https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Tue, 28 Apr 2026 15:55:18 +0000 Sun, 03 Jun 2007 18:53:53 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=7552 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=154642&title=new-board#154642 Author: carley1
Subject: 7552
Posted: 03 June 2007 at 6:53pm

Hi all, thanks for your words of support and thank you for visiting Julia's site.
Thanks busymum for putting the link on for Julia's site we have been away for a couple of days so hadn't been in here.

I am still having my good days and bad days and it still cuts to the quick when I see women with newborn babies. Before we lost Julia I was the knid of person who would ask to hold other peoples children and babies but since we lost Julia I haven't held a newborn, it is just osmething that I can't bring myself to do. I also haven't been able to go and meet my nephew as he was born a month before we lost our wee girl, and I know that I won't be able to handle that. I have tried to explain it to my brother so hopefully he understands. ]]> Sun, 03 Jun 2007 18:53:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=154642&title=new-board#154642 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=154579&title=new-board#154579 Author: emachan
Subject: 7552
Posted: 03 June 2007 at 5:02pm

Carley - what a beautiful wee girl Julia-Rose was - I cried when I read her website. Thank you for sharing Julia's short life with us. Hugs and support from me to you. ]]> Sun, 03 Jun 2007 17:02:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=154579&title=new-board#154579 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=154406&title=new-board#154406 Author: busymum
Subject: 7552
Posted: 03 June 2007 at 9:25am

Julia Rose's website is in Carley's profile: linky

I have no words for you Carley, I lost a baby through m/c but it was very early and I didn't have the plans you had, nor see her face. When I read your story I

Edited by busymum]]> Sun, 03 Jun 2007 09:25:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=154406&title=new-board#154406 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=154370&title=new-board#154370 Author: emachan
Subject: 7552
Posted: 02 June 2007 at 10:50pm

Hi Carley - I was wondering what Julia Roses website address was to have a look at - I am so sorry for your loss ]]> Sat, 02 Jun 2007 22:50:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=154370&title=new-board#154370 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=150663&title=new-board#150663 Author: Andie
Subject: 7552
Posted: 25 May 2007 at 3:01pm

I apologise if it sounds trite, given what you've been through,. but Emma, Kiwigal, Sherree, Carley & Janine, you are all so very strong for getting through your loss.  I don't know how you've done it, but you're all amazing.  I'm so sorry that anyone ever has to go through losing a child.  ]]> Fri, 25 May 2007 15:01:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=150663&title=new-board#150663 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=148387&title=new-board#148387 Author: carley1
Subject: 7552
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 11:58am

I was 26wks when we lost Julia, so i was officially in countdown mode, now all I think is is that I should have a three month old baby now not grieving the lost of a much loved and wanted daughter, that was to complete our family. ]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 11:58:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=148387&title=new-board#148387 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=148183&title=new-board#148183 Author: kiwigal
Subject: 7552
Posted: 20 May 2007 at 10:51pm

How far a long were you girls? I got to 31 weeks ]]> Sun, 20 May 2007 22:51:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=148183&title=new-board#148183 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=148170&title=new-board#148170 Author: carley1
Subject: 7552
Posted: 20 May 2007 at 10:26pm

Hi all, am new to this place. Sadly we lost our precious we girl Julia Rose-Joy on the 3rd November 2006 to stillbirth. This had to be the most heartwrenching time of my life. I thought for sure that I would die also. Please check out Julia's website for full details of her birth. ]]> Sun, 20 May 2007 22:26:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=148170&title=new-board#148170 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=147831&title=new-board#147831 Author: kiwigal
Subject: 7552
Posted: 19 May 2007 at 10:32pm

Sheree so sorry for your loss my baby died 11 years ago.]]> Sat, 19 May 2007 22:32:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=147831&title=new-board#147831 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=146529&title=new-board#146529 Author: Kels
Subject: 7552
Posted: 16 May 2007 at 8:01pm

Sheree, Welcome to you and Jack to Ohbaby! im very sorry to hear of your loss of your wee man Kaleb.]]> Wed, 16 May 2007 20:01:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=146529&title=new-board#146529 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=146416&title=new-board#146416 Author: Bubbaloo
Subject: 7552
Posted: 16 May 2007 at 4:22pm

I'm very sorry to hear of your loss Sheree and welcome to OhBaby.]]> Wed, 16 May 2007 16:22:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=146416&title=new-board#146416 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=146337&title=new-board#146337 Author: Kellz
Subject: 7552
Posted: 16 May 2007 at 2:36pm

Welcome to Oh Baby! Sheree. Im very sorry to hear of your loss.]]> Wed, 16 May 2007 14:36:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=146337&title=new-board#146337 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=146325&title=new-board#146325 Author: longdon
Subject: 7552
Posted: 16 May 2007 at 2:25pm

Hi there

8 weeks ago i had a baby boy sadly he lived for one day. Looking for other mums out there, still born/neo natal deaths to chat to.....

Sheree
Jack - 2 anaphlyaxis to egg
Kaleb - our precious son who fought to the end, March '07]]> Wed, 16 May 2007 14:25:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=146325&title=new-board#146325 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=146113&title=new-board#146113 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 7552
Posted: 16 May 2007 at 8:41am

mmm i agree, SANDS is wonderful.. ]]> Wed, 16 May 2007 08:41:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=146113&title=new-board#146113 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=146006&title=new-board#146006 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 7552
Posted: 15 May 2007 at 8:25pm

how bout SANDS? my bf who had a stillborn baby has alot to do with SANDS, they seem like a fantastic group of people, very very supportive.]]> Tue, 15 May 2007 20:25:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=146006&title=new-board#146006 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=145963&title=new-board#145963 Author: Maya
Subject: 7552
Posted: 15 May 2007 at 7:13pm

I don't know of any local Christchurch ones, but I know my friend T got great support from her local SIDS people, she's in Sydney but I can ask her if anyone there knows what's around here if you like?]]> Tue, 15 May 2007 19:13:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=145963&title=new-board#145963 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=145925&title=new-board#145925 Author: my2angels
Subject: 7552
Posted: 15 May 2007 at 5:23pm

I havent been through it but as some of you know my friends we boy has just died of SIDS. I have to say Im really disappointed at the lack of support she has received from the SIDS people. She phoned and it took them over a week for anyone to return her call and then they basically said, we can arrange counselling for you but there are no support groups, website or anything because its not common enough these days. The only websites she has been able to find are america based. Does anyone know of any sort of support groups either in chch or online for SIDS?]]> Tue, 15 May 2007 17:23:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=145925&title=new-board#145925 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=145892&title=new-board#145892 Author: kiwigal
Subject: 7552
Posted: 15 May 2007 at 4:40pm

I went though it nearly 11 years ago with an ex b/f.I got to 31 weeks and had a little baby girl.]]> Tue, 15 May 2007 16:40:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=145892&title=new-board#145892 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=145842&title=new-board#145842 Author: Maya
Subject: 7552
Posted: 15 May 2007 at 3:21pm

Sadly, each year a number of New Zealand families face the heartbreaking loss of a child, either as a stillbirth or in the first few months after birth. In response to requests from some of our members, we've created a new board for you to share memories of your wee ones, and find support and encouragement from others who have also faced loss.]]> Tue, 15 May 2007 15:21:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7552&PID=145842&title=new-board#145842