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GEONC
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Posted: 09 May 2016 at 5:58pm |
What a stunning name for your beautiful baby. So much love for you both
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kellsz
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Posted: 09 May 2016 at 6:51pm |
Big hugs to you and your family RD. XX have been thinking about you lots
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LateStarterLorna
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Posted: 09 May 2016 at 6:56pm |
Big hugs RD and family, such a beautiful name xx
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babycrazy
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Posted: 09 May 2016 at 6:58pm |
Oh hun xxx Much love to you right now. A beautiful name for a precious wee girl. Sending you all the strength you need to get through this difficult time xx.
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poppy101
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Posted: 09 May 2016 at 7:47pm |
Sending so much love to u. What a beautiful name x
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Justin Reach
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Posted: 09 May 2016 at 10:55pm |
A beautiful girl was created in your heart and your husband's heart RD and she will live with you both forever. Yes, a very special name, just lovely (((((HUGS))))))
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Posted: 10 May 2016 at 5:34pm |
Oh RD I am so sorry for your loss, I am heart broken for you. I popped in to see where everyone was at, I never expected in a million years to read your news. Gosh life can be so cruel. Take care, I am thinking of you x (Bigbird)
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Posted: 10 May 2016 at 9:33pm |
Thinking of you x
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Posted: 10 May 2016 at 9:50pm |
Thinking of you RD. Wish I could help take the pain away.
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babycrazy
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Posted: 11 May 2016 at 5:56am |
😘😘 RD this is just to let you know I woke up today and thought of you. I hope the memories you wanted made to treasure Micah have gone to plan. Xx
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LP pka Rainyday
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Posted: 11 May 2016 at 8:43am |
Thanks BC and everyone else. Saw my boss and mw yesterday wasn't too bad. Rest of family will be here today so will a full on. Some will leave on Friday and DH parents will stay on for the weekend. I'll be over people by then. DH thinking of going to work on Monday but he'll think about that closer to the time. Saw funeral director yesterday too and i didn't anticipate having the opportunity to see Micah again. I'm a bit torn. Family want to see her depending on her condition as she may have deteriorated since Monday.
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LP pka Rainyday
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Posted: 11 May 2016 at 8:44am |
Have had meds but Boobs are massive and heavy this morning. Really hope my milk doesn't come in 😞
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Posted: 11 May 2016 at 8:52am |
We found that Paige had deteriorated quite a bit over the course of the night she spent with us in the room and that was quite hard to see. My memory was a bit hazy immediately after but when I got her photos a couple weeks later it was very hard to see her when in my mind I had chosen to remember her as she was when she first arrived. DH finds that part particularly hard to think about. When is the service for Micah? People - that takes some getting used to that's for sure. I was not prepared to the influx of people before, during and after. On the one hand it was great to feel so loved and supported and was blown away by that but then it became a bit overwhelming too. What I got over was everyone who kept telling me it was ok to cry, I didn't have to be strong etc. They mean well but I prefer to have a good cry on my own to get it out and then get on with living. Anywho that was just me. Much love and hugs RD xx
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LP pka Rainyday
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Posted: 11 May 2016 at 8:55am |
Just found this lovely poem to read tomorrow Little Snowdrop
The world may never notice If a Snowdrop doesn't bloom, Or even pause to wonder If the petals fall too soon. But every life that ever forms, Or ever comes to be, Touches the world in some small way For all eternity.
The little one we long for Was swiftly here and gone. But the love that was then planted Is a light that still shines on. And though our arms are empty, Our hearts know what to do. Every beating of our hearts Says that we love you
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LateStarterLorna
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Posted: 11 May 2016 at 9:08am |
The poems beautiful RD x
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Posted: 11 May 2016 at 10:19am |
Eek note to self - don't read at work! Beautiful words xx
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LP pka Rainyday
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Posted: 11 May 2016 at 11:34am |
Service is tomorrow morning. Micah definitely started to deteriorate in the 5 or so hours we were together. I'm just hoping that there hasn't been any further deteriorating. We heard from the funeral home about half an hour ago and they said she's ok
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GEONC
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Posted: 11 May 2016 at 1:37pm |
Beautiful poem RD. So lovely that funeral home has updated you about your wee girl xx
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LP pka Rainyday
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Posted: 11 May 2016 at 2:01pm |
Just rereading what you wrote BC. We've had heaps of ppl telling us that we're strong and to stay strong. There was even a point when my mum told me to go to another room so my son didn't see me cry. He was too busy eating his breakfast anyway. There was a point at the hospital when DH was lying with Micah and I could feel he was holding back so I had to just hold him and tell him to let it out and boy did he what. There's this dumb perception that men stay strong but I know my husband, he's an emotional creature but often holds it in. My god tomorrow is going to be hard.
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Posted: 11 May 2016 at 2:23pm |
Rd I love the poem that is truly beautiful - I have a couple more poems if you would like them also xxx
Omg the people it's overwhelming isn't it? I remember Tom and I hiding out in our bedroom just to get away from them but then the day after the funeral they were all gone and it was just me and my Head and I found that hard also!
I love yours and hubby's relationship rd you can just read each other so well - You are so lucky you have each other to lean on! I know loosing Meika made hubby and I so much stronger!
What time is the Service tomorrow honey? Are you having it at home ? Did you see Micah one last time xxx
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