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Thanks love!

Things are great now, and no pain or anything- hardly feel pregnant except for my bump! So, rest assured it does get better.

Cant wait for the 20 week scan- dying to know what we are having!!
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We're the same! I was calling the baby 'he' because I didn't want to call him/her 'it' but DH is so certain that it's a she, I've had to give her a sex change    We were at a Pumpkin Patch sale over the weekend having a look and DH picked up a boys hat, looked at it forlornley (sp?) and said "You know, sometimes I wish we were having a boy. There's such cool boy stuff"    Obviously all I could do was look at him like he'd gone a bit soft in the head

I'm so glad everything is better for you - it's so frightening isn't it? The thing I found hard to reconcile was that I was in (and still am on and off) loads of pain, but that baby was perfectly happy - the pain was me, not her. Do you know what I mean?

Maybe things improve when the babies move out of the pelvis, and away from the endo sites ... ??
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Things definately get better after 12 weeks, when the sickness goes and also the baby moves out of the pelvis!

Its still hard for me to actually believe I am pregnant- it has been so long, and such a hard road, but I have started to show so I am sure these feelings will subside!

Where did you have your IVF?
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I'm the same - it still seems so surreal, and I've been showing for quite a while. I guess you feel like even after all this, it might still be taken away. We were 4 years in the making with No. 9 and I suppose it's really hard to leave it behind and move on to thinking about becoming a family!

I was with Fertility Plus in Auckland. They were fabulous, although a little disorganised at times ... I'd definitely go with them again if for some reason we had to do another fresh cycle. We managed to get this one publicly funded though - yay!!

Who were you with?

I feel as though things are starting to come right already, although I was so sick yesterday and had a 'moment' on the motorway this morning Thank goodness I had waterproof bags on me is all I can say! But the pains are becoming less and I'll have a couple of good days in a row before a baddie, so I'm counting my blessings!!

Today I'm lounging at home courtesy of the truck thing this morning - I got so far in three times as long as it normally takes me to get the whole way to work and decided to turn around. I made a bit of use of the time though and cleaned the fridge out! I haven't done it since before IVF started so I reeeally needed to wash all the shelves etc. Now it's sparkling and I feel like I've climbed Everest!
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*looks around for Margs' slow ass pregnant self*

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Well I got told to move my ass into this forum and so i have or else I fear I might have a knowing look coming from Ginger

But today was the start of a whole new chapter for us and we got a BFP after IVF.

I feel like all the hard work, tears and pain has all been worth it and as I am sure all you IVF mums know all to well would do it all again to have this awesome feeling.
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*lurker*  Hi ladies congrats to you all on your successful IVF.

Just thought I'd share that my aunty's first child was an IVF after unexplained infertility.  It was quite a surprise then when they got pregnant again a couple of years later.  They hadn't been trying but hadn't bothered with contraception either in the certain knowledge that they couldn't concieve naturally.  It shouldn't have been as much of a surprise a few years later when my aunty, who's 2 kids were now school age and who was looking forward to going back at work, found out she was pregnant with bubba #3.

So after several years of "unexplained infertility" they had one IVF baby and 2 'surprise' natural conceptions. 

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Hello0 Margs! Fancy meeting you in here
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Welcome Margs- congratulations!

Well done for all the hard effort along the way and you must be so excited!!! Do have you have any embryo's on ice? When are you due?

We had treatment at Fertility Associates, and were on the waiting list for public funding but didnt want to wait any longer so paid for the round ($10k later!).

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Yes we have 7 on ice.

Just had to call the nurse to ask when I'm due cause in my state of excitment forgot to ask. Am due on the 12th March.

I have had major problems since the day I had my first AF when I was 11years old. How mean is mother nature. and when I was a teenager living in Gisborne JH for FA Wellington use to come up and help our GYN do Laps so when I moved to WGTN she just sent him my file. 10 years later and he still has me as a patient. He is a fanstic doc and I fully recommend him to anyone.

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Hi All
We were at Fertility assoc as well, and also couldnt wait till end of the year and paid the round (ouch!) - but all worth it. We had only one embryo make it to D-day but I think all the goodness was in this one little bean cos we got a BFP!!

