https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Thu, 30 Apr 2026 08:35:25 +0000 Thu, 21 Jun 2007 18:42:05 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=7407 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=164573&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#164573 Author: busymum
Subject: 7407
Posted: 21 June 2007 at 6:42pm

I thought mine was because of retroverted uterus, cause I have felt it at other times too. Although the c/s did make things a bit more tender for a while.]]> Thu, 21 Jun 2007 18:42:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=164573&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#164573 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=164526&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#164526 Author: midnight_sakura
Subject: 7407
Posted: 21 June 2007 at 5:07pm

I have endometriosis as well and i was wondering if that was the cause of the pain. So its good to know that it is related to the CS instead

I even get the pain without cuddles... ]]> Thu, 21 Jun 2007 17:07:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=164526&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#164526 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=164500&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#164500 Author: mamanee
Subject: 7407
Posted: 21 June 2007 at 4:13pm

I am finding the same thing Americanbaby. Although I have this pain on one side of my abdomen/pelvis all the time when I move, it seems to be worse after special cuddles. I guess it's just all part of healing.

Edited by neeandsam]]> Thu, 21 Jun 2007 16:13:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=164500&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#164500 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=164426&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#164426 Author: midnight_sakura
Subject: 7407
Posted: 21 June 2007 at 2:36pm

I find the special cuddles after a CS including being revirginized gives me alot of pain in the abdomen/pelvic area afterwards for a day or so.. does that happen to anyone else?
]]> Thu, 21 Jun 2007 14:36:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=164426&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#164426 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=162206&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#162206 Author: kell
Subject: 7407
Posted: 17 June 2007 at 10:31am

ROFL
Glad you had fun]]> Sun, 17 Jun 2007 10:31:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=162206&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#162206 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=162134&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#162134 Author: mamanee
Subject: 7407
Posted: 16 June 2007 at 10:03pm

I was thinking that maybe I was a bit too quick to jump back on the horse (so to speak)(LOL) reading everyones posts, but then I got to the bottom and I see that someone else (Kell) was quicker than me! Nothing wrong with that though! I had my first special cuddles this morning and it didn't hurt and pretty much no blood either, so was great! So yeah, three weeks and four days after surgery.]]> Sat, 16 Jun 2007 22:03:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=162134&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#162134 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=158605&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#158605 Author: kell
Subject: 7407
Posted: 11 June 2007 at 1:50pm

We waited 2 weeks, the day I got home from hospital DH jumped me lol. It didnt hurt and I was still bleeding but we had a lovely shower afterwards ]]> Mon, 11 Jun 2007 13:50:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=158605&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#158605 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=157932&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#157932 Author: TaylasMum
Subject: 7407
Posted: 09 June 2007 at 10:53pm

We waited for 12 weeks, I was nervous more than anything. My poor partner, I sooo lucky hes very suppportive and waited till I was ready.]]> Sat, 09 Jun 2007 22:53:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=157932&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#157932 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=156866&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#156866 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 7407
Posted: 07 June 2007 at 10:57pm

DH finally got his smile back last week....!!!!

NO mood and seriously I envisioned my scar ripping apart...silly i know but was NOOOOOO incentive to go there!!!]]> Thu, 07 Jun 2007 22:57:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=156866&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#156866 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=156590&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#156590 Author: busymum
Subject: 7407
Posted: 07 June 2007 at 2:19pm

We used lube (quite often until AF returns you will be a bit drier down there) but also found that the more regular, the sooner things stretch. Hehe you don't talk about this stuff at coffee groups either! ]]> Thu, 07 Jun 2007 14:19:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=156590&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#156590 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=156492&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#156492 Author: Two Blondinis
Subject: 7407
Posted: 07 June 2007 at 11:38am

Ohhhh now I understand why it hurts so much!

We (or I if we're bing honest) waited 3 months too, due to never being in the mood (shattered all the time).
It's still tender (in an ouchie sort of way) even now Hope it gets better before we start TTC as it's not a good incentive!

I'm gonna start a new post "Things we should have been told post CS"
]]> Thu, 07 Jun 2007 11:38:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=156492&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#156492 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=155265&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#155265 Author: mamanee
Subject: 7407
Posted: 05 June 2007 at 11:53am

I haven't tried yet as I'm still bleeding but was very surprised after less than a week to be really really wanting to!

But I think I'll wait till the bleeding stops. Blood and special cuddles don't do it for me either.

