OHbaby! Forums : GGGRRRR at everything.. lol https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Thu, 07 May 2026 14:31:46 +0000 Wed, 16 May 2007 20:14:06 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=7526 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : Were her for you hun! Take care...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=146538&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#146538 Author: bumblefoot
Subject: 7526
Posted: 16 May 2007 at 8:14pm

Were her for you hun!
Take care and keep venting to us here, were here to help!
Hugs to you!]]> Wed, 16 May 2007 20:14:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=146538&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#146538 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : That is great news glad you got...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=146530&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#146530 Author: nictoddie
Subject: 7526
Posted: 16 May 2007 at 8:01pm

That is great news glad you got the house , we moved recently and paid rent at two house for 4 days not rich either but was so good to be able to take our time as Tony had not long started a new job so could not get time off, was the best move we have ever down absolutely no stress and moved most of it ourselves just had the big furniture moved through elliots transport, if you move on a monday or tues they do a cheaper rate.]]> Wed, 16 May 2007 20:01:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=146530&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#146530 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : Yay for getting the house Janine!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=146263&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#146263 Author: Maya
Subject: 7526
Posted: 16 May 2007 at 1:12pm

Yay for getting the house Janine! Best of luck for the move, and hopefully the fresh start will make all of you feel better!]]> Wed, 16 May 2007 13:12:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=146263&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#146263 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : lol am starting to feel like a...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=146238&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#146238 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 7526
Posted: 16 May 2007 at 12:54pm

lol am starting to feel like a property manager myself, have had to make so many phone calls this morning and working out dates for leaving and all that. now have to wait for call back from new property manager as they do thing differently which would mean even if we movedont he 30th, their tenency week starts the 25th.. so we would have to pay for that.. our current place we have to give 21days notice.. which they can only backdate till monday.. meaning we have to pay till the 4th.. argh, cannot pay for 2 houses for nearly 2 weeks, would be stupid and we aren't that rich.. so have to ring and see if we can move to new place on the 1st when their new payment week starts from so that our "first weeks rent" pays for the actual first week we are there, not just the week that we are moving on.. argh. crazy stressful darn stuff.

lol but yes overall feeling good.]]> Wed, 16 May 2007 12:54:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=146238&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#146238 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : Wow congrats on getting the house!!!!....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=146230&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#146230 Author: Kels
Subject: 7526
Posted: 16 May 2007 at 12:41pm

Wow congrats on getting the house!!!!. I hope your starting to feel much better]]> Wed, 16 May 2007 12:41:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=146230&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#146230 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : congrats!!! things can only get...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=146186&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#146186 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 7526
Posted: 16 May 2007 at 11:14am

congrats!!! things can only get better for you guys ]]> Wed, 16 May 2007 11:14:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=146186&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#146186 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : Hope getting the house is the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=146125&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#146125 Author: daikini
Subject: 7526
Posted: 16 May 2007 at 8:58am

Hope getting the house is the start of everything getting better and better! ]]> Wed, 16 May 2007 08:58:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=146125&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#146125 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : yay we got the house we move on...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=146106&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#146106 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 7526
Posted: 16 May 2007 at 8:33am

yay we got the house we move on the 30th..

wholly crap we have a lot to do by then. lol]]> Wed, 16 May 2007 08:33:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=146106&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#146106 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : oh mate, I hope the sun shines...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145998&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145998 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 7526
Posted: 15 May 2007 at 8:14pm

oh mate, I hope the sun shines brightly for you tomorrow. ]]> Tue, 15 May 2007 20:14:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145998&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145998 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : Hey chick I so knew there was...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145992&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145992 Author: nictoddie
Subject: 7526
Posted: 15 May 2007 at 8:00pm



Hey chick I so knew there was something up on Sunday I seriously wanted to give you a big hug!!
Hey if your still in discussion about no 3 maybe we could be preggers together LOL !!!
You know where to find me if you need to chat hugs nic xx]]> Tue, 15 May 2007 20:00:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145992&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145992 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : Far out girl, you&#039;ve had...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145804&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145804 Author: Andie
Subject: 7526
Posted: 15 May 2007 at 2:34pm

Far out girl, you've had a STINK time of it - life has not been fair this year.  I hope things let up so that you can grieve in peace.  You're amazing me with how you're hanging in there!  ]]> Tue, 15 May 2007 14:34:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145804&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145804 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : Hugs Janine - best of luck with...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145802&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145802 Author: Maya
Subject: 7526
Posted: 15 May 2007 at 2:26pm

Hugs Janine - best of luck with getting the house, and hoping things look up for you guys soon. Sometimes it seems like it all falls apart at once (believe me, I am Murphy's biggest enemy and yet he still persists in annoying me ) but you get to a point where things can't get any worse, and then they start getting better.

