weirdness about sex..lol
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Topic: weirdness about sex..lol
Posted By: NovemberMum
Subject: weirdness about sex..lol
Date Posted: 04 November 2007 at 9:27pm
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anyone elses dh/dp think it was weird to have sex in the later stages of pregnancy. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: cuppatea
Date Posted: 04 November 2007 at 9:30pm
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Yeah my DH wasn't overly keen, which was fine by me, I was too fat and uncomfortable and then had leaking waters and was in and out of hospital from 35 weeks on, and I can assure that is not much of a turn on. ------------- 
 
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Posted By: my4beauties
Date Posted: 04 November 2007 at 9:33pm
Umm, NO ! Things were still happening right until the night I went into labour!  ------------- My babies: R (9),G (7), J (5) http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: bookwyrm
Date Posted: 04 November 2007 at 9:39pm
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We haven't slowed down our sex life at all since becoming pregnant. I know DP wishes I could climb on top more often, but we have been limited to the side cuddle position. Sometimes he freaks and wants to check that he isn't hurting bubs. Earlier on, he asked me whether bubs is bothered by him... I giggled. We stopped missionary a couple of months ago, due to bubs kicking (ie. belly to belly)... that freaked us both out.
Sorry if this was TMI. Haha. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 04 November 2007 at 9:41pm
I think mine was concerned that he'd flip on the labour switch.... but then knowing that after labour was gonna be a long wait he managed to put all those feelings aside hehe  -------------  |
Posted By: NovemberMum
Date Posted: 04 November 2007 at 9:42pm
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I think the last time we had sex I was around 25 weeks it just got too uncomfy for me.
I have been wanting to try again but hubby said it would be kind of weird..lol ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 04 November 2007 at 10:26pm
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My DF and I did last week but I felt uncomfy and it stung a bit, we hadnt done it since before my BFP, just cos I was so so scared about having another m/c. My DF is totally fine about the sex thing, he said to me if I want to and Im happy and comfy with it then he will do it, if Im not then it doesnt bother him, he said he just wants me to be happy etc ------------- |
Posted By: MissCandice
Date Posted: 05 November 2007 at 7:29am
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Can i have all your DF's! Mine complained the whole time that he wasnt getting any, i could only manage once a week! And to this day he still complains that i didnt give him enough while pregnant. ------------- ~ Mummy to a beautiful girl ~ |
Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 05 November 2007 at 7:37am
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I just haven't felt like it since getting pregnant..he still gets some but not as much(1st tri was too scared) but we do other stuff...
he, to his credit , has been really really great about it.. don't worry Megan I do know heaps of men who were the same as your DH..you aren't alone:) ------------- Mum to two amazing boys! |
Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 05 November 2007 at 8:31am
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Yep my was last time. Not this time tho! ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: BellaBoo
Date Posted: 05 November 2007 at 8:50am
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My DP never complains even though we dont have as much sex as we used to. I just dont feel like it at all. When we do have sex I initiate it (but usually only cos I feel bad he aint gettin any!). We dont really find the whole thing weired as it is natural and also how we got into the position we are now ------------- http://lilypie.com">   http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Bobbie
Date Posted: 05 November 2007 at 9:01am
Haha yeah we stopped that for the same reason. DH wasn't impressed when he got booted at the vital moment
We still do it fairly often - not as often as we used to but my libido hasn't really dropped which is cool. It is getting a bit harder to find positions though. I think my DH was a bit weirded out for about a month after I started showing but he got over that. Didn't help that the first time we did it after I got pregnant I ended up in the emergency department of NSH. (It was unrelated but DH obviously associated it negatively) -------------  
 
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ladyluck wrote:Posted By: LittleBug
Date Posted: 05 November 2007 at 9:02am
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We don't have sex as much as we used to either, but DH doesn't complain... think he's just glad he's still getting some I feel funny when my tummy rubs on him but he said he doesn't mind it at all, he said he likes my tummy. I'm always the one to initiate it atm because he says he doesn't want to put pressure on me when I'm tired and feeling sick etc.
In saying that, we didn't do anything for about the first 3 months cos I was throwing up about 10 times a day, so neither of us really wanted to (not attractive, lol). But now it's at least weekly... lol ------------- Chloe (4 years) and Oliver (3 years). |