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Topic: TTFN...
Posted By: daikini
Subject: TTFN...
Date Posted: 06 December 2005 at 4:49pm
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With Christmas visits coming up, and also a couple of honeymoons (Yay! Fun!) I thought it might be useful to have a thread where we can let the other forum addicts know where we've disappeared to, and roughly how lomg we'll be gone.
I'm not going for another couple of weeks, but some of you are out of here sooner so here you go! ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
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Posted By: lenabeanz
Date Posted: 06 December 2005 at 9:53pm
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Well I am going to be attached to my computer with a ball and chain (David has threatened to take the monitor lead to work tomorrow though!) until the 5th Jan - When I wake up and realise that I will be moving in 3 days and still need to pack!! Haha
David is working through xmas and new years (joys of farming!) so we will just be doing a combination of packing and seeing friends before we go!! Hope everyone has a safe and happy Christmas and New Years!! ------------- http://www.snugglepie.com"> 
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 07 December 2005 at 2:19pm
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LOL Lena! We are going to Australia on 20th Dec, but will still be online as Mum and Dad have a computer... -------------  Maya Grace (28/02/03)
 (02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 14 December 2005 at 2:18pm
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We're off to Katikati after lunch on Friday, and between now and then I'm going to be busy tidying the house and packing. We'll be back the first week of January, so I'll catch up with you all then! I might be able to come on once or twice more before we go, but probably not.
So, have a great time with your families, and enjoy the holiday fun.  Merry Christmas! ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 14 December 2005 at 2:35pm
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Have fun with your crazy family Becca!!!
Merry Christmas 
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Posted By: mum2paris
Date Posted: 14 December 2005 at 8:51pm
Well, my sis is coming here this year - so I'll be on as much as i can be, but probably not as much as usual.. I have a few assignments due in the next few weeks so will probably spend my time procrastinating on here instead of doing my work.  ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja 
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Posted By: lenabeanz
Date Posted: 14 December 2005 at 9:20pm
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Haha and I always procrastinate about the housework...
I'm always like "there's only a few things it can wait" ... then it builds up  ------------- http://www.snugglepie.com">
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 14 December 2005 at 9:48pm
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Hehe, I let it build up so long that Willie let me hire a cleaner! ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 14 December 2005 at 10:09pm
| oooh, i want one of those. |
Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 14 December 2005 at 10:40pm
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oh man!! I reckon I'd have to be dead to get me one of those!!! Its the ironing and washing that gets on top of me.........*sigh* ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: preggy_sunflower
Date Posted: 15 December 2005 at 8:25am
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We're getting a cleaner when bubs comes - a gift from my mum!! Once a week for 6 months I'm pretty lucky actually as Jono takes care of all the laundry. All I have to do is put it in the hamper, and next thing I know it's ironed and hanging in the wardrobe Mind you, I do all the cooking and most of the rest of the cleaning and housework - but it's the laundry I hate doing!! ------------- Joshua Hadynn - Born 3 May 2006 |
Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 15 December 2005 at 8:56am
| Oh, i don't believe in ironing. None of my clothes ened ironing and Lewis learnt pretty early if he wanted his done, he'd do them himself. Dishes are my nemisis. |
Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 15 December 2005 at 10:04am
you dont know what laundry is until you have a baby! I cant believe how much washing they make!! I dont iron either - dont buy clothes that need to be ironed! I agree Liz, HATE the dishes. I let them build up and have to do a massive wash, when it would be much easier just to do a small lot more often!  ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: faewie
Date Posted: 15 December 2005 at 10:09am
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my partner is super clean anal guy lol, as long as the place isnt drity theres nothing wrong with a bit of "stuff" lying around the house, lol. i always have half finished artworks, unfinished sewing material, books rahdeerah lying around the house. i loke it to looked lived in! lol.
Im going to be here for Christmas, tims boys come and stay for the whole holidays which is so so kewl esp. coz theyre moving up north after that 
Merry Christmas everyone!!! ------------- http://www.snugglepie.com"> 
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Posted By: lenabeanz
Date Posted: 15 December 2005 at 11:37am
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Haha Aimee - I got all my dishes soaking now. But I have had a bad week with a workmate getting killed in car accident and a friend from school on Life Support (She has muscular distrophy) - so dishes and housework haven't been a priority for me in the last week!
