https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Wed, 29 Apr 2026 13:37:53 +0000 Thu, 15 Sep 2005 14:23:22 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=919 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15201&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15201 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 919
Posted: 15 September 2005 at 2:23pm

Keep it up Roksana I have really enjoyed getting everything together and I too would definitely prefer to choose my own stuff.]]> Thu, 15 Sep 2005 14:23:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15201&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15201 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15195&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15195 Author: Maya
Subject: 919
Posted: 15 September 2005 at 2:16pm

I thought I was all ready for Maya, I had the cot, the clothes, the nappies... but I ended up having to stop at the Warehouse on the way home from the hospital to get the things I'd forgotten like wash cloths (for me), a nappy stacker, a spray bottle for water (useful for cleaning tears postnatally)...]]> Thu, 15 Sep 2005 14:16:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15195&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15195 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15185&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15185 Author: lizzle
Subject: 919
Posted: 15 September 2005 at 10:36am

it's fun shopping with the baby though sa everyone wil come up and ask how old, how much, then start asking weird questions about if your breasfeeding and if you delivered "naturally". Course it can be hard to stop shopping because you see EVERYTHING and think, my child would look sooooo adorable in ALL of this.]]> Thu, 15 Sep 2005 10:36:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15185&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15185 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15178&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15178 Author: Roksana
Subject: 919
Posted: 15 September 2005 at 9:07am



I was telling hubby that I feel terrible that I have got nothing for the baby yet and I have 6 weeks to go....I was making a big fuss and he was feeling a bit guilty....I think if I keep it up he will crack and let me go and do some shopping for the baby.

Janine...I am too fussy when it comes to ...well every thing...so half the stuff people give me, I bet I wont like. Then it is a matter of either going and exchanging it or buying my own. Arrrgggg now I feel stressed out.

Gosh Bonnie...so much to do before the bub comes, I honestly dont know where you get the energy and/or patients? I would just give up!!!!

Wish me luck ladies...so that I can convince my (stubborn) hubby to get the cot set up and go on a shopping spree.....]]> Thu, 15 Sep 2005 09:07:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15178&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15178 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15176&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15176 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 919
Posted: 15 September 2005 at 8:20am

Me either Janine! I like everything to be organised early. I went shopping with my mother on Tuesday and I think we now have everything that is essential so bubs can come any time now - Im ready!! You would not believe how many clothes this baby has - my sister has given me all her daughters baby clothes and as her twin boys outgrow theirs. Yesterday I did three big loads of baby clothes only - and that was mainly newborn and 0-3 months size! Hope its not too big so it fits them for a while!]]> Thu, 15 Sep 2005 08:20:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15176&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15176 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15161&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15161 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 919
Posted: 14 September 2005 at 7:42pm

I couldn't do that I would go crazy nuts waiting to buy stuff til after babes born. I need everything ready months ahead. plus, there's no way you'll feel like going to buy it after bubba's here, at least not for the first few days etc.... i hope your hubbies family is going to go straight out and buy stuff FOR you.. (and that they have good taste too, lol)
will be neat to buy it all at once though... like a shopping spree.. aw, now i want to do that. lol



Edited by mum2paris]]> Wed, 14 Sep 2005 19:42:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15161&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15161 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15156&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15156 Author: bonjovi6
Subject: 919
Posted: 14 September 2005 at 6:54pm

Hey Roksana, long time no hear.
You'll be so happy after your baby shower. Why cant you have the cot at your place?? Its not like you bought it so your not going against hubbys family.
Ummmm, as for the house, we sort of need the outside walls finished(as in, weatherboards on,doesnt have to be painted) and now, we have to have a shed in place ready for the solar panels to sit on. Problem is, we was going to use a neighbours shed and just drag it up next to the house but, we dont think its stable enough to drag, so we thought of hiring a crane but hubby doesnt want to move it up to the house untill the piles are down but now he tells me he cant do that either. ARGH, its all got to be done by the 23rd which is end of next week. He cant do it in the weekend because the plumber is coming this weekend and will need hubbys help. The solar guy cant come, any other time except the 23rd, as he has other jobs and after that he goes away on holiday for over a month. Ive been working on the inside while hubbys supposed to be doing the outside. OOOOHHHHH boy, too much to do and not enough time to do it in. ]]> Wed, 14 Sep 2005 18:54:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15156&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15156 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15151&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15151 Author: Roksana
Subject: 919
Posted: 14 September 2005 at 4:21pm

Good one Aimee...at least you got that done...I have nothing to wash. I bought nothing, as I said my hubby's family thinks its bad luck to buy before baby is born. My parents bought us the cot and yet it is sitting at their house.

