Early MC

Awww Birdie Im so sorry you are having to go through this, it is not easy. I have had three miscarriages and I always wanted to try again as soon as I could. The best thing for you to do is to get your doctor to refer you for a scan at your nearest ultrasound clinic as they will be able to tell you whether you have passed everything or not, I have had three and they have all been free.

Thanks guys,

My GP is posting me out a form for a scan if things have not happened in a weeks time. It is just frustrating waiting for the bleeding and cramps to begin

Hi Birdie,

Many will suggest you wait 2 cycles for a couple of reasons.. one is that your body has a chance to clear out anything that may have been left behind from the pregnancy, another reason is to give yourself time to heal emotionally.

We chose to wait one cycle, I wanted to have a natural period after my D&C. The second cycle we conceived and we got Jake.

Its important to do what you feel is right for you.

Hey Birdie,
I fell PG straight away after stopping the pill, no AF in between, and I MC at 6 and a half weeks.
We were told that when we were ready to start TTC again it was fine, didnt have to wait a cycle if you didnt want to. The nurse and MW both said the Dr only likes you to have waited at least one cycle to make dating easier (as your cycle can be out of whack). So we started TTC straight away.
Good luck to you, and I am so sorry that you have had to go through this.

Oh no Liz! I just congratulated you in the due in March thread!
I hope that everything will be ok. You have done the right thing by getting bloods done, it will give you an answer. Clots are also a big give away?
I think it is up to you to make the decision on whether go to work or not. It is good to be distracted, but also good to feel what you need to feel and be able to concentrate on what you are going through.
My thoughts are with you.
Emma

I would still have a tiny bit of hope with the no clots thing, some people have AF as normal their whole pregnancy, so I have everything crossed for you and I hope that your levels go up on Sat.
Keep us updated, Im thinking of you!
xox

HCG came back and was less than 2 so I probably miscarried a few days ago. At least now we know.

I am so sorry liz, that is awful. I am glad you took today off. I am sending you massive hugs, and hope you are coping ok. Im here if you want to message me. How is your DP? Please let your selves grieve, and take all the time you need. xox

I am so so sorry Liz.! Big Hugs to you, that is horrible :( All the best, hope you have a good & fast recovery.

Well they confirmed that I had mc on the 5th May after bleeding started on the 21 April & i finally stopped bleeding last week the 17th June. I've found it so hard to get over this I guess while I was still bleeding it was hard to deal with. I feel horrible that I've been feeling real down about it & emotional as I know I'm not the only one to have had this happen.
After a week of no bleeding, my breasts are sore & I'm bleeding again so I think Ive now got a period & might be about to have my first cycle in months! Who would've thought that would be exciting.
We have decided to start TTC in October, which i'm excited about but feel like its ages off & wish it was now! But this way, if we concieve October/November, I will hopefully be 3 to 4 months at our wedding & we thought it would be nice to announce it then

All the best guys, take care

Hi Emmi_
Nah I don't mind you asking, its actually kind of nice to talk about it as we hadn't told many people we were pregnant it was only when my fiancee was in an accident and ended up in hospital we had to tell people, so I don't talk to anyone about the mc.

I was 7 weeks when I first started bleeding but 3 lots of blood tests showed that my hcg were still increaseing not by what they were meant to but it was stil hopful, they confirmed the mc at 9 weeks when bloods came back and had decreased by 3000, they then sent me for a emergency scan which showed I had mc but she said there was no need for a d&c as I had bleed most of it away.

My doctor was great but couldn't understand why ive bleed so long so I was treated with antibiotic 3 times I'm hoping that it hasn't made it harder for us to concieve next time. But yea so other than when they confirmed I don't actually know when I lost the baby.
I hope you don't mind me asking but have you been through all this yourself?

Sorry about the story lol and thankyou, I so hope we fall pregnant first shot come october..fingers crossed!