]]> Tue, 05 Jun 2007 11:53:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=155265&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#155265 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=149300&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#149300 Author: luna
Subject: 7407
Posted: 22 May 2007 at 9:17pm

I think it was about 3 or 4 weeks and oh boy, yeah, it hurt A LOT! We tried again about 2-3 weeks later and it still hurt a lot even with lube.
Can't remember how long it actually took to feel ok, but glad things are getting better for you.]]> Tue, 22 May 2007 21:17:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=149300&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#149300 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=147294&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#147294 Author: Sarah Beth
Subject: 7407
Posted: 18 May 2007 at 4:18pm

right, well we have tried again, and still had pain, but not as much. I think it is a revirginised problem now but in no way did I expect things to hurt like they did.

There are so many things people don't tell you about for post pregnancy!]]> Fri, 18 May 2007 16:18:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=147294&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#147294 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=146050&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#146050 Author: Southlandmummy
Subject: 7407
Posted: 15 May 2007 at 10:50pm

OMG.. I thought it was only me who felt like a virgin again..

I think *I* waited about 3 months, much to hubbys discust..

]]> Tue, 15 May 2007 22:50:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=146050&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#146050 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=144904&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#144904 Author: SuziE
Subject: 7407
Posted: 14 May 2007 at 9:02am

Peace wrote: I don't mean that before I was like hiffing a hotdog down K Rd!

Bahahahahaha!!! After my second vb my doc slapped me on the butt and said "you could drive a truck up there now love"

I felt very tight down there (or up there) after my CS and couldnt understand why.... now I know Im not the only one .... ohbaby is great for answering those funny little questions ]]> Mon, 14 May 2007 09:02:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=144904&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#144904 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=144817&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#144817 Author: Peace
Subject: 7407
Posted: 13 May 2007 at 10:02pm

I think for me it was around the 7 week mark. If it wasn't for the fact that special cuddles and blood make me feel it would have been sooner.
The first time it does hurt. I don't know if anyone else had/remembers this but I had contractions the day after my c/s and it can reduce the size of your birth canal. Not to worry though as it usually stretches out again. I must say though that I in generally feel a lot smaller downstairs now. I can feel when my cervix has dropped (as it does naturally but I can see people scratching their heads thinking - mine doesn't! does it? LOL) when we got at it.
Although in saying I feel smaller than before, I don't mean that before I was like hiffing a hotdog down K Rd!
My friend was actually really surprised when I told her, she just assumed that it was a vaginal birth thing to be tight afterwards.]]> Sun, 13 May 2007 22:02:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=144817&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#144817 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=144423&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#144423 Author: LockieandLiam
Subject: 7407
Posted: 12 May 2007 at 8:44pm

We didn't have special cuddles until about 10 weeks as I was still bleeding and was a good girl and waited until it stopped. Although was rather keen to jump right back in there but waited. From memory it was not too bad did use lub and told DH to be awfully gentle. I can also remember feeling nervous - like I was a teenager again!!]]> Sat, 12 May 2007 20:44:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=144423&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#144423 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=144214&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#144214 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 7407
Posted: 12 May 2007 at 9:29am

it was about 12wks after my cs that it stopped hurting even with lube...but it was 9mths before it was completely comfortable aagain....it was like being a born again virgin...hubby loves it...lol

although i was told off as i should have seen the doctor as it was still hurting...so dont leave it too long]]> Sat, 12 May 2007 09:29:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=144214&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#144214 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=144191&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#144191 Author: Sarah Beth
Subject: 7407
Posted: 12 May 2007 at 8:29am

it hurt inside, basically like I was revirginised, but much worse than the first time. From memory (going back a few days here) it was quite deep inside as well though, so more like cervix/uterus]]> Sat, 12 May 2007 08:29:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=144191&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#144191 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=144100&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#144100 Author: toniellis
Subject: 7407
Posted: 11 May 2007 at 8:32pm

After my first I waited 2 weeks & after #2 I waied just on 10 days
1st time after son #1 I think we used ALOT of lube LOL!
I think it IS very different for everyone too.
If you don't mind me asking, but where did it hurt?? Inside or scar?]]> Fri, 11 May 2007 20:32:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=144100&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#144100 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=143650&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#143650 Author: yummymummy
Subject: 7407
Posted: 11 May 2007 at 2:44am

