: 2nd miscarriage https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Wed, 29 Apr 2026 10:47:05 +0000 Sat, 28 Jul 2007 09:59:26 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=8836 <![CDATA[]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[2nd miscarriage : Hey meow, since my mc I have realised...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=187808&title=2nd-miscarriage#187808 Author: emmaohara
Subject: 8836
Posted: 28 July 2007 at 9:59am

Hey meow, since my mc I have realised that probably over half the people I have spoken to have had one or more mc, either before their first or more often between pregnancys.

This does not make it easier for any of us to take, but at playgroup there were 3 woman the other day who had both had 2 mc between the first and second babies , so it does give us hope, good luck with ttc ]]> Sat, 28 Jul 2007 09:59:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=187808&title=2nd-miscarriage#187808 <![CDATA[2nd miscarriage : Yip for so many of us we spend...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=187591&title=2nd-miscarriage#187591 Author: fives_enough
Subject: 8836
Posted: 27 July 2007 at 8:51pm

Yip for so many of us we spend the mjority of our lives using some form of contraception to stop from getting pregnant, then the time you do try and start/continue a family it becomes an emotional rollercoaster.
I too have had 2 miscariages. Both after my daughter when trying for a second. The 1st was at 5 weeks and the second the, (very next month) at 4 weeks just after (I found out). And yeh it was very hard to cope with.
People seemed to think that it made it easier given my pregancy wasnt that far along, and dont get me wrong that would have been alot harder to deal my heart goes out to thoes people that have;
but to my husband and I it was still our little baby that we had been trying for. We were over the moon. When all of a sudden it was gone. So my thoughts are with you kat. Be strong. As hard as that can be
I am just so blessed to have had a beautiful boy at the end of our heartache. He is now 3 months.
I just had to remind myself while we were going through this that I did have 1 beautiful baby and thats more than some are blessed with.

So chin up chicken stay positive and just enjoy practising.!!!:p


]]> Fri, 27 Jul 2007 20:51:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=187591&title=2nd-miscarriage#187591 <![CDATA[2nd miscarriage : Big hugs. Sorry you have had to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=184882&title=2nd-miscarriage#184882 Author: Kellz
Subject: 8836
Posted: 23 July 2007 at 2:11pm

Big hugs. Sorry you have had to go through this. My mum had 3 m/c between me and my brother. The first she didnt know whe was preg and she had a IUD in- was early mc. The other 2 times they were ttc and were a bit further on and knew they were preg. My bro is 3 1/2 yeras younger than me.]]> Mon, 23 Jul 2007 14:11:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=184882&title=2nd-miscarriage#184882 <![CDATA[2nd miscarriage : I only just saw this thread. Big...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=184848&title=2nd-miscarriage#184848 Author: Kels
Subject: 8836
Posted: 23 July 2007 at 1:15pm

I only just saw this thread.

 Big hugs Kat, Sorry to hear your recent struggle with 2 m/c.  Take care!

]]> Mon, 23 Jul 2007 13:15:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=184848&title=2nd-miscarriage#184848 <![CDATA[2nd miscarriage : I&#039;ve just noticed this thread,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=184780&title=2nd-miscarriage#184780 Author: daikini
Subject: 8836
Posted: 23 July 2007 at 11:56am

I've just noticed this thread, and thought this might help:

There's a 10 year gap between me and my sister. It wasn't meant to be so big, and it wasn't for lack of trying! My mum had 2 miscarriages (that I know of) before the successful pregnancy with K, one when I was 4 and one when I was 8. I think she had another one when I was 9, probably a couple of months before conceiving K but I'm working off my memories, without confirmation.]]> Mon, 23 Jul 2007 11:56:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=184780&title=2nd-miscarriage#184780 <![CDATA[2nd miscarriage : Hey Kat, i am in the same position...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=174476&title=2nd-miscarriage#174476 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 8836
Posted: 07 July 2007 at 1:25pm

Hey Kat, i am in the same position as you.

i had a miscarriage at 7wks last october and another one at 4 wks 2 months ago, we are still currently trying as i firmly believe that we will have another healthy baby.

if you are wondering whether you should try again, then my suggestion would be to maybe wait a little bit until you have come to terms with these miscarriages, and when you are feeling emotional better then start ttcing again.

thinking about you babe

((((hugs())))]]> Sat, 07 Jul 2007 13:25:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=174476&title=2nd-miscarriage#174476 <![CDATA[2nd miscarriage : Aww Im sorry, I havent had two...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=174407&title=2nd-miscarriage#174407 Author: Shezamumof3
Subject: 8836
Posted: 07 July 2007 at 9:46am

Aww Im sorry, I havent had two but I just had my first one yesterday and I know how hard it is. ]]> Sat, 07 Jul 2007 09:46:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=174407&title=2nd-miscarriage#174407 <![CDATA[2nd miscarriage : 14 times! that is horrible.....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173929&title=2nd-miscarriage#173929 Author: meow
Subject: 8836
Posted: 06 July 2007 at 2:39pm

14 times! that is horrible.. she must be one strong woman!

