im in here now
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Forum Name: Life After Miscarriage
Forum Description: Up to one in five pregnancies ends in miscarriage, yet for many the loss of a pregnancy is isolating and lonely. Share your thoughts and feelings here with others who have experienced loss.
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Topic: im in here now
Posted By: Kazzle
Subject: im in here now
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 8:32am
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Just had my scan and my little angel died at 6wks, the person doing the scan was really nice and said that i should start to mc soon.
im devasted oh so devasted, i will write more when im a bit more together ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: .Mel
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 8:34am
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Oh so so sorry to hear of your sad news. Please take care of yourself. ------------- Mr Mellow (16) Miss Attitude (8) Destructa Kid (3) 
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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 8:44am
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OMG Kazzle, I'm so sorry for your loss. xxx ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: meow
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 8:46am
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Posted By: mum2paris
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 8:46am
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Aw Kaz that seriously sucks.big huggles. ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja 
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Posted By: Bubbaloo
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 8:47am
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------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  Was danni-chick Mum to James My Angel 28/07/08 |
Posted By: mum2emj
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 8:48am
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oh kazzle! i am so sorry huge hugs
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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 9:04am
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Ohhhhh I was hoping this was an old thread being bumped! I'm so sorry, you've been trying for so long!
edited to correct "hoping" for "trying" (was on my way out when I posted this morning). -------------  |
Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 9:10am
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Kazzle, I'[m so very sorry to hear this! Lots of love and prayers coming your way hun ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: Kazzle
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 9:26am
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thanks so much guys, have spoken to midwife and shes gonna talk to ob at hospital and get me booked in for a dnc ( ive had no cramping or anything) and kents due for an op in about 2 weeks so dont really want to be going through this while i have to look after him and rhiannon.
I know that this has happened for a reason, and i know that i will have another baby, i just didnt expect to be this upset, but as kent pointed out that even though ive had other miscarriages they have all been early, and this is the first time its been like this. ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: minik8e
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 9:34am
| Oh Kazzle, I am so so sorry to hear this. Huge hugs to you. |
Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 9:55am
| Im so sorry to hear that Kazzle. Gosh there seem to be a run of m/c at the moment aye, so sad. Stay strong and big hugs |
Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 10:27am
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Kaz that is so sad, big hugs to you. ------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
Posted By: hailstones
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 12:26pm
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So sorry to hear your news. Huge Hugs Kazzle . ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: noodle
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 12:30pm
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oh kazzle so sorry! big hugs comming your way! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: yummymummy
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 12:37pm
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I'm sooo sorry hun, I know how much you wanted the little one. Big big hugs ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 1:18pm
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Oh Kaz, I am so very sorry to hear that. Take care of yourself ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: susieq
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 1:34pm
| Big Hugs Kaz |
Posted By: Bumble
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 1:38pm
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So sorry Kazzle... ------------- formerly known as "Bee" Ethan ~ March 2003 Big 6 year old school boy! Micah ~ Aug 2008 ~ Smiley pants who loves telephones! |
Posted By: MelandBri
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 1:41pm
| Kazzle so sorry to hear of your loss. |
Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 2:03pm
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I'm so sorry Kaz, please take some time out for yourself to try and relax and to grieve, while Kent is still around to look after Rhiannon (before he has his op). Thinking of you hun
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Posted By: peanut butter
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 2:46pm
| My thoughts are with you Kaz!!! Take care of yourself |
Posted By: AnnC
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 2:55pm
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aww i was thinking it must of been an old post...