I go to the baby room and it is sitting empty....arrrggg

I will have some things after this Sat (Baby shower)!!! ]]> Wed, 14 Sep 2005 16:21:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15151&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15151 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15144&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15144 Author: bonjovi6
Subject: 919
Posted: 14 September 2005 at 3:52pm

Beleive me if I had the choice, I wouldnt be doing it, but I know if I dont do it now, I'll never get it done ]]> Wed, 14 Sep 2005 15:52:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15144&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15144 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15142&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15142 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 919
Posted: 14 September 2005 at 3:50pm

I dont know how you do it Bonnie I need to get the walls in the babys room ready to be painted and I just cant be bothered! Finally got my act together today and washed all the nappies and clothes, and have packed my hospital bag. Was nice actually hanging out all these nappies and little tiny clothes ]]> Wed, 14 Sep 2005 15:50:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15142&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15142 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15055&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15055 Author: newmum
Subject: 919
Posted: 10 September 2005 at 9:25pm

Don't worry about the house not being ready etc. Josef surprised us by being 9 days early and we have been so busy since I only just got his mobile hung above the cot and some pictures hung up in his room tonight! ]]> Sat, 10 Sep 2005 21:25:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15055&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15055 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15041&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15041 Author: bonjovi6
Subject: 919
Posted: 10 September 2005 at 8:52am

LOL, I know how you feel. It really stuffed my whole day up, not being able to see how everyone was going. Still, at least the site doesnt go down very often and like everything, needs regular maintenance.

I'm also ready for baby to be out in some ways but then I think about the house not being ready and think, ummm, maybe a little longer.
My lower back has been alot better since I got my mattress cover back. Its a foam thingy that looks like egg cartons, and boy, what a difference its made. I've only been waking up twice in the night and feel so much better for it. Lets hope, I continue with the better sleep.

As for my house, well, I'm priming the walls today, finally. Its taken forever to get to this stage.
I'm also going to ring the plumber again today and tell him to just come and do the job and stop making excuses. ]]> Sat, 10 Sep 2005 08:52:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15041&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15041 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15039&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15039 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 919
Posted: 10 September 2005 at 8:33am

I have realised that I must be an addict! I havent been able to get on here since Thurs night and I kept checking to see if it was online again and was very frustrated when it wasnt!! My husband thought it was so funny!

Bonnie, hope that all is well. Im really looking forward to getting the baby out now! Still getting really bad rib and back pain - rang the midwife and she agrees that it is probably a rib that has been popped out by bubs and my insides squishing up there !]]> Sat, 10 Sep 2005 08:33:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15039&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15039 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15035&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15035 Author: lizzle
Subject: 919
Posted: 10 September 2005 at 12:09am

Good luck Bonnie. I'm sure everything is fine. Ohh, not long to go now!]]> Sat, 10 Sep 2005 00:09:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15035&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15035 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15023&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15023 Author: bonjovi6
Subject: 919
Posted: 09 September 2005 at 4:56pm

Thanks Roksana. I tryed to do an update this morning but the site was down, then I tryed again when I came back for lunch, still no joy. I've only just come back again and I'm so glad to finally get through. I really missed being able to catch up with you guys.
As Roksana said, all was well with bubs and they cant figure out what caused her to move so much. There isnt really any other test they can run untill she is born. The midwife did ask about the, like fits and asked if she was still having them, I realized then, she hadnt had any since that 2 and a half hour move. We're both stumped. I guess, its just wait and see. If anyone gets these type of movements, I'd appriciate it, if you'd reply, just so I know I'm not alone. Thanks everyone.
]]> Fri, 09 Sep 2005 16:56:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15023&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15023 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15022&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15022 Author: Roksana
Subject: 919
Posted: 09 September 2005 at 4:49pm

