https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sun, 05 Apr 2026 12:02:53 +0000 Sun, 06 May 2007 12:56:32 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=7284 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7284&PID=141002&title=feeling-guilty#141002 Author: james
Subject: 7284
Posted: 06 May 2007 at 12:56pm

big hugs busymum you are agreat mum ]]> Sun, 06 May 2007 12:56:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7284&PID=141002&title=feeling-guilty#141002 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7284&PID=140901&title=feeling-guilty#140901 Author: kezplanet
Subject: 7284
Posted: 06 May 2007 at 2:10am

You just have to look at things and realise that you can only do your best - which from chovynz comment you are. Remember you are one person making a difference in your childrens lives, you need to look after you or you will not be able to give your family all that they need. Take a break - you do not need to be wonder woman to be great!! ]]> Sun, 06 May 2007 02:10:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7284&PID=140901&title=feeling-guilty#140901 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7284&PID=140895&title=feeling-guilty#140895 Author: Chovynz
Subject: 7284
Posted: 06 May 2007 at 12:09am

You're doing great. I love you lots. Seriously, you're doing great. ]]> Sun, 06 May 2007 00:09:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7284&PID=140895&title=feeling-guilty#140895 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7284&PID=140880&title=feeling-guilty#140880 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 7284
Posted: 05 May 2007 at 11:12pm

busymum wrote: What do you do when the guilt comes on?

squash it and carry on!]]> Sat, 05 May 2007 23:12:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7284&PID=140880&title=feeling-guilty#140880 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7284&PID=140849&title=feeling-guilty#140849 Author: lizzle
Subject: 7284
Posted: 05 May 2007 at 9:40pm

I eat chocolate to ease the guilt.....hence also having to go to weight watchers. seriouslyt I think part of the job description for being a mum was the constant feelings of guilt. For me, I've found making a schedule for us during the day helped. I could clean the house knowing that i had time for the boys scheduled during the day, and then spend time with the boys later - with the schedule kinda giving me "permission" to not clean if everything hadn't been done. ]]> Sat, 05 May 2007 21:40:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7284&PID=140849&title=feeling-guilty#140849 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7284&PID=140795&title=feeling-guilty#140795 Author: SMoody
Subject: 7284
Posted: 05 May 2007 at 7:59pm

I think about it and then try and put some time aside to just spent time with McKayla. (easy as I just have the one.)

I am feeling really quilty lately as I am spending a lot of time studying and then cleaning house so she is missing out a bit, but going to date my child for a week after exams and just do kiddy stuff and totally spent all my time with her.

House will have to wait a bit and already told hubby he will have to help more that week as McKayla is going to be treated like her mommy's princess and just do kiddy stuff with her. ]]> Sat, 05 May 2007 19:59:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7284&PID=140795&title=feeling-guilty#140795 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7284&PID=140781&title=feeling-guilty#140781 Author: busymum
Subject: 7284
Posted: 05 May 2007 at 7:36pm

Every now and again everything I do kinda overwhelms me. I keep getting feelings of guilt that I'm not spending enough time with the kids, or the kids individually... I know I'm a good mum overall but the job is just so exhausting! What do you do when the guilt comes on?]]> Sat, 05 May 2007 19:36:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7284&PID=140781&title=feeling-guilty#140781