Stuck on what 2 do
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Topic: Stuck on what 2 do
Posted By: Tami
Subject: Stuck on what 2 do
Date Posted: 16 October 2005 at 11:02am
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well ive known my babys dad since he was 8 hes now 17 and we went out for about 4 yrs on and off but most the time we were together.he had a job lined up in chch(im in hams)and when i told him i was pregnant he still went.
later on he told me that he was going to move back and be there at the birth.he didnt end up coming and has only seen his son once.but really wants to move back to be with him more and stuff. at the moment we r not together but still like each other.im not sure if i want to go bak out with him.hes a really nice guy but i dont think i could forgive him for not being there wen his son was born. plzzzzzzzz help ------------- http://www.babysfirstsite.com"> 
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 16 October 2005 at 11:41am
I think that maybe he needs to sort out his priorities after all he does have a son in this world that he should be a part of. Follow ur head its generally smarter than your heart  If your having doubts that signals somethings not quite right. Its hard to state what you should and shouldnt do coz well its ur life but i would stay as you are and if he wants to get back with you he will have to show that he really means it, u have not only yourself to think of now but also ur gorgeous son  I hope that helps
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Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 16 October 2005 at 11:48am
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Maybe if he moves back that will show he is committed?
See what he does and then think further ahead. Good luck Tam, boys are crap!!! 
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Posted By: 98765
Date Posted: 16 October 2005 at 7:10pm
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See if he makes a real effort to your son and see what he's like now and then make your decision.
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Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 16 October 2005 at 9:12pm
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i would try to be parents and friends together first, then maybe think about the whole getting back together thing.... ------------- http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker"> 
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Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 17 October 2005 at 9:52am
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I agree with all, just wait till he moved back up then observe him with your/his son. If you think he is serious about being a Dad and being part of your life...you will have your answer right infront of you. However if you end up trying to guess if he is serious or not...then chances are that he isnt.
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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 17 October 2005 at 2:46pm
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Everyone has already said what I was thinking, so ditto! Good luck ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: Tami
Date Posted: 19 October 2005 at 10:49am
yep..i think i will do that.and ma boys 15 weeks 2day and hes bloody startibn teething  its been bad trhe last few nights------------- http://www.babysfirstsite.com">
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Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 19 October 2005 at 11:13am
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I had a dream about you last night Tami. Ultra weird.
Get some bonjela (or other teething stuff) for Khayle. When he's really upset rub it on his gums. Unfortunately you might just have to wait it out. Although you can give him pamol if he's running a fever. Check out the teething article on OhBaby. I think as a baby I started teething at 3 months. My mum didn't even notice someone else found my tooth! |