ttc after 45

Hi Rose! I’m sorry your treatment didn’t work. It's very nice you look for solutions. We should make everything possible to reach our aim. My husband and I also wanted to have children. Though we had some doubts about the procedure, now we have no regrets. We had ivf with donor egg in Ukraine. I was diagnosed with Turner syndrome. So this procedure was my only chance to have children. My husband and I decided we should give it a try. When we were looking for clinic, the main criteria for us were positive reviews, professional doctors and good service. We've chosen Ukrainian clinic BioTexCom. Our neighbors tried donation there and the procedure was successful. They shared their reviews and thoughts about the clinic and the process with us. Also we've read some reviews of other couples, who were their clients, about good specialists, high rates of successful treatments and fertilization procedures. I've got pregnant from 2nd attempt. I gave birth to my little girl last year. I love her so much and consider her as my own baby! I’m sure, as soon as you feel baby inside of your stomach, you’ll forget about egg donor. My daughter is my little copy, because we asked the clinic to find donor with my features. Speaking about price, we chose package called 'double' for 6 900 euros. The package implies two attempts. There was also package with 5 attempts. In case of this package the clinic pays money back if all tries fail. The clinic provided us with translator and accommodation. They also provided us with taxi, which waited us in the airport and then it was carrying us across Kiev. Be very careful! There are really many fraudsters. I advise you to contact clinics directly. Each clinic has an official website. There you can find all needed contacts like phone or email. Pay attention to all reviews, both positive and negative. Don't be afraid to ask them questions! Good luck xx

You're welcome dear! I'm always ready to help! You've already made a huge step. You're in the beginning of your de ivf journey already! Don't forget about that) I'm sure you'll become a happy mother very soon! We've chosen BioTexCom clinic after conversation with our neighbors. Actually they didn't want to reveal the fact they've undergone this procedure. But during a small home party I've told Erica about my disease and that I can't have kids. Little by little and she told me about the procedure and the clinic. The clinic checks egg donors carefully. All requirements to donors were specified in the package we've chosen. First requirement is age of donor. All their donors are 18 – 25 years old. Second requirement is perfect physical and mental health. And third requirement is absence of genetic diseases in the donor and her family. Those services were already included into our package. We didn't pay extra fees. We paid only that single price, which was set in our contract. If you have more questions feel free to ask)

I understand you! Each penny counts in such situation. Because costs will be very high after baby birth! So there is no spare cash. We've chosen package called 'Success' for 9 900 euros. This package is ideal for couples, who wish to avoid risk. The package implies five attempts. We visited clinic 3 times. There were 2 payments. So we paid 4 950 during first visit and second half of money during second visit. It's okay dear. I was in your hide! I knew nothing about the procedure. You won't know all process until you undergo it) Contact of clients with donor is prohibited by law. That's why you can't choose donor by yourself. But you can provide desired phenotype! The clinic will choose donor for you, basing on your requirements. We gave our doctor list with all features we want our donor to have. For example, eye color, hair, nose shape etc. They gave us 3 variants and we chose the most suitable donor for us. We visited biotexcom for 2 times. The first attendance lasted 2 days. During this visit we had medical examination. Also we were provided with information about the program, organizational and medical parts and terms of the contract. Our second visit lasted for 6 days. We had sperm pick-up, fertilization of donor's eggs and embryo transfer. The clinic provided us with accommodation during both our visits. By the way, food supply was provided too. Our doctor assigned the treatment plan for us and gave us all needed instructions. We didn't go to biotexcom for ultrasounds and tests! All these we did in our local clinic. Then we just had to send the results to our manager by mail. So there was no extra waste of money)

I do not think anything about my baby not being mine. It is fine. I am also ok with the thought of adopting a child. too bad I cannot. But raising a baby conceived and born by someone else is totally fine by me. the thing is, that you become a mother when you have the baby on your hands. you will be the best mom if you raise your child properly. give them home, food, love and support them. and i am 100 per cent ready for it. I am ready to do my best.
It may come out a bit desperate. but I do believe that love can be shared with anybody. and giving life to another human being (one way or another) is the main priority for many of us. And if not for you, this baby wouldn't exist. I keep thinking about it. That we (my hubby and I) did everything to make this baby happen. We do hope that our SM gets pregnant from the first try. We are so new to this world. We are so excited. The thing is that I feel like babies born via ivf or surrogacy are really special. so many people have worked for them to see this world. and you should remember it.
We're happy that the biological mother of our future child is from Ukraine. the agency we have signed with is WCOB. It is not that known on forums but is pretty popular on Facebook. Anyways, we are happy that our baby is going to pass the Ukrainian genes along with my husband's dna. we think that the world is changing. and it is important to go along with the changes. we want all of the people on this planet to love each other. to support everybody as well.