IT NOT FAIR!
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Topic: IT NOT FAIR!
Posted By: ohtristan
Subject: IT NOT FAIR!
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 6:11pm
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I dont really ever post anything in here but today I just need some advice. I doesnt really have anything to do with me but it has just hit me sooo hard! THat baby was the light of thier lives, they have a 2 yr old son and always wanted a little baby girl! She seemed normal except that her motor skillls were developing slightly behind schedule which can be normal anyway! She was a beautiful bright eyed wee girl and now they say that she has only between 1 week and maximum of 2 yrs to live! It is so heatbreaking! How can anyone cope knowing that their baby is going to die! I dont understand why some people who dont even want kids get these healthy babies yet amazing parents who get their miracle baby have this happen to them! What do you do to make thats childs life the best it can be in such a short time! I feel so angry at the world, and also kind of guilty ( as silly as that sounds) that i have a healthy boy and this little girl will never have a chance! I dont know why im feeling so sad and hurt by this, I dont know what i will gain from this post, but i guess i just needed to get it out there and remind everyone how blessed we are with our healthy babies and remind you all to CHERISH that and give them everything everyday!
------------- Tristans mummy |
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Posted By: peanut butter
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 6:24pm
What else can you say at a time like this |
Posted By: Bubbaloo
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 6:26pm
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Posted By: meow
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 6:59pm
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I'm sorry
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Posted By: AnnC
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 7:05pm
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Send the card - it will be nice for them to know some one care. Its awful isn't it and i agree there is ppl out there who don't even want their babies.
's to you and to pass onto the family. ------------- Ann 
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Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 7:49pm
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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 8:03pm
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Wow that is really scary. I'm so sorry to hear it -------------  |
Posted By: Bombshell
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 8:29pm
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oh poor wee thing....i have to admit i read of things being diagnosed down the track and think - oh i hope ella doesnt get that....etc etc....
fingers crossed our bubbas dont have to go through the same....hugs to the family of the little girl!!! |
Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 30 August 2007 at 8:56pm
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oh my that's terrible! i can't even begin to imagine what the parents must be going through, and selfishly, i hope i never do. please send the card, it will help them to know that you care and are thinking of them. i truely do not know how 'god' can do nasty things like this to people and kids that don't deserve it!! not that anyone 'deserves it' but you know what i mean? for the wee girl, her family, for you and your sister------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 31 August 2007 at 12:13am
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Your right, its not fair.
I agree I think you should send the card, it might not solve all their problems but at least they will know people are thinking of them and hearts are breaking for them too. |
Posted By: Spudling
Date Posted: 31 August 2007 at 8:27am
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hon, I am so sorry to read this...nope it is not fair. I get very pissed off with the world when I read of these poor wee mites and their families.
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Posted By: AN E
Date Posted: 31 August 2007 at 10:12am
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That's just so sad
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Posted By: Andie
Date Posted: 31 August 2007 at 3:11pm
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Aw, man... I wish we'd had more time to really talk and talk about it when we bumped into each other! It's one of the saddest stories I've heard, and I think that your card idea is a lovely one - it's a nice way to share some love with people when they really need it. ------------- Andie |
Posted By: yummymummy
Date Posted: 31 August 2007 at 3:17pm
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OMG
Don't know what to say really - this is so so sad. The world can be cruel & unfair place sometimes ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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