omens..?
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Topic: omens..?
Posted By: mum2paris
Subject: omens..?
Date Posted: 12 September 2007 at 9:07am
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argh, i dunno if i beleive in them. but am not happy right now.
On the day we had our scan and found out baby's heart had stopped beating, we came home to find 1 lone white lilly had flowered in our garden, standing all by itself, no other plants by it, all other lillies in the garden were far across the section from where this one sprouted, and they had all had flowered and died a long long time before that. We have since moved, to a house with no gardens, we have 1 small bush about waist height in the corner of our section outside the main living area/ranch slider. Imagine my surprise when a few days ago i open the curtains to find that 1 lone white lilly, exactly the same as the other one, had popped up in the middle of the bush.. i didn't even know there was a lilly plant there. There are no other heads on it, just this one dam lilly. It sucks cos everytime i look out the window it's there and reminds me (and you can't escape looking out there from most places in our lounge/dining area). Part of me wants to go out there and cut it down, but i just can't bring myself to do it. ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja 
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Posted By: Glow
Date Posted: 12 September 2007 at 9:11am
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Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 12 September 2007 at 1:09pm
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whoa that is strange janine.....i definately wouldn't be cutting it down
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Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 12 September 2007 at 1:10pm
i'm sorry i hope that last question doesn't upset you! i didn't even think... ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com">
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Posted By: mum2paris
Date Posted: 12 September 2007 at 1:19pm
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November 21st ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja
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Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 12 September 2007 at 2:27pm
| I think its a good omen that baby sage is with you at your new house. Take comfort that baby is still part of your family and letting you know he/she is still there. |
Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 12 September 2007 at 2:37pm
| I don't think it is a bad omen either, but I can understand how it could be a bit upsetting *big hugs* Janine! Which reminds me I need to go out and buy a plant to put in the garden for Ruby... |
Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 12 September 2007 at 2:52pm
| Jax, I didnt realise you had had a m/c, sorry to hear that. |
Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 13 September 2007 at 9:58pm
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Was just about to write the same thing - Love and hugs to you Jax!!
Does seem strange Janine, I can understand how weird that must be but also lovely in a way  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 13 September 2007 at 10:14pm
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Thanks guys, sorry to thread-jack though!
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Posted By: AnnC
Date Posted: 13 September 2007 at 10:47pm
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jax didnt realise either
mumtoparis - I think its a nice thing (although can understand you not wanting to be reminded) Makes me think your baby really wanted to be there but for whatever reason it was not the right time for him/her to join your family. so alittle thing for him/her to still be with your family... very nice vibes ------------- Ann 
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