Thinking of you guys and of your wee angel. ]]> Tue, 15 May 2007 14:26:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145802&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145802 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : Good luck with the house. Big...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145670&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145670 Author: Guests
Subject: 7526
Posted: 15 May 2007 at 11:24am

Good luck with the house.

Big

]]> Tue, 15 May 2007 11:24:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145670&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145670 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : awwww janine! what a rough time...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145648&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145648 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 7526
Posted: 15 May 2007 at 11:03am

awwww janine! what a rough time you guys are having lately! something wonderful must be around the corner hun...

when will you find out if you got the house?]]> Tue, 15 May 2007 11:03:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145648&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145648 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : Thanks Ladies, Ginger that&#039;s...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145638&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145638 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 7526
Posted: 15 May 2007 at 10:50am

Thanks Ladies, Ginger that's fine i know what you were meaning, one part of me is like "well why the !!!??" and the other part is thinking "phew, so that's ok" especially cos we are still in talks about trying for another.]]> Tue, 15 May 2007 10:50:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145638&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145638 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145609&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145609 Author: EllenMumof2
Subject: 7526
Posted: 15 May 2007 at 10:31am

]]> Tue, 15 May 2007 10:31:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145609&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145609 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : A good howl is never stupid, especially...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145594&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145594 Author: ginger
Subject: 7526
Posted: 15 May 2007 at 10:12am

A good howl is never stupid, especially when you're grieving. Don't forget that that's what you're doing Janine ...it doesn't matter whether you had your baby for a fleeting time, or you've lost someone who has been on this earth 80 years. Grief is grief, and it tears a hole in your soul regardless.

My neighbour lost his father late last year, and explained to his (now 3yo) daughter that Poppa had gone to heaven. Just a couple of days later she randomly came up to him adn asked him to get her a ladder. He asked what for, and she said that she wanted it so that she could climb up to heaven and visit Poppa. Dealing with kids and grief, when you have so much of your own is unimaginably hard I think.

I feel a bit odd saying that I'm sorry there was nothing wrong with baby, but I know that you'll know what I mean ...it helps I think to have a reason. It's just that much harder if you don't have a 'why'.

I hope that the house works out - it sounds like a little shaft of sunshine breaking through the clouds.

Good luck and hugest, hugest hugs ]]> Tue, 15 May 2007 10:12:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145594&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145594 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : Janine. I have everything crossed...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145580&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145580 Author: Leish
Subject: 7526
Posted: 15 May 2007 at 10:01am

Janine. I have everything crossed that you will get the house.]]> Tue, 15 May 2007 10:01:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145580&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145580 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : your second post sounded a bit...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145525&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145525 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 7526
Posted: 15 May 2007 at 8:17am

your second post sounded a bit more cheerful...and dont forget you can transfer your bond.

]]> Tue, 15 May 2007 08:17:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145525&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145525 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145501&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145501 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 7526
Posted: 15 May 2007 at 7:32am

]]> Tue, 15 May 2007 07:32:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145501&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145501 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : Janine big big . I remember...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145477&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145477 Author: nuttymama
Subject: 7526
Posted: 14 May 2007 at 10:09pm

Janine big big . I remember our year like that, just hold on to the fact that things have to start getting better soon! Hang in there!!]]> Mon, 14 May 2007 22:09:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145477&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145477 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : If you want someone to do some...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145475&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145475 Author: busymum
Subject: 7526
Posted: 14 May 2007 at 10:07pm


If you want someone to do some ringing around for homes or anything, or a place to come chat, give me a call Janine. Sorry your weekend has been so rotten.]]> Mon, 14 May 2007 22:07:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145475&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145475 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : awwww hunny big hugs if it helps...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145468&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145468 Author: james
Subject: 7526
Posted: 14 May 2007 at 9:54pm

awwww hunny big hugs if it helps we are having a suxy year too soo heres to it getting better real quick ]]> Mon, 14 May 2007 21:54:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145468&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145468 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : Aww Janine I hope thing start...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145460&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145460 Author: Bubbaloo
Subject: 7526
Posted: 14 May 2007 at 9:36pm

Aww Janine I hope thing start picking up for you soon.

