbaby! Forums : This is driving me nut’s! https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Fri, 10 Apr 2026 14:32:26 +0000 Tue, 03 Apr 2007 17:01:41 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=6526 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[This is driving me nut’s! : Oh man i remember having this...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=126142&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#126142 Author: BaAsKa
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Posted: 03 April 2007 at 5:01pm

Oh man i remember having this feeling!! (when we were trying but unable to concieve) walking around and all i saw was big preggy ladies!!! and then all my close family (SIL and others) started getting pregnant!!!i cried every single time i had to be around them but mostly my SIL cos hers was an "accident" I hated the feeling!!!!!!! and im sorry that you are feeling that way it sux big time!!!!!]]> Tue, 03 Apr 2007 17:01:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=126142&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#126142 <![CDATA[This is driving me nut’s! : LOL I think you are very right...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=126133&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#126133 Author: 11111
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Posted: 03 April 2007 at 4:50pm

LOL I think you are very right there.  Getting too old to look so far forward before I know it i will be 30.  Argh now there is a scarey thought.  Can you believe I remember you at primary school oh that is like a whole life time ago now aye chick.]]> Tue, 03 Apr 2007 16:50:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=126133&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#126133 <![CDATA[This is driving me nut’s! : mmm i know - sometimes io think...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=126124&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#126124 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 6526
Posted: 03 April 2007 at 4:38pm

mmm i know - sometimes io think we are so far looking ahead that we miss all the present stuff though. I have learnt now to just sit back and watch the girls and marvel at what wonderful kids they are.. if i do say so myself.]]> Tue, 03 Apr 2007 16:38:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=126124&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#126124 <![CDATA[This is driving me nut’s! : mum2paris wrote:The nice thing...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=126116&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#126116 Author: 11111
Subject: 6526
Posted: 03 April 2007 at 4:32pm

Originally posted by mum2paris mum2paris wrote:



The nice thing i spose you can remember is that you wil have more, just not right now. I focussed on having as much fun with my girls as i could, even though they don't need me much for th elittle things any more, they need me to expand their minds and teach them all the big stuff now - which is pretty scary. So have fun with your boys, and know that when the time is right it will happen again and you'll have 2 wonderful big brother helpers there to help you out!.

Thank's chick I really needed ot hear all that.  I am sure we will have moer its jsut a matter of when and now is not quite right.  I think part of me really need's something to look forward too and I think that has alot to do with how i am feeling.

]]> Tue, 03 Apr 2007 16:32:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=126116&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#126116 <![CDATA[This is driving me nut’s! : Oh good so pleased I am not the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=126115&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#126115 Author: 11111
Subject: 6526
Posted: 03 April 2007 at 4:30pm

Oh good so pleased I am not the only one.  It is awful.  And yes Rach I was in town today and I swear there were heap's of pretty Preggy bellies around.  Oh well I guess we jsut have to go with it and see what happen's.]]> Tue, 03 Apr 2007 16:30:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=126115&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#126115 <![CDATA[This is driving me nut’s! : deb- YES!!!!! i have the BIG babyaches...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=126071&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#126071 Author: mum2emj
Subject: 6526
Posted: 03 April 2007 at 3:47pm

deb- YES!!!!! i have the BIG babyaches right now! i dont think it is because of others around me pregnant i do know quite a few people having babies this year, but nooone close. it is because i WANT another baby and we have decided not to. and why is it ever where i go i see a big round beautiful pregnant belly?!!!!

i would LOVE to know how to make it go away so i hope someone out there has some advice for us!!! PLEASE?!!!!

hugs deb- i am sitting here with that ache right now so you arent alone hun.]]> Tue, 03 Apr 2007 15:47:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=126071&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#126071 <![CDATA[This is driving me nut’s! : Debs, I went through that sooooo...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=125965&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#125965 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 6526
Posted: 03 April 2007 at 1:03pm

Debs, I went through that sooooo bad last year, I knew mikes decision was 2 kids, and no more, and when he actually booked himself in for that vasectomy I thought , well, that's it then. (obviously it wasn't through some weird twist of fate!) But when all the people who had their bubs at the same time as I had Ayja, were all becomming preggers again, or even having babies, or some were going on to have their 3rd.. I had the worst baby aches. My sister told me the other day she remembers me saying to her after mike had his vasectomy that"I can't help but think there's a little boy out there waiting for us".. which sounds so stuuupid. We definately had not planned this #3, and it freaked me out completely. But somehow, i do know now, that after this one, those baby aches might come back a little once it gets past the baby stage, but 3 is my complete limit now.

