https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sun, 05 Apr 2026 06:03:21 +0000 Tue, 10 Jul 2007 12:31:32 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=8958 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8958&PID=176409&title=another-discipline-question#176409 Author: busymum
Subject: 8958
Posted: 10 July 2007 at 12:31pm

I don't know if I completely agree with the smacking statement either, but it was filling up my brain and I had to spit out the question somewhere!! It's just so difficult to train children to think for themselves, have self-control, and be obedient - when really every form of discipline is some kind of control. I guess all the variations aren't that different after all!]]> Tue, 10 Jul 2007 12:31:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8958&PID=176409&title=another-discipline-question#176409 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8958&PID=176297&title=another-discipline-question#176297 Author: mum2emj
Subject: 8958
Posted: 10 July 2007 at 10:29am

off topic- i didnt know you were prgnant JD!!! congrats

]]> Tue, 10 Jul 2007 10:29:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8958&PID=176297&title=another-discipline-question#176297 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8958&PID=176267&title=another-discipline-question#176267 Author: JD
Subject: 8958
Posted: 10 July 2007 at 9:58am

I think it depends on what x and y are. But no, I don't think you are setting them up to be manipulative. I also don't agree with the smacking statement either...but prob best not to open that can of worms.

don't think of the negative, but think of the things you are teaching them. *No free rides *you can't always get what you want immediately *part of life is that you sometime have to do things you dont want to.

]]> Tue, 10 Jul 2007 09:58:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8958&PID=176267&title=another-discipline-question#176267 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8958&PID=176220&title=another-discipline-question#176220 Author: james
Subject: 8958
Posted: 10 July 2007 at 9:02am

yep ]]> Tue, 10 Jul 2007 09:02:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8958&PID=176220&title=another-discipline-question#176220 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8958&PID=176213&title=another-discipline-question#176213 Author: lizzle
Subject: 8958
Posted: 10 July 2007 at 8:55am

yes, future politicians i say!]]> Tue, 10 Jul 2007 08:55:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8958&PID=176213&title=another-discipline-question#176213 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8958&PID=176162&title=another-discipline-question#176162 Author: Paws
Subject: 8958
Posted: 10 July 2007 at 7:05am

Short answer.....yes. I need coffee before I can think of anything more meanful to write though! ]]> Tue, 10 Jul 2007 07:05:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8958&PID=176162&title=another-discipline-question#176162 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8958&PID=176153&title=another-discipline-question#176153 Author: meow
Subject: 8958
Posted: 10 July 2007 at 12:04am

Yes, definately.

haha

okay, I need to get some ZZZzzz]]> Tue, 10 Jul 2007 00:04:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8958&PID=176153&title=another-discipline-question#176153 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8958&PID=176144&title=another-discipline-question#176144 Author: busymum
Subject: 8958
Posted: 09 July 2007 at 10:16pm

Here's another curly one for you.

If smacking etc supposedly sets a child up for a bullying mindset, ie stronger person wins, then in the same way, do bribes (when you've done x, you can do y) set a child up for manipulation and guilt trips?]]> Mon, 09 Jul 2007 22:16:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8958&PID=176144&title=another-discipline-question#176144