Fingers crossed that you get the house.]]> Mon, 14 May 2007 21:36:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145460&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145460 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : this house we looked at.. is 4...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145454&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145454 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 7526
Posted: 14 May 2007 at 9:30pm

this house we looked at.. is 4 corners away from central school, 3 corners the other way from my mum's house (hhhmm am unsure if that's good or bad) back section, has been subdivided and this house is pretty darn new, townhouse, everything new, just the right size, really nice, not too many gardens, smaller section.. which is soo good. dishwasher, awesome kitchen.. only $280 per week. awww i am so so so so hoping we get it!

he he Becks, we looked at some around your way, there's one in chelwood st, a couple in bryant st (one we seriously conisdered but missed out on) some in bourke st and campbell st and one in rewa st..all just look so sad compared to this one. and alot didn't have garages cos they are the villa's etc.. mike HAS to have his garage, lol.

haha, only downfall of the new place is that it will cost us close to around $2000 to move, bond is $1000, plus $300 and something letting fee plus one weeks rent, plus hirage of truck etc to move and all the other stuff.

Anyone got a spare $2000? lol.. no, lucky i am a saver by nature.. (and because i never go anywhere anymore so don't get to shop) lol

Edited by mum2paris]]> Mon, 14 May 2007 21:30:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145454&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145454 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : Aww Janine something good is bound...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145444&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145444 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 7526
Posted: 14 May 2007 at 9:14pm

Aww Janine something good is bound to happen. Hopefully you get that house is it still in the area for schools?? I would say come and rent the house next to us i'm not liking living next door to students (a student saying this ) but I don't know how to get rid of them.]]> Mon, 14 May 2007 21:14:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145444&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145444 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : You must definatley be in for...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145439&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145439 Author: Brenna
Subject: 7526
Posted: 14 May 2007 at 9:08pm

You must definatley be in for something REALLY good to come your way
Thinking of you ]]> Mon, 14 May 2007 21:08:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145439&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145439 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : Aw Janine that sucks!!! Some good...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145437&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145437 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 7526
Posted: 14 May 2007 at 9:04pm

Aw Janine that sucks!!! Some good luck can't be far away... hang in there ]]> Mon, 14 May 2007 21:04:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145437&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145437 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : When it rains, it pours, huh? Big,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145425&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145425 Author: Katherine
Subject: 7526
Posted: 14 May 2007 at 8:53pm

When it rains, it pours, huh?

Big, giant hugs for you right now -- it sounds like you definitely need them. And vent away, that's what we're here for!

]]> Mon, 14 May 2007 20:53:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145425&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145425 <![CDATA[GGGRRRR at everything.. lol : Argh have had a rough few days,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145414&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145414 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 7526
Posted: 14 May 2007 at 8:43pm

Argh have had a rough few days, well, month really, anyway on saturday it was one month to the day since our first scan. I had a reallllllly bad bad bad day. the next day i was pretty torn up too with it being mother's day etc, even little things like opening the mother's day card and seeing it from my two little girls names.. and thinking " there should be the baby's name on there"   

Paris is trying to make sense of it all and is sad too, asking lots of questions, as kids do, but little things that are so innocent and sweet. The other night she asked me "mummy, if our baby is an angel up in heaven who tucks it in at night?" That was a curly one.. I tried my best to keep my composure.. but it was hard.

Things have been hard, this week has consisted of seeing another person i know who just had another baby 2 days ago.. i didn't even know she was pregnant. meeting up with another friend who has a girl the same age as ayja, and finding out she's having another too and is just under 14 weeks along.. i should have been over 12 by now. our babies would have been 2 weeks apart.. just like our nearly 2 yr old daughters are (uncanny huh?) and then finding out one of our old neighbours is also pregnant.. only 5 weeks along, but whoa, so so many preggies around.

I just had stupid howly crying all night on saturday..

We got test results back too, which.. ta-da.. confirmed that there had been absolutely nothing wrong.. i had been hopeful of having some closure - instead the phone call left me very very angry. Lucky no one was home cos i got off the phone and just kinda yelled "well, why the ... ??!!! what a load of..." I knew they can't tell you causes, just tell you if there was something wrong. but still, it just brought it home to me how futile and stupid it all was/is.

That and finally, after having 1 week without hot water.. (this happened the week i had my D&C.. landlord took his sweet time to fix it!) the gas cylinder got fixed, only to have them tell us the same day that they have decided to put the house on the market.. from THIS week. so in all this we have to now find a new house, we have looked at a new place today and it is sooo nice, very new, very tidy, perfect for us, we have to wait till tomorrow to see if we have gotten it.. god i hope we have gotten it, i have no idea what will happen if we don't.. all the other places around there are just not that great.

Am seriously getting really annoyed.. so far this year has been very very bad for us. it better darn-well change.

Sorry for venting, just getting very sick of everything right now.

GGGGRRR life is so unfair sometimes.



Edited by mum2paris]]> Mon, 14 May 2007 20:43:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7526&PID=145414&title=gggrrrr-at-everything-lol#145414