We tried it first at about 6wks I think and I too found it painful - does not help of course that it's difficult to get in the mood with the baby sleeping in the bassinet next to us
We have tried it a few times since and although improving it's still not pain free. In fact I ended up going to my doc to get checked out 2 wks ago or so and was told it's quite normal for this to happen and there is nothing wrong down there.
LOL Bombshell - my DH is the same! Aren't men funny

ETA - just noticed the title of the post! Mine was vb not c/s

Edited by yummymummy]]> Fri, 11 May 2007 02:44:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=143650&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#143650 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=143635&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#143635 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 7407
Posted: 10 May 2007 at 10:48pm

we are still waiting....heck im still bleeding, DH is sick, and his PA tells story of jumping her hubbys bones 6 weeks after birth of number 2 and thats how number three was made....so am in nooooooo hurry!!!

and not sure mini pill will work.....i love ella but soooo dont need another one yet...hence my total lack right now of being inspired to even try and get him going much....yeah TMI but he is moaning at me that he doesnt think he will ever get it again....LMAO!!! he may be right!!! ]]> Thu, 10 May 2007 22:48:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=143635&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#143635 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=143504&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#143504 Author: Glow
Subject: 7407
Posted: 10 May 2007 at 6:53pm

Im so naughty & only waited a week. Yea i was still bleeding & stuff; but what can you tell your partner half pissed on New Years Eve/ Day. He promised to be gently, coz i was a bit nervous. Yea it hurt a bit to start with, then the tightness loosened up...... or whatever. LMAO ]]> Thu, 10 May 2007 18:53:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=143504&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#143504 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=143461&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#143461 Author: Sarah Beth
Subject: 7407
Posted: 10 May 2007 at 5:44pm

yip you are right Shirena, but we aren't trying to make a baby.

Well we might give it another go, it was tight, even with lubrication, and initially I would have lept off the bed had it not been for dh being on top (oh my way TMI here). If things persist might head to the doctor to just check things out. Can't help wondering if it has something to do with Jack getting stuck]]> Thu, 10 May 2007 17:44:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=143461&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#143461 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=143450&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#143450 Author: SMoody
Subject: 7407
Posted: 10 May 2007 at 5:28pm

Special cuddles? Okay I am going to take this is like how you made the baby right?

I actually cant remember when. I was spotting so damn much on the mini pill. I actually really cant remember. It was a bit tight but it wasnt sore or anything. But then I am like really small down there. (one of the freaking trouble we had for McKayla. )]]> Thu, 10 May 2007 17:28:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=143450&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#143450 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=143265&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#143265 Author: Guests
Subject: 7407
Posted: 10 May 2007 at 2:11pm

We were told to wait till 8 weeks, but by week 4 we gave it a go.
I did not suffer any pain, but was also a bit tight. ]]> Thu, 10 May 2007 14:11:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=143265&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#143265 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=143152&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#143152 Author: busymum
Subject: 7407
Posted: 10 May 2007 at 12:29pm

4 weeks after c/s (7-8 weeks after stitches in the 'other area') ... I was "tight" and it felt like we had to start all over again in some ways, but although sometimes uncomfy I never experienced "incredible pain" ]]> Thu, 10 May 2007 12:29:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=143152&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#143152 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=143087&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#143087 Author: SuziE
Subject: 7407
Posted: 10 May 2007 at 10:55am

about 7 but i found it uncomfortable and painful .. i was nervous too which didnt help... came right probably around week 12 - 14ish ..

I still have the libido of a gnat though ..... just cant seem to get that spark happening ]]> Thu, 10 May 2007 10:55:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=143087&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#143087 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=143043&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#143043 Author: EllenMumof2
Subject: 7407
Posted: 10 May 2007 at 10:05am

i waited till 8 weeks as i bleed off and on for the first 6 weeks and it hurt a little but not to much]]> Thu, 10 May 2007 10:05:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=143043&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#143043 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=142994&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#142994 Author: Sarah Beth
Subject: 7407
Posted: 10 May 2007 at 9:18am

I have a question for all you girls, how long did you wait for special cuddles, and did it hurt.

Dh and I tried last week (5 weeks after Jacks birth) and it hurt, a lot, I really didn't think it would given I didn't deliver naturally and though I expected some uncomfortableness, I didn't expect incredible pain. What were other girls experiences? (if you don't mind sharing)]]> Thu, 10 May 2007 09:18:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7407&PID=142994&title=special-cuddles-after-c-s#142994