OHbaby! Forums : been a little stressed out https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Fri, 01 May 2026 13:53:48 +0000 Mon, 23 Jul 2007 17:19:26 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=9342 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : Wow BS - thats aweful what they...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=185067&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#185067 Author: hailstones
Subject: 9342
Posted: 23 July 2007 at 5:19pm

Wow BS - thats aweful what they have done to you , no wonder you have been stressed!!!! But congrats on the new job, sounds like it will be better for you!! Now you REALLY deserve that holiday!!! ]]> Mon, 23 Jul 2007 17:19:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=185067&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#185067 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : thanks guys.... and yes Ginger...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184590&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184590 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 9342
Posted: 22 July 2007 at 9:08pm

thanks guys....

and yes Ginger I hope to see Terry this week....hilites to make me feel better here i come....anyone wanna babysit BBS for me while i am there...LMAO!!!]]> Sun, 22 Jul 2007 21:08:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184590&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184590 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : Well, you know how I feel about...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184513&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184513 Author: Rackhell
Subject: 9342
Posted: 22 July 2007 at 6:48pm

Well, you know how I feel about what your work did to you...

And I'm really pleased that you've found a new job that by the sounds of things also has better prospects and a better live/work premise as well. Always here for you, you know that.

x to you.]]> Sun, 22 Jul 2007 18:48:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184513&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184513 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : So sorry that you had all that...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184391&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184391 Author: Leish
Subject: 9342
Posted: 22 July 2007 at 9:47am

So sorry that you had all that stress chick but glad that it seems that things have worked and are working themselves out for you, Ella and BSDH. That does really $uck the way that they went about doing things though - after you took your 8 week old baby in to work to help them out!! Some thanks I agree.

Hugs though. Hope you REALLY enjoy your holiday now. ]]> Sun, 22 Jul 2007 09:47:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184391&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184391 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : You go girl!!!! The new job sounds...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184377&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184377 Author: peanut butter
Subject: 9342
Posted: 22 July 2007 at 8:58am

You go girl!!!! The new job sounds great. New baby, new start. Forget the other bastards and enjoy yourself!]]> Sun, 22 Jul 2007 08:58:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184377&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184377 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : Congratulations on the new job...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184367&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184367 Author: Mama2two
Subject: 9342
Posted: 22 July 2007 at 12:17am

Congratulations on the new job Ro. Glad everything worked out for the better ]]> Sun, 22 Jul 2007 00:17:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184367&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184367 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : I&#039;m glad it&#039;s working...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184310&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184310 Author: ginger
Subject: 9342
Posted: 21 July 2007 at 9:51pm

I'm glad it's working itself out BS, but what a load to carry in the meantime

Possibly the stress has also helped keep AF away ...?

I'm also glad that the new situation is better for you, and Ella and BSDH as well - I hope you're really happy in your new job and you sooo deserve your holiday!

Now, go and see Terry - he will make all grey hair go away!

P.S. We all understand the need to seek specific support from time to time - we're just glad it's all becoming OK for you. ]]> Sat, 21 Jul 2007 21:51:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184310&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184310 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : Everything seems to happen for...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184299&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184299 Author: Redbedrock
Subject: 9342
Posted: 21 July 2007 at 9:28pm

Everything seems to happen for a reason, you seem to have got a better job out of all this stress.
Good for you, now relax]]> Sat, 21 Jul 2007 21:28:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184299&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184299 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : the new job is closer to home...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184283&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184283 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 9342
Posted: 21 July 2007 at 9:09pm

the new job is closer to home which is good.
I start towards the end of Aug which is perfect as i can settle ella into daycare well and truly, and I now feel a lot less guilty about going to oz and spending money that we may have otherwise needed to save if i hadnt have found a job!

a heads up that it was a possibility of redundnacy would have been nice pre mat leave but they didnt even give me that - and i kinda feel used for going back and helpling them out when I could have been sitting on my butt at home...some thanks huh? oh well....

I just couldnt bring myself to vent on here at the time...so sorry if i ignored any questions re work etc or refused to tell anyone what Katherine and Emma and i were talking about (Deb (GandT) this was it!!!)

Kate - will keep u posted no worries there! ]]> Sat, 21 Jul 2007 21:09:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184283&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184283 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : awww hun that suxs about your...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184274&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184274 Author: james
Subject: 9342
Posted: 21 July 2007 at 8:55pm

awww hun that suxs about your old job i was fried from a job and that was stressrful anuff i,m glad that everything has worked out for you ]]> Sat, 21 Jul 2007 20:55:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184274&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184274 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : How stressful! But I guess at...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184261&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184261 Author: miss
Subject: 9342
Posted: 21 July 2007 at 8:37pm

How stressful! But I guess at least when one door coses, another opens - good luck with the new position!]]> Sat, 21 Jul 2007 20:37:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184261&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184261 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : I would have been stressed too...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184255&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184255 Author: yummymummy
Subject: 9342
Posted: 21 July 2007 at 8:30pm

I would have been stressed too if I were you! Best of luck with the new job! And enjoy that holiday! ]]> Sat, 21 Jul 2007 20:30:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184255&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184255 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : Glad things have worked out in...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184232&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184232 Author: busymum
Subject: 9342
Posted: 21 July 2007 at 8:07pm