It would be awesome if this sorts my endo and we can get preggers naturally next time, I wouldn't mind the surprise in the least!!

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Yay- well done Summagal! Such great news and fantastic it happening on the first go for you!

Now the fun begins- any morning sickness yet? Must say that has been my least favourite part, oh except for egg retrieval!
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EC! It's awful!
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Nope, no MS but have been bit nauceous sometimes. Disappointed not to have had any major exciting cravings yet! although when I see something in a magazine etc it makes me have to have it!

Have you guys been exercising much? I took it very easy through IVF and have kind of lost my exercising mojo... and also scared something will happen..... but I know I probably should be walking at least. Well I did try and do some walking at the gym last week but got kicked off for being on the treadmill too long!! think I iwll pick it up a bit more after 12 weeks when things are safer? Opinions pilezzze?

I didnt find EC tooo bad, but then we only had four. The drugs obviously worked well! the last thing I remembered clearly was Fleetward Mac playing so I had to buy the cd as its obviously agreeable with bubs!

First scan tomorrow.... will be interesting if there are two heartbeats! but low possibility as only one emb put back. Still can't believe am really pregnant!

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Ack - I had about 30 Summagirl, so I was feeling a bit on the abused side by the end of it. The drugs were really good, but it was still awful. DH said it was hard to be there - he said that he could tell every time I was really hurt because my heart rate would go through the roof!

I've been exercising, but not like I did pre-pregnancy. We used to walk from home to the park with the dogs, around the park or tracks and home again - about an hour and a half or so every day of varying intensity. Now though we drive to the park and I have 2 days off a week from going at all, and we amble around. I'm still getting pain, so I take it pretty carefully, and we do very easy walks.

I think it's probably sensible all things considered to take it easy in the first trimester - these pregnancies haven't come easily to us, and I don't see the point in risking them for the sake of a bit of exercise. If I was you I'd just consider housework, a bit of gardening etc, enough for the mo!

Besides ... my nana was a maternity nurse and she said that the less fit you are, usually the easier the birth (because your muscles aren't tight and therefore resisting!)

I haven't really had cravings I don't think ... just food-related odd behaviour I've been seriously off some foods, and I had a few days where I was drinking lots of milk ... I was completely busting for a McDOnald's hamburger/cheeseburger for WEEKS and also Indian food ... although I won't go down that track again because No. 9 was not impressed! That's about it. Oh! I am eating more eggs than I ever have in my life, but that's because they seem to stay down and keep me full for a while.

As for believing your pregnant? I'm still not convinced that I'm not just getting fat!
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I completely stopped most exercise through IVF and when I found out I was pregnant, did nothing until 12 weeks. I just didnt feel 'stable' enough and was worried about losing the baby, as I had lots of pain and a few bleeds.

Just getting back into things now, and trying to walk more. Trying to get a copy of the preggie bellies DVD, as this is meant to be amazing, but having trouble getting it here.

EC was fairly horrific for me, and I felt quite a bit of it. They got 12 eggs!

Good luck with your first scan- it really is amazing to see the little bean on the screen!
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EC was awful for me too they got 12 as well.

How long did was it from the time you got your BFP till your first scan so you can see the heart beat??

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I had my first scan at 8 weeks and there was not only a heartbeat, but the little blighter was moving as well! The specialist was doing various measurements and it just went swish! across my uterus!! The specialist got such a surprise he jumped and then started laughing! Needless to say, with such a reaction it wasn't hard for us to pick him to be our OB

You should have a scan scheduled for 8 weeks becuase I think that's the usual time for them to hand you over to normal maternity care. Any earlier than 8 weeks and you may not see the heartbeat - I think that's why they wait til then. Imagine going through IVF, hving your first scan and not being able to see the heartbeat, regardless of whether it's normal or not! Talk about anxiety city till teh 12 week scan!!

I really hope chickpea and Tarn make it in here!
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My first scan was at 6.5 weeks and there was definately a heartbeat. Just looked like a little bean and the whole thing was beating!

Finding out gender in 4 weeks, so that is exciting!
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4 weeks!! Weee! I'm so jealous!! I've got 8 to go!
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