I know Ana....
Now I regret even mentioning it!...he he ha ha

Honestly If I grow any more I think I will burst! However my hubby thinks I am sooo cute...and not that big!!! What ever!]]> Fri, 09 Sep 2005 16:49:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15022&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15022 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15020&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15020 Author: newmum
Subject: 919
Posted: 09 September 2005 at 4:42pm

Roksana - remember when you were worried about your tummy not growing, hehehehe ]]> Fri, 09 Sep 2005 16:42:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15020&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15020 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15000&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15000 Author: Roksana
Subject: 919
Posted: 09 September 2005 at 9:36am

I feel...no stike that...I am huge! I dont know how much I will grow in the next 7 weeks...and if I grow any more I dont know if I will shrink back.....he he ha ha....

I know how you feel Aimee...my bub is always finding new spots to hurt mummy! But thank God no backaches yet!!

Got a email from Bonnie...all went well with her appt, but they dont know what caused the baby to react like that? I am sure she will fill you guys in!]]> Fri, 09 Sep 2005 09:36:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=15000&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#15000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14993&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14993 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 919
Posted: 08 September 2005 at 7:50pm

lol ]]> Thu, 08 Sep 2005 19:50:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14993&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14993 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14985&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14985 Author: newmum
Subject: 919
Posted: 08 September 2005 at 5:16pm

Don't worry it will fit!!! ]]> Thu, 08 Sep 2005 17:16:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14985&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14985 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14983&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14983 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 919
Posted: 08 September 2005 at 5:02pm

Hope all was well at your appointment Bonnie.

I have been so uncomfortable today - baby is really digging into my ribs and being active. Really painful in one spot under my ribs and in my back as well. Might sound odd but I think it popped a rib out a bit cos I just gave the painful spot a push and it clicked and not so sore now. Hmmm... that would explain the back pain as well! What a good physio I am - took me all day to work that one out! I really cant figure out where this baby is going to go in the next 6 weeks - I feel so huge already ]]> Thu, 08 Sep 2005 17:02:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14983&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14983 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14944&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14944 Author: Roksana
Subject: 919
Posted: 08 September 2005 at 10:16am

Well, be sure to let us know how it went!

I am positive all is well! ]]> Thu, 08 Sep 2005 10:16:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14944&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14944 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14943&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14943 Author: bonjovi6
Subject: 919
Posted: 08 September 2005 at 10:12am

Oh yeah, the appointments at 12.30]]> Thu, 08 Sep 2005 10:12:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14943&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14943 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14942&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14942 Author: bonjovi6
Subject: 919
Posted: 08 September 2005 at 10:11am

LOL I'm glad the drama q role has been filled.
I have to go into town to see the midwife, so no work on the house today. ]]> Thu, 08 Sep 2005 10:11:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14942&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14942 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14941&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14941 Author: Roksana
Subject: 919
Posted: 08 September 2005 at 10:07am

Sorry bonnie...I think the "Drama Queen" position has been filled....by me!!!! LOL!!

Honestly...I freak out about every thing....that day I had a milkshake from McDonalds (I never have them usually) and now I am worried that I am going to get listeria.....I havent rang my midwife but that is because I have a docs appt today! He he ha ha

Beat that!!!

On a more serious note, it is better safe than sorry I say. So when is your Midwife coming over?