Sorry to hear your sad news
------------- Ann 
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Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 4:00pm
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Sorry to see this, Kazzle. ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: monster
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 6:12pm
| Sorry to hear of your loss - take care of yourself. |
Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 7:20pm
| I am so gutted for you kazzle. Couldn't log in this morning so was lurking and saw your post. i was really realy hoping it wasn't what it was. big hugs to you hun!!!! |
Posted By: james
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 8:15pm
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i,m so sorry for your loss hun big hugs ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 8:18pm
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Posted By: Peace
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 8:24pm
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I am so, so very sorry Kazzle ------------- DD1 May 2006 DD2 March 2011 DD3 August 2012 |
Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 9:38pm
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oh hun i'm so sorry! please take care ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 10:27pm
| I'm so sorry Kazzle big hugs to you, Kent and rhiannnon |
Posted By: kezplanet
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 11:45pm
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Kazzle, sooo sorry to see you in here, without making early mc's unimportant, it does hit hard when you think everything is going the way it should only to find out different. Take care & keep well xxoo ------------- Kerryn, Mum to Ashlyn(29/3/04), Anastasia(1/11/05) & Abigail (24/02/09) |
Posted By: Kazzle
Date Posted: 31 August 2007 at 7:11am
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Hey guys, just wanted to say thanks for all your support, i have to be at the hospital at 8am and will be having a dnc done sometime this morning, i have cried and cursed and cried and cried, and now i just want it over with so we can move on.
My family have been fantastic, mum and dad took Rhiannon last night so i dont have to worry about her today, and depending on how im feeling they will have her tonight as well. The inlaws took us out for dinner and even though i didnt really feel sociable they made me laugh a few times, and then came home and blobbed out and watched a vid. I will update on how im doing once im feeling up to it. I hope you all have a fantastic day and a awesome weekend ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: emmaohara
Date Posted: 31 August 2007 at 7:22am
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Will be thinking of you this morning ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Mama2two
Date Posted: 31 August 2007 at 8:14am
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I was sorry to hear your news Kaz. Thinking of you this morning. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 31 August 2007 at 12:44pm
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kaz im so sorry for your loss i truely am.
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Posted By: Kazzle
Date Posted: 31 August 2007 at 8:53pm
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hey guys, just to let you know that i am home, and doing okay, didnt get the dnc until 3pm, due to a mix up at the hospital, heding off to bed now, to sleep it all off...thanks once again for the support ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 31 August 2007 at 9:01pm
Aww hunny that must have been agony just waiting and waiting for the D&C.  Take care and have an enjoyable quiet weekend. Your ILs are sweet to take care of Rhiannon for you.------------- |
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 31 August 2007 at 9:01pm
Aww Kaz Im so sorry ((hugs))
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Posted By: mum2paris
Date Posted: 31 August 2007 at 11:18pm
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Aw Kaz that sucks.. same thing happened with me, i had to be there by 8am, having not eaten or drunken a drop, and i didn't get in till 2.30pm. Having to sit and wait and think about it really sucks. I hope you have as good a sleep as you can tonight. Hugs again. ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja
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Posted By: Kazzle
Date Posted: 01 September 2007 at 8:06am
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hey guys, you are all so great, your support has been fantastic and really appreciated, I wont go into details over what happened yesterday (if you really want to know pm me), but all i can say is that im glad its over and im feeling a whole lot better.
Has been an extremely emotional few days but we are getting here, cant wait to go see my baby havent seen her for 2 nights and i really miss her ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Glow
Date Posted: 01 September 2007 at 9:30am
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More hugs for you Kaz
Loads more love heading the Wellywood/ Hutthood Valley way; just for you ------------- Mummy of Two Boys B: 2004 K: 2007 |
Posted By: kezplanet
Date Posted: 01 September 2007 at 10:53pm
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Hope your weekend is going well & you are having a nice time with Kent & Rhiannon. Take care & keep well xoxo ------------- Kerryn, Mum to Ashlyn(29/3/04), Anastasia(1/11/05) & Abigail (24/02/09) |
Posted By: nictoddie
Date Posted: 02 September 2007 at 7:32pm
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awwww so sorry to hear you news Kaz, big hugs to you hope you are feeling ok and have had a nice weekend with your family. ------------- 
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