I just clicked - when we move I will be without a computer for about 3 days! WHAT AM I GOING TO DO... pack, unpack, clean, stress coz the MIL has invited herself to "help" me unpack.... ------------- http://www.snugglepie.com">
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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 15 December 2005 at 1:12pm
Oh Lena, sorry to hear about your friends  ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: lenabeanz
Date Posted: 15 December 2005 at 1:35pm
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Thanks Aimee - Just having a bum day, there's the saying bad news comes in 3's - and that has applied to me everytime someone I know has passed away so waiting for the third thing and dreading to answer the phone
Also I think I had to type it and SEE it to let it sink more that the last week has really happened - still in shock I think... Anyway enuff about that ... ------------- http://www.snugglepie.com">
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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 15 December 2005 at 3:24pm
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Poor you Lena. Look at it this way, the third thing is your MIL coming to "help" lol
This weekend marks the first anniversary of my best friends baby being stillborn. I don't know if any of you ladies read the October Little treasures, but her story was in there. So this weekend, there is a memorial service etc, and I am catering it for her, as well as helping out with little stuff like music etc. Getting to a point... Anyhow, i will be busy from now on for that, then next week at work SUPER CRAZY then we are going away for a few days to CHCH for xmas. Looking forward to the break, after a stressful (and sad) ten days. I will come on tomorrow and post a chrissy pic of Jake. Hope everyone has a great Chrissy!! If anyone prays, send up a little one for Emjay on saturday... ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: preggy_sunflower
Date Posted: 15 December 2005 at 3:34pm
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Oh my goodness, I read that story about Emjay Your friend is so very brave. ------------- Joshua Hadynn - Born 3 May 2006 |
Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 15 December 2005 at 3:42pm
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That was a very sad story Really makes you appreciate your little ones aye. ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 15 December 2005 at 8:18pm
| Oh, i read that too. It really does make you loko at the whiney whingy child clinging to your lap and overing it with banana and think "oh, you aren't too bad at all" |
Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 16 December 2005 at 11:52am
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I read that article too. Made me cry I will be thinking of you on Sat ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 22 December 2005 at 7:58am
Hi all, We are off this morning to the beach. Hope you all have a fantasic Christmas. And take care on the roads if your travelling. ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: Xander&Harmony
Date Posted: 22 December 2005 at 4:01pm
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we r off on xmas day for 10 days so hope everyone has a great xmas and new year and good luck for those of u who are ttc babies. ------------- BECS http://www.sparklee.com"> 
Angel Baby 10/07/09 (10wks4days) |
Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 23 December 2005 at 9:13am
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Merry Christmas everyone! We are flying down to Nelson tomorrow morning for Joeys first xmas. how exciting! I have a billion things to do today to get ready so I don't think I will make it back on to the computer...
Just wanted to say have a safe and happy holiday. We will be back at home on the 2nd of Jan so noone better overtake me on posting till then ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 23 December 2005 at 10:51am
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well i definately won't be taking over!
we are off to nelson tomorrow morning, well tapawera which is close. not sure when we are coming home, probably about the 5th jan. going to see the feelers play at the riwaka pub for new years! yay!! have a great christmas everyone! for those who are travelling, have a safe journey! ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: k&jsmum
Date Posted: 23 December 2005 at 2:07pm
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Hey there everyone hope you all have a WICKED (the boys new word - everything cool is WICKED i think its sooo cute) christmas and new year. Heading off tomoro and will be busy for the next week so prob wont get on here too much. Hey Nikki wasnt it your 21st a wee while back? hope you had a WICKED (lol) time.
Keep safe everyone ------------- Marlene Keegan ~ 14 October 2003 Jaidyn ~ 14 October 2003 |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 24 December 2005 at 8:38am
| Yep, 21st was on 2nd of Dec. Had a great party... though I was exhausted by 2am. |
Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 24 December 2005 at 9:27am
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Well we're still here holding the fort! We're in Oz but I can still sneak onto the comp for a few minutes... ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 24 December 2005 at 1:04pm
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Theres not many of us left around at the moment... What am I going to do!! ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 24 December 2005 at 3:45pm
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Well I'm off now...