Glad things have worked out in the end but that wasn't very nice.]]> Sat, 21 Jul 2007 20:07:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184232&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184232 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : I feel your pain Ro, I got made...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184229&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184229 Author: Guests
Subject: 9342
Posted: 21 July 2007 at 8:02pm

I feel your pain Ro, I got made redundant while I was on mat leave too - the alternative was moving to Hawera

But I'm only just now starting to look for work, and half-assed at that... so glad to hear things look to be working out for you !! ]]> Sat, 21 Jul 2007 20:02:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184229&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184229 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : Yay for getting a new job, but...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184227&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184227 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 9342
Posted: 21 July 2007 at 7:58pm

Yay for getting a new job, but no yay for the way they treated you. Have fun on that holiday.]]> Sat, 21 Jul 2007 19:58:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184227&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184227 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : Your poor thing, that must have...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184213&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184213 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 9342
Posted: 21 July 2007 at 7:35pm

Your poor thing, that must have made you feel like sh!t to be treated like that. I'm pleased you have got a better job (fromt he sounds of things) and what an excuse (like you need one, lol) to go shopping. All the best! ]]> Sat, 21 Jul 2007 19:35:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184213&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184213 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : BS sorry to hear that you went...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184211&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184211 Author: Bubbaloo
Subject: 9342
Posted: 21 July 2007 at 7:34pm

BS sorry to hear that you went through that but glad you got a good outcome in the end hope the new Job goes well and good luck with it you must be really looking forward to that holiday now shop to you drop and have a great time. ]]> Sat, 21 Jul 2007 19:34:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184211&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184211 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : BS, I am sorry to hear how stressful...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184203&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184203 Author: Guests
Subject: 9342
Posted: 21 July 2007 at 7:26pm

BS, I am sorry to hear how stressful you had it!
BUT I am pleased it is now back on track for you!

]]> Sat, 21 Jul 2007 19:26:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184203&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184203 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : Wow, nasty BS!!! Am glad everything...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184198&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184198 Author: minik8e
Subject: 9342
Posted: 21 July 2007 at 7:17pm

Wow, nasty BS!!! Am glad everything has worked out (fingers crossed) for the better for you - you'll have to let me know where you're going now!! I'm facing the same circumstances at the end of the year, but at least I've been given a heck of a lot more notice. Congrats on the new job!!]]> Sat, 21 Jul 2007 19:17:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184198&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184198 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : Woohoo, go BS! I am sooooo glad...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184197&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184197 Author: Maya
Subject: 9342
Posted: 21 July 2007 at 7:15pm

Woohoo, go BS! I am sooooo glad to hear it's all worked (working) out for you! Now enjoy that holiday girl coz Lord knows you need the stress relief of shopping!]]> Sat, 21 Jul 2007 19:15:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184197&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184197 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : Congratulations on your new job...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184184&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184184 Author: susieq
Subject: 9342
Posted: 21 July 2007 at 6:57pm

Congratulations on your new job and hope it is close to where you live]]> Sat, 21 Jul 2007 18:57:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184184&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184184 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : Oh dear Bombshell it doesn&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184183&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184183 Author: sally belly
Subject: 9342
Posted: 21 July 2007 at 6:55pm

Oh dear Bombshell it doesn't sound like it's been a great few weeks for you. Glad to hear it has all worked out in the end & you have a new & well paid position. When will you start?

Best of luck.]]> Sat, 21 Jul 2007 18:55:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184183&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184183 <![CDATA[been a little stressed out : ok so have been a little stressed...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184182&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184182 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 9342
Posted: 21 July 2007 at 6:48pm

ok so have been a little stressed out lately, and shed heaps of tears when this first happened - i know a lot of people werent aware of it = and only going to write about it in brief but here goes...(and no I am not pregnant!!!)

I went on mat leave, then went back to another of our companies offices when Ella was 2 months to help them out! WEll for my trouble the boss from my office came over about three weeks ago to inform me that at the end of my mat leave there was no job for me to go back to and i was being made redundant - yes they can do that. My office is no longer doing the work i do and i was offered a job in the albany office in lieu = which they should do. Well Im not going all that way (we live east auck and albany is on nth shore) so am out of a job!

Anyways they then tried to screw me on my pay for a few weeks i was meant to paid for the other office work, and then offered to pay me my holiday pay in sept!!! of course i wont write my response to that here...but basically i said pay me NOW!

anyways now all paid...was quite a bit!!! have been interviewing and having to get DH to look after Ella while i interview etc - and no fun at 4 months post preggy to try and fit a suit so had to borrow a jacket!!!

anyways as of last nite i have a new job (fingers crossed as about to sign on dotted line) and better pay and future than where i left - so all turned out for best BUT OMFG i have been soooo stressed!!!! My hair is much greyer than usual!!!

Sorry to keep from some of you but was dealing with this on my own = and thank you to Katherine for letting me vent big time!!! I feel so much better today knowing my future is back on track...]]> Sat, 21 Jul 2007 18:48:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9342&PID=184182&title=been-a-little-stressed-out#184182