I just got on with what i had to do, ha ha, and found a job working with bubbas.. I know you plan to be a SAHM.. maybe you could volunteer sometimes to look after other peoples babys as a babysitting service etc.. it fulfils the want to give a cute baby a cuddle but it's nice to give em back.

The nice thing i spose you can remember is that you wil have more, just not right now. I focussed on having as much fun with my girls as i could, even though they don't need me much for th elittle things any more, they need me to expand their minds and teach them all the big stuff now - which is pretty scary. So have fun with your boys, and know that when the time is right it will happen again and you'll have 2 wonderful big brother helpers there to help you out!.]]> Tue, 03 Apr 2007 13:03:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=125965&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#125965 <![CDATA[This is driving me nut’s! : oh i loved being pregnant and...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=125962&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#125962 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 6526
Posted: 03 April 2007 at 12:59pm

oh i loved being pregnant and want to do it again all the time...and when the boys are good and being cute i think i could - then when i watch them smearing food everywhere or throwing tantrums i get over it... ]]> Tue, 03 Apr 2007 12:59:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=125962&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#125962 <![CDATA[This is driving me nut’s! : OMG nooooo ...... I so dont miss...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=125949&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#125949 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 6526
Posted: 03 April 2007 at 12:33pm

OMG nooooo ...... I so dont miss being pregnant it was the worst time ever!!!!

One day i might do it again....maybe!!!

It must be hard being around all those people who are pregnant tho esp if you want another one....wanna borrow mine? ]]> Tue, 03 Apr 2007 12:33:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=125949&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#125949 <![CDATA[This is driving me nut’s! : I totally understand...there are...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=125946&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#125946 Author: Paws
Subject: 6526
Posted: 03 April 2007 at 12:29pm

I totally understand...there are times when I want to start trying for number 2 so bad it hurts....even on the bad days with Maddie...i love being a mum! Still I know that sensibly after my c-section I need to wait a year (and don't want to face the wrath of Monique my gp/lmc) so I'm sitting on my hands.

I think it really is totally normal though!

As a friend of mine suggested....there needs to be a pill to pluck the cluck!!! ]]> Tue, 03 Apr 2007 12:29:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=125946&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#125946 <![CDATA[This is driving me nut’s! : I have moments of feeling the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=125937&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#125937 Author: Maya
Subject: 6526
Posted: 03 April 2007 at 12:01pm

I have moments of feeling the same way, and other moments I think "I am soooo never doing this again!"

I used to worry that it would never go away and I would just keep having baby after baby and still never fix that longing, but a friend who has just had her last baby told me that she feels done now, that the longing is absolutely and completely gone.]]> Tue, 03 Apr 2007 12:01:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=125937&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#125937 <![CDATA[This is driving me nut’s! : I&#039;m sure a lot of us feel...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=125929&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#125929 Author: ooEvaoo
Subject: 6526
Posted: 03 April 2007 at 11:41am

I'm sure a lot of us feel that way. I know I certainly do!. I mostly miss being pregnant, it's such an amazing experience. I would love to just keep popping babies out lol, but I know that I really need to achieve other goals before bringing another life into this world (like returning to Uni and finishing a degree) things that I should have achieved already but got sidetracked. I really would love to be pregnant again but I want to be able to enjoy this time I have with my son. Then again at the mo I'm doing the 2 week wait (not that I want to) I just don't want to miss out on things with Kahtrell because I'm having to devote all my time to a new baby, Plus the majority of the time I feel like a solo parent (even though I have a partner) I do everything for baby, we even go on family outings by ourselves, just me and my son. Baby is lucky to even have one hour of his dad's time a day. Quite sad really, even though I know he's working on starting up his own business, and works during the day, but you'd think for those reasons he would want to spend time with us out n about. Anywhooos from just pondering on that thought I think it's not the right time for me, I can just imagine it, with no support from my partner I definitely would be a solo parent...... Hmmm don't think I helped lol. But least you know that you're not alone :)]]> Tue, 03 Apr 2007 11:41:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=125929&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#125929 <![CDATA[This is driving me nut’s! : Ok so not sure where to put this,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=125913&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#125913 Author: 11111
Subject: 6526
Posted: 03 April 2007 at 11:11am

Ok so not sure where to put this, but I am having the worst baby ache's now.  I really want another baby ,but I know i have to wait a bit longer.  Has anyone else felt like this?    What did you do to make it go away?   I am almost in tear's about this whole thing and think about it nearlly all the time I know so many people that are Pregnant at the moment which does not help. 

Edited by AlanMikeymummy]]> Tue, 03 Apr 2007 11:11:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6526&PID=125913&title=this-is-driving-me-nuts#125913