I have to say that if it happens a 3rd time, I don't know if I'd want to risk it again Thanks for all your support ladies!

p.s - congrats Aimee, just noticed your ticker!! ]]> Fri, 06 Jul 2007 14:39:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173929&title=2nd-miscarriage#173929 <![CDATA[2nd miscarriage : I&#039;m really sorry to hear...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173922&title=2nd-miscarriage#173922 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 8836
Posted: 06 July 2007 at 2:31pm

I'm really sorry to hear that Kat! Big hugs. ]]> Fri, 06 Jul 2007 14:31:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173922&title=2nd-miscarriage#173922 <![CDATA[2nd miscarriage : Yep, sad huh? She is such an inspiration...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173893&title=2nd-miscarriage#173893 Author: Maya
Subject: 8836
Posted: 06 July 2007 at 1:54pm

Yep, sad huh? She is such an inspiration to me, I just don't know how you get hurt that many times and still get up and keep going, I'm not sure I could do it.]]> Fri, 06 Jul 2007 13:54:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173893&title=2nd-miscarriage#173893 <![CDATA[2nd miscarriage : 14 times! ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173876&title=2nd-miscarriage#173876 Author: busymum
Subject: 8836
Posted: 06 July 2007 at 1:41pm

14 times! ]]> Fri, 06 Jul 2007 13:41:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173876&title=2nd-miscarriage#173876 <![CDATA[2nd miscarriage : Hugs Kat, I am sorry you have...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173867&title=2nd-miscarriage#173867 Author: Maya
Subject: 8836
Posted: 06 July 2007 at 1:26pm

Hugs Kat, I am sorry you have had to go thru this.

I've had two miscarriages, one before Maya and one before the gremlins. I remember reading somewhere after my second m/c that women who have had 2 m/c have the same chance statistically of having an ongoing pregnancy as a woman who has never m/c.

I've met a lovely woman thru another forum (www.thelostones.co.nz) who had 14 m/c and a stillbirth after having her first child, but has since gone on two have two beautiful healthy boys.

Best of luck on your journey ]]> Fri, 06 Jul 2007 13:26:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173867&title=2nd-miscarriage#173867 <![CDATA[2nd miscarriage : My sister had her first child...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173688&title=2nd-miscarriage#173688 Author: my2angels
Subject: 8836
Posted: 06 July 2007 at 8:53am

My sister had her first child then years later tried to have another. She miscarried about 3 times then got pregnant had baby, tried again a couple of years later and 2 more miscarriages and were booked into see specialist and got to the first appt only to discover she was pregnant again and carried that baby sucessfully too and she has had another since then. So yeah as horrible as the journey can be it is possible to have another baby]]> Fri, 06 Jul 2007 08:53:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173688&title=2nd-miscarriage#173688 <![CDATA[2nd miscarriage : Hugs Kat! My SIL&#039;s mum miscarried...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173654&title=2nd-miscarriage#173654 Author: newmum
Subject: 8836
Posted: 06 July 2007 at 8:31am

Hugs Kat! My SIL's mum miscarried numerous times between my SIL and her sister. Obviuosly managed to have a healthy baby again but it must be very hard. Sending you lots of love and support]]> Fri, 06 Jul 2007 08:31:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173654&title=2nd-miscarriage#173654 <![CDATA[2nd miscarriage : hugs from me too. I haven&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173641&title=2nd-miscarriage#173641 Author: lizzle
Subject: 8836
Posted: 06 July 2007 at 7:43am

hugs from me too. I haven't had your experience so can't comment, but just wated to give some support]]> Fri, 06 Jul 2007 07:43:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173641&title=2nd-miscarriage#173641 <![CDATA[2nd miscarriage : So sorry Kat!! Huge hugs from...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173632&title=2nd-miscarriage#173632 Author: caraMel
Subject: 8836
Posted: 06 July 2007 at 2:23am

So sorry Kat!! Huge hugs from me too.]]> Fri, 06 Jul 2007 02:23:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173632&title=2nd-miscarriage#173632 <![CDATA[2nd miscarriage : aw Kat that sucks, can&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173628&title=2nd-miscarriage#173628 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 8836
Posted: 06 July 2007 at 12:29am

aw Kat that sucks, can't help much but big hugs.]]> Fri, 06 Jul 2007 00:29:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173628&title=2nd-miscarriage#173628 <![CDATA[2nd miscarriage : Thanks Teresa. The doctor can&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173570&title=2nd-miscarriage#173570 Author: meow
Subject: 8836
Posted: 05 July 2007 at 10:40pm

Thanks Teresa. The doctor can't do any tests until (hopefully not) a 3rd m/c occurs.]]> Thu, 05 Jul 2007 22:40:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173570&title=2nd-miscarriage#173570 <![CDATA[2nd miscarriage : Awww I&#039;m so sorry to hear...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173556&title=2nd-miscarriage#173556 Author: busymum
Subject: 8836
Posted: 05 July 2007 at 10:27pm

Awww I'm so sorry to hear that Kat, I hadn't known about either. I don't know the answer to your question, I had one m/c between #2 and #3 but not two. Big hugs!]]> Thu, 05 Jul 2007 22:27:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173556&title=2nd-miscarriage#173556 <![CDATA[2nd miscarriage : I haven&#039;t talked much (if...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173547&title=2nd-miscarriage#173547 Author: meow
Subject: 8836
Posted: 05 July 2007 at 10:21pm

I haven't talked much (if at all) about this but I've had 2 early miscarriages since having my daughter. The first I was about 3.5 weeks and the 2nd = 5.5 weeks. The first one was so quick, found out I was pregnant and then 2 days later started spotting. This time (only happened a month ago) I had lots of nausea, tiredness etc.. heaps of symptoms. Went to the doctor, got used to the idea of having another baby, then another miscarriage

I'm wondering if anyone here has gone through a similar thing, having one healthy child and then miscarried more than once, then gone on to have another healthy child? I am worried about what will happen next time, going through a m/c takes a huge strain on me physically and emotionally, I don't think I could handle it again.

TIA.]]> Thu, 05 Jul 2007 22:21:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8836&PID=173547&title=2nd-miscarriage#173547