Edited by Roksana]]> Thu, 08 Sep 2005 10:07:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14941&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14941 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14937&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14937 Author: bonjovi6
Subject: 919
Posted: 08 September 2005 at 9:51am

Oh yeah, my midwife finally got back to me last night. She wants to hook me up to one of those fetal heart monitor thingys today, just to be safe.
I kind of feel silly, I dont want her, or anyone else thinking I'm a drama queen, but at least this way, I'll know everything is OK.]]> Thu, 08 Sep 2005 09:51:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14937&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14937 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14935&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14935 Author: bonjovi6
Subject: 919
Posted: 08 September 2005 at 9:46am

I've never been a honey person. Especially since I found out more about honey production. A friend of mine, used to be, a bee keeper and worked in the bee factory so he told me all the finer details about it all, ever since, I've really hated the idea of eating honey.(no, I wont tell you about it, ignorance is bliss)]]> Thu, 08 Sep 2005 09:46:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14935&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14935 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14929&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14929 Author: Roksana
Subject: 919
Posted: 08 September 2005 at 9:06am

I am not really a honey person....dont know why???

I know honey is good for you ..but some thing about it I dont like! I am strange little person! ]]> Thu, 08 Sep 2005 09:06:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14929&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14929 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14919&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14919 Author: Xander&Harmony
Subject: 919
Posted: 08 September 2005 at 7:51am

especially Manuka honey but is so damn expensive!! Woolworths store brand on special was still $8.00+.u can pay as much as $15+ which is a bloody joke!!!!]]> Thu, 08 Sep 2005 07:51:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14919&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14919 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14910&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14910 Author: lizzle
Subject: 919
Posted: 07 September 2005 at 10:14pm

my mum used to get really bad cramps in her legs at night. she swears by eating a tablespoon of honey each morning. don't know if it works, but it worked for her. i figure anything worth a try....mmmmmmm honey!]]> Wed, 07 Sep 2005 22:14:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14910&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14910 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14909&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14909 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 919
Posted: 07 September 2005 at 9:38pm

lol simple way to get rid of leg cramps at the time is to move your foot... ie point your toes then bring them back up to normal again as if you were standing and keep doing that while you massage the area... i used to get really bad ones in the middle of the night at the back of my calves... ouch...

have heard that it can be related to a lack of calcium?

so far the most painful thing i think i have experienced apart from actually having the baby is having symphysis joint dysfunction for like, the last month or so before having Ayja... now i know what it feels like when someone breaks their leg or something. never again do i want to go through that. not being able to roll, move, having to take 10 mins to slowly manouvre myself into a hands and knees position so i can crawl off the bed packward with a pillow between my legs.. and waiting for the huge click as the joint comes back together... argh, all the more reason for no more kiddies.

Edited by mum2paris]]> Wed, 07 Sep 2005 21:38:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14909&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14909 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14879&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14879 Author: Roksana
Subject: 919
Posted: 07 September 2005 at 1:58pm

Gosh only last Friday......that is slack!

Oh well atleast that has been done....I sure hope you had more help so that you could relax, specially because you only have 6 weeks before bub arrives!

Well take care! Try and take some time out for your self!]]> Wed, 07 Sep 2005 13:58:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14879&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14879 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14878&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14878 Author: bonjovi6
Subject: 919
Posted: 07 September 2005 at 1:53pm

Hey vanessa, all of my family are tyed up with their things so cant help much. Also money is always really tight so that slows things down.
Yep that builder did finally show up last friday(2nd). They did a really good job. Kitchen looks so different with a ceiling, almost looks like a real kitchen now.]]> Wed, 07 Sep 2005 13:53:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14878&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14878 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14876&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14876 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 919
Posted: 07 September 2005 at 1:41pm

i know how you feel bonnie! we had a house relocated in april and by august (jacks due month) we still hadn't moved in!
i was in the hospital with jack and my hubby, family and friends were frantically finishing the house, moving stuff and cleaning the old place! lucky for me though eh.
it was hard yakka though, gibbing, painting etc with a huge belly.
*hugs* ]]> Wed, 07 Sep 2005 13:41:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14876&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14876 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14875&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14875 Author: Roksana
Subject: 919
Posted: 07 September 2005 at 1:40pm

Did that builder finally show up?]]> Wed, 07 Sep 2005 13:40:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14875&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14875 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14872&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14872 Author: bonjovi6
Subject: 919
Posted: 07 September 2005 at 1:32pm

LoL, my midwife is always telling me to put my feet up and have an afternoon nap, if only I had the time.
Still I'm getting there with the jib stopping. One more top coat and both my bedroom and bubs room is ready for painting, whew. Then, only the kitchen and bathroom to go. At least, I'm alot faster than when I first started.
]]> Wed, 07 Sep 2005 13:32:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14872&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14872 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14869&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14869 Author: Roksana
Subject: 919
Posted: 07 September 2005 at 1:23pm

Bonnie...Keep in mind, you had loads to deal with this pregnancy...cant be easy!

