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   <title><![CDATA[Argh the dilemna! : sorry it was a BFN! but good sign...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17545">noodle</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 9571<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 01 August 2007 at 2:26pm<br /><br />sorry it was a BFN! but good sign that AF hasn't showen her ugly face! hopefully a BFP is just around the corner  <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Argh the dilemna! : lol I dug thru the rubbish as...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17548">Rachael21</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 9571<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 01 August 2007 at 11:11am<br /><br />lol I dug thru the rubbish as well.<br /><br />All the best Theresa ]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Argh the dilemna! : Fingers crossed Busymum your see...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17511">Kels</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 9571<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 July 2007 at 8:48pm<br /><br />Fingers crossed Busymum your see a BFP very soon!]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Argh the dilemna! :   emachan wrote:Do you ladies...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17503">11111</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 9571<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 July 2007 at 8:22pm<br /><br /><P><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by emachan" alt="Originally posted by emachan" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>emachan wrote:</strong><br /><br />Do you ladies hold up your tests to the light and check all angles for a *faint* line like I do - just holding your breath with hope?? and those dang things aren't cheap either!!!</td></tr></table> </P><P>yes all the time.&nbsp; funny thing is I even pulled it out of the rubbish the next day jsut to be sure there was no line.&nbsp; That is what happened with Mikey I did a test and I did not look hard enough so thought it was BFN then 3 day's later did another one and got a BFP.&nbsp;&nbsp; Checked the first one and could see a faint line.</P>]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Argh the dilemna! : I did today Em. I really don&amp;#039;t...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=2583">busymum</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 9571<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 July 2007 at 8:14pm<br /><br />I did today Em. I really don't know what I want! On the one hand I was kinda relieved and can enjoy my 3 a bit longer. But on the other hand, I lost count how many times I dug through the (not much) rubbish to check if the lines had changed. Weird me! When I told DH (by msn) that I had a BFN, he replied: <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley6.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley6.gif" border="0"> About says it all really.]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Argh the dilemna! : Do you ladies hold up your tests...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18052">emachan</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 9571<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 July 2007 at 7:59pm<br /><br />Do you ladies hold up your tests to the light and check all angles for a *faint* line like I do - just holding your breath with hope?? and those dang things aren't cheap either!!!]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Argh the dilemna! : But then I&amp;#039;ll use them heaps...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=2583">busymum</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 9571<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 July 2007 at 6:53pm<br /><br />But then I'll use them heaps more often Deb <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Argh the dilemna! : ah well, not everyone on the board...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=682">Bizzy</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 9571<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 July 2007 at 4:43pm<br /><br />ah well, not everyone on the board can be pregnant.<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0"><br /><br />maybe you should buy the tests when you dont need them so you have them ready and you dont feel like you are wasting money...??!! ]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Argh the dilemna! : Fingers crossed busymum - I hope...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17772">minik8e</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 9571<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 July 2007 at 4:22pm<br /><br />Fingers crossed busymum - I hope it does turn into a BFP for you and that it's just too early...]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Argh the dilemna! : awww I aske din the other thread...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=16254">AnnC</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 9571<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 July 2007 at 2:31pm<br /><br />awww I aske din the other thread if you had tested yet.. it maybe too early or you may get your AF soon... fingers crossed for you.]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Argh the dilemna! : LOL yes you did now that I re-read...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18300">Emmecat</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 9571<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 July 2007 at 1:33pm<br /><br />LOL yes you did now that I re-read it! So there you go, perhaps you a just a late tester like moi?! <IMG src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0">]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Argh the dilemna! : Haha Emme didn&amp;#039;t I put that...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=2583">busymum</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 9571<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 July 2007 at 1:07pm<br /><br />Haha Emme didn't I put that in my first thread? <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0"> Hmm I dunno the answer to your question. My other two BFPs showed up on due date. Does it vary between pgs or between women?<br /><br />I have only had one AF since Krystiana was born so my system may still be settling down.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18300">Emmecat</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 9571<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 July 2007 at 12:47pm<br /><br /><P>Oh no, your poor thing!! Those blasted BFN's! <IMG src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"></P><P>Not all is lost though surely? The one time I was pregnant I didn't get a BFP until about 6-7 weeks; even the Dr's one was really faint. Maybe you're just one of those ladies where it doens't show up early? <IMG src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley5.gif" border="0"></P><P>&nbsp;</P>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=2">Guests</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 9571<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 July 2007 at 12:46pm<br /><br /><P>The things we do to see that BFP <IMG src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley8.gif" border="0">&nbsp; I will be waiting in anticipation with you to hear whether AF arrives.&nbsp; Good luck and fingers crossed it doesn't <IMG src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"></P><P>&nbsp;</P>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=2583">busymum</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 9571<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 July 2007 at 12:44pm<br /><br />As you hold a pg test in your hand, there's always such a dilemna! It's when self-talk kicks in like crazy LOL. I went to get a test today - asked for a couple but the lady gave me only one, saying it was their last. So I get home and I busting to go to the loo.<br /><br />May as well do it now, since I've got plenty of juice to use<br />But I'm only just due! If it's a BFN it's such a waste, and I'll be right back there next month <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley5.gif" border="0"><br />But my temp went up yesterday<br />...and down a bit today<br />I'm not exactly having period cramps but I'm really sore in there, like someone's punched me. It's been like that since about Friday. If I was gonna have AF surely it would have arrived by now. There's only two things that cause soreness in there: pg or AF. And I don't have AF.<br />I don't feel pg.<br />But I didn't feel pg with any of the others except when I was already 7-8 weeks pg with Kryssi before I tested.<br />What if it's negative?<br />Then I'll be gutted that I've wasted another freaking test! And maybe a little relieved, I wasn't expecting to conceive on our first cycle trying!<br />What if it's positive?<br />I'll be shocked and a bit freaked out, but definitely happy.<br />But if it's negative, everyone will just tell me I've tested too early!<br />No it's not too early, I'm 16 DPO!! Argh!!<br />So, don't you wanna know???<br /><br />Okay so I caved in.<br />And it's BFN.<br />Bah! Another test wasted.<br /><br /><img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley8.gif" border="0"> <span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by busymum</span>]]>
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