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julz85 just go with the flow if it dont work it dont work but if it does
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Mum watched the wee man this morning while I did some in-town stuff, managed lovely coffee with the ex, I think it counts as a date.
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How are the dates going, girls??

I have met a man, he is amazing and he makes me smile so much We're taking things easy, seeing what happens and spending time together as we can. He is away for work a lot, and then I have my trip to Aussie as well, so it looks like we might get 8 days together before October LOL I was not looking for anything at all - in fact I couldn't think of anything worse, but as soon as I saw him, and started talking to him, I couldn't think of anything better. Yes, I'm smitten LOL
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Nwaah, smitten kitten! Where are you all meeting these men, the only one i see is the doctor and the ocassional male checkout operater.
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Through friends, for me, bowie. It's slightly funny cos they never ever thought we would be good together and he was slightly nervous of meeting me (ermmmmm, I'm made out to be something of a maneater at times, which is so very not true, but still!!!), but I'm nothing like he thought I would be (he thought I would be loud and pushy and obnoxious LOL which I am so VERY not any of those things), and vice versa, and we are so very similar it's weird. It feels like I have known him forever.

ETA: Possibly didn't help that he had seen my photos on FB, and the only time I ever really let there be pics taken of me are when I'm errrr, slightly not sober...

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arghhh men are so confusing!

well the guy iv been going on dates with is pretty lovely and all that but i have noticed he has cooled off slightly in the last few days so ill just leave him to it if thats what he wants , Im not sure , could just be a man thing! they are so hard to read at times lol . As for the ex tho , hes made indications at getting back together so now im well and truely confused . grrrr!

Yay Minik8e- thats AWESOME!!!!

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I've got a kind-of date on Saturday (I feel weird calling it a date, I've never been on a proper TV date.) with the ex, going to see some bands and have a few drinks, just hanging out for more than 20 minutes which is usually the most time I get when I go to his house as it's usually while mum is at the supermarket or something and she drops me off on the way.
My brother and his wife are coming to watch Bentley and I'm going down to the flat to hang out and have a few drinks and see some sweet bands, so should be good!

He's a confusing boy, too, though. We were together for about six years, and lived together for about four of that, we broke up about two months before I became pregnant with Bentley (he's not his father) and now he does all the dad stuff and treats me like I'm his girlfriend and I never know what to think.
But I figure he's the only person I want to be with, and if I'm not with him I'm happy to be alone as a second-best, so most of the time I try not to dwell on what we 'technically' are, it just gives me anxiety and makes me cry.

ETA: I'm an idiot, I wrote "no" instead of "know".

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How is everyone else going with their dating?? I am still with the guy I was talking about in August. He met the girls a couple of nights ago (now that he's back for more than just weekends) and they have taken to him immediately. He still makes me smile, and laugh, and feel special, and we think very much alike - all in all I'm pretty happy. We've both met the parents and seem to have the nod from them as well, which isn't vital but is still nice to have. We are spending a LOT of time together and it's magical...even just sitting watching TV. He's 29, no kids, never been married......so they do exist!!! He has been focussing on his business for the last 4 years (he is self employed) and never met anyone he wanted to settle down with....so yeah.
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awww yay miniki i have given up i am foccssing ion me for now
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Oooh minik8e - that sounds great!!!!

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Go you minik8e!

I'm with you james, given up on men for now. I've had 4 dates in the last couple of months and figured out what I don't want....but nothing on the horizon for now.
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sounds promising minik8e... great news!
as for me had a couple of dates recently but none are right for me. Either i'm physically attracted but not suited personality/ situation wise, or the opposite, checks all the boxes ecxept physical attraction. oh man maybe i'm just expecting too much? maybe i need to lower my expectations ...
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Joe had decided he's finished with me relationship-wise.
But, he still wants to be Bentley's 'dad'.
Not sure what I'm going to do about that one.

I've been match-making like mental, though!

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How do you girls find men to date? I am still waiting for my man to fall from the sky. Wouldn't that be nice?
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well men are falling from the sky for me at the moment haha , well thats what it feels like anyway , I have been on a few dates with my friends brother in the last few weeks , hes Lovely but doenst have any kids which puts me off a little altho he did come over a couple of weeks ago and he made me the most amazing meal from scrath , He bought all the ingrediants and made this thai red curry chicken thing and WOW it was Beautiful! .....

i went out on sat night to see my friend play rollerderby and had to buy my ticket seperatly from my mates so i didnt get seated next to them and  had to sit by myself (it was at the cbs arena so about 2500 people there) i was walking down the isle , noticed i was sitting in an isle seat , went to sit down then noticed that RIGHT SMACK BAM next to me is my ex (first love - together for 2 years and broke up really badly - havent spoken since , and ignore each other if we see each other on the street) And also his new wife .... Talk about awkward!!! she hates me and just glared at me , i just sucked it up and made small talk with the ex and his wife didnt say a thing haha .

it was ok tho because one of my male mates saved me and i ended up sitting in a spare seat a few rows back , my mate was there with his flat mate that i have met twice about 18mths ago and he ended up buying me drinks all night and flirted like mad haha , even dropped me home and bought me KFC on way home ( i certinly didnt ask for any of this , he just bought it all without even asking haha) . On sunday i had a PM on FB from him saying that i  made the night awsome and it would be boring without me there , he asked me if i wanted to go on a date and even started talking about taking me on his jetboat in summer haha .

The ex has been spending a fare bit of time at my house too and doing alot for me for my dd ... i really need to sort it all out , im feeling like abit of a player at the moment which is not like me at all . haha think i need to work out who i like most and just go with that . i must admit the attention is quite nice for a change and im not skanking arounf or anything .



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julz85 enjoy hun take your time and enjoy there is nothing wrong with dating
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Yay Julz it sounds like you are having a good time which is what matters the most! Just go with the flow and see who you like, you dont have to only see one unless you decide to be in an exclusive relationship, up until then you are a free woman and can see as many guys as you like (within reason of course!)

As for me I have joined an online dating site and have managed to find a semi decent guy, we havent met yet, however so far he sounds like a nice guy who can actually hold a conversation unlike the other drongo's out there! Will see how things go and might meet up one day soon.

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Julz...my husband didn't have any kids or any experience with kids when I met him,yet he and C quickly found their niche...now hes an awesome dad,to all three of the kids,C included





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