Try zand put your foot up now (when ever you can)...

]]> Wed, 07 Sep 2005 13:23:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14869&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14869 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14865&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14865 Author: bonjovi6
Subject: 919
Posted: 07 September 2005 at 1:04pm

Thanks Maya. This would have to be the worse pregnancy, I've had so far. Not to sure if its age related, or all the stress of trying to get this house done
Still havent heard from my midwife.]]> Wed, 07 Sep 2005 13:04:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14865&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14865 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14857&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14857 Author: Maya
Subject: 919
Posted: 07 September 2005 at 11:21am

Good luck Bonnie! Sounds liek I got lucky coz I never had anything like that, but then Maya didn't engage till labour so that probably explains it.]]> Wed, 07 Sep 2005 11:21:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14857&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14857 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14845&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14845 Author: Roksana
Subject: 919
Posted: 07 September 2005 at 10:17am

As far as I know Antiflame rub is okay.....Damn I could be wrong!! But I have used it before (once or twice) on my back ....And the bub is okay so far!!!

]]> Wed, 07 Sep 2005 10:17:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14845&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14845 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14843&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14843 Author: bonjovi6
Subject: 919
Posted: 07 September 2005 at 10:14am

Thanks Roksana. I didnt think antiflame was safe during pregnancy. I will have a look next time I'm in town, possibly friday. ]]> Wed, 07 Sep 2005 10:14:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14843&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14843 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14831&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14831 Author: Roksana
Subject: 919
Posted: 07 September 2005 at 9:57am

Oh Bonnie....Just think 6 weeks to go!

Well my bub went from Kicks to just movements (large enough for people to see, as my tummy goes on a wave pattern). I was reading the bounty book and it says that it is normal. And because my bub has these movemnets at least 10 times a day I am happy.

As far as your leg cramp goes, get it massaged with some antiflame and get one of those muscle support things on....honestly it helps (I am wearing one now). Most GP'S have those and physio's. I wish you lived here I could have come over and give you some....My hubby has loads of them (he plays soccer).

Well let us know how you go!]]> Wed, 07 Sep 2005 09:57:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14831&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14831 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14830&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14830 Author: bonjovi6
Subject: 919
Posted: 07 September 2005 at 9:46am

I have left a message with my midwife this morning. Bubs movement is very light today, no big kicks, etc. Normally I wouldnt worry as I know that later in pregnancy there is not much room but it was all of a sudden she changed from really hard kicks etc, to really soft movements. Its probably nothing but, as everyone is saying, best to check.
I still didnt sleep very well last night, heaps of cramps, in my legs again. I think I got about 3 hours sleep last night ]]> Wed, 07 Sep 2005 09:46:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14830&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14830 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14828&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14828 Author: Roksana
Subject: 919
Posted: 07 September 2005 at 9:29am

Bonnie...I woke up in the middle of the night with horrible cramp pain on my leg muscle...I think I pulled it. Hubby massaged it this morning and I am wearing one of those muscle support thingie.....It help a bit with the pain.

My bub is active but not like the way your bub is...well atleast not yet! Gosh I hope she settles down and you dont go thru that again! But just like Janine, I think you should just get it checked (just in case)....

]]> Wed, 07 Sep 2005 09:29:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14828&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14828 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14801&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14801 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 919
Posted: 06 September 2005 at 9:43pm

I don't want to really really scare anyone here... AT ALL... but if you have a worry check it with your midwife... because when baby's in distress.. it will be crazy nuts moving and thrashing about, but just like all of us, after a while, it gives up and goes quiet.    it could be nothing could be just baby having a bit of a party in there, but it's best to get checked..]]> Tue, 06 Sep 2005 21:43:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14801&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14801 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14791&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14791 Author: bonjovi6
Subject: 919
Posted: 06 September 2005 at 5:21pm

Mumstheword says ""im sure if i had of remembered this I would have thought twice about doing it again... its amazing how your mind blocks alot of the bad out so you just remember the good""


Its funny you should say that, I just watched a programme on pregnancy/birth on the discovery channel(I think that was the channel). It said, during labor, the mothers bodys send out a chemical that causes amnesia. If it didnt, how many babys do you think woman would have

As for me, I feel a bit better now. Bubs kicked up a storm for 2 and a half hours, then finally stopped for about an hour and a half. Now, shes making smaller movements which is a relief. ]]> Tue, 06 Sep 2005 17:21:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14791&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14791 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14787&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14787 Author: mumstheword
Subject: 919
Posted: 06 September 2005 at 4:54pm

MM sounds like me and im omly 22wks but ive got all that.. Ive run out of room for baby and babys getting annoyed with being squashed I think, I can tremember the last time I was comfortable sigh...... i feel like my sides are going to split, and no mattter what I do or how I lie or sit im un comfortable and im already gettin greally short of breath... I never remembered it being this duanting with Caleb but mum informs me it was just like this, im sure if i had of remembered this I would have thouoght twice about doing it again... its amazing how your mind blocks alot tof the bad out so you just remember the good.. ]]> Tue, 06 Sep 2005 16:54:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14787&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14787 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14778&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14778 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 919
Posted: 06 September 2005 at 3:53pm

yep, i remember the stretching pain. wasn't very nice at all.
also remember the electic shocks. they were just kinda funny tho.
hope the babe lets up soon and both of you get some sleep]]> Tue, 06 Sep 2005 15:53:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14778&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14778 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14766&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14766 Author: newmum
Subject: 919
Posted: 06 September 2005 at 11:08am

Yep, I had that shock thing too, lots! Call your midwife if you are worried though. ]]> Tue, 06 Sep 2005 11:08:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14766&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14766 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14765&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14765 Author: AlyAyde
Subject: 919
Posted: 06 September 2005 at 11:06am

have you phoned your midwife. If she has been really active for 2 hours without a break she could be having a bit of distress for whatever reason, although unlikely. If i were you i would get myself checked just for peace of mind. The ache and the shock feeling sounds very familiar.]]> Tue, 06 Sep 2005 11:06:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14765&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14765 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14764&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14764 Author: bonjovi6
Subject: 919
Posted: 06 September 2005 at 10:29am

Yeah sort of. Either like shocks or shes scatching my insides with her nails. Its now been 2 hours and she hasnt let up with the movements. The pain is really tiring me out. My whole pelvis is starting to really ache because of all the movements.
I've tryed walking around but its not helping. ]]> Tue, 06 Sep 2005 10:29:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14764&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14764 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14763&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14763 Author: AlyAyde
Subject: 919
Posted: 06 September 2005 at 10:22am

yep! Sounds like she might have dropped. Does it kind of feel like electric shocks? Thats what it felt like with me anyway. But if you are at all worried you should phone your midwife, thats what she is there for.]]> Tue, 06 Sep 2005 10:22:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14763&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14763 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14761&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14761 Author: bonjovi6
Subject: 919
Posted: 06 September 2005 at 9:55am

Man I feel bad, last night I woke up with the stretching pain on one side of my belly, but it really hurt. Then I woke up again because of a cramp in my leg(which still hurts). I'm soooo tired. Now, bubs has been moving for over an hour and what ever shes hitting is sending shooting pains from my pelvic area up. She also must be sitting pretty low because I can feel punches, low down in my,, um,, where she will come out(sorry cant even think of the right names for things, tooo tired). I feel sick as well and her movements are quite painfull.
Sorry, but just had to have a moan. Any one else got/had this?]]> Tue, 06 Sep 2005 09:55:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=919&PID=14761&title=i-feel-terrible-really-bad-night#14761