Catching the ferry at 6.15 and going to spend the Christmas period with my grandparents in Picton then heading to Nelson with Zeke and some friends for new year. Will be back on the 2nd... so long without OhBaby! Have a great holiday guys. Will catch ya next year
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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 27 December 2005 at 9:03am
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We are off to Taupo this morning! Will be back on Friday. Hope you all had a great Christmas!! ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 02 January 2006 at 10:37pm
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OK, So in case you haven't noticed I am back, hehehehe ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 03 January 2006 at 6:29am
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Hi Ana!!! ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 03 January 2006 at 8:39am
| welcome back. how was your xmas and new year? |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 03 January 2006 at 9:08am
Ooo I'm back too. One of the first things I did when I got back was come on here  
Picton was a trial. My step-grandmother was giving me lots of "helpful" parenting advice. (Including "You shouldn't do that Nikki, she'll become a nasty spoilt child") Was ready to scream but thought better of it as I actually like my Poppa. Nelson was much better... except that Hannah picked up a virus (or two) and had ulcers all through her mouth so couldn't eat and was generally verrrryyy unhappy. (Poor campers at 5am on New Year's Day )
Good to be back home!
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Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 03 January 2006 at 3:45pm
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Had a lovely break, I can't believe it is over already!
Joey's 2 front bottom teeth came through!! So as you can imagine that + HOT weather + unusual surroundings made for an interesting week!! LOL, but all in all it was great, didn't stress out about him waking lots or anything because had so much extra help during the day etc.
We are all glad to be back at home though! ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 03 January 2006 at 4:54pm
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Oh guess what we are going to auckland on friday for 2 nights. Friends wedding on friday and we have decided to stay an extra night and go out to dinner, sky city, movies etc. It will be so nice to not have the clingons. Although i will miss them. Jayde still has a morning boobie too so ill miss that as well. But we so deserve it after having the year from hell. BTW Jayde is now off all medication as of the 26th of December and doing really well. ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 03 January 2006 at 5:43pm
| thats great!! Should be a great 2006 for jayde then! |
Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 03 January 2006 at 7:05pm
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yeah she is almost normal. noone can be completly normal coming from this family ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: mum2paris
Date Posted: 03 January 2006 at 8:50pm
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Aw Ana, Josef has teeth??!!
Ayja is still gummy.... not holding out much hope - paris didn't get any till 11 months. ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja
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Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 03 January 2006 at 9:03pm
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Janine - I know!! We were surprised at how early it was too!! But they are so cute They are about half way up now, I suppose they will be fully up by the end of the week. Went really fast! ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Xander&Harmony
Date Posted: 05 January 2006 at 9:58am
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harmony has her 2 bottom teeth thru now too!!!
------------- BECS http://www.sparklee.com">
Angel Baby 10/07/09 (10wks4days) |
Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 05 January 2006 at 10:32am
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hehehehe, they are so sharp aren't they!? so cute though! ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Xander&Harmony
Date Posted: 05 January 2006 at 10:34am
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i no!!! Harmony has been rather good with cutting them too.just the odd grizzle and thats all. ------------- BECS http://www.sparklee.com">
Angel Baby 10/07/09 (10wks4days) |
Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 05 January 2006 at 1:45pm
| Jake has just got a molar and an eye tooth. He got his front teeth and no problem but the recent two were Pamol days. |
Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 05 January 2006 at 5:06pm
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Hey ladies, I'm back!
Josiah cut his first tooth yesterday, at exactly 8 months old! He's pulling himself up on the furniture, and falling over lots. Very cute. ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 06 January 2006 at 6:11pm
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We're going up the NSW Coast for a week, leaving shortly. Back next Friday. Hoping for some rest, and some time to get my head sorted. ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 06 January 2006 at 8:04pm
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Big hugs to you Emma.
Jakey has 2 teeth now, one half way up and the other just broken through. First one came up week b4 chrissy and 2nd on monday. No worries with them either, I was stoked. Not too keen on the biting when feeding though. First time he did that was on christmas day and it hurt so much I yelled f**k REALLY loud and cried. Oh the shame.......... ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 06 January 2006 at 9:32pm
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Don't worry, it's only a stage they go through while teething, and mostly just with the front teeth while they get used to the feeling of them in their mouths.
So if you can survive through teething, BF does get better again! I remember a few times I have yelped (and sworn very loudly) when Hannah has clamped her teeth down on my nipple Not pleasant at all.
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Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 09 January 2006 at 1:19pm
Joey hasn't bitten me yet but he has given himself a bleeding lip twice already  chomps down on his toys too hard and lip gets in the way. Poor bubba------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 09 January 2006 at 3:31pm
| I hATE it when they bleed. Makes you feel really bad. In sydney Jake fell down the steps and got a bleeding nose and cut upper lip. ...so much blood that both of us had to change t-shirts. I felt like the worst mum ever!!! |
Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 09 January 2006 at 4:28pm
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I accidently cut jakes finger when he was about 31/2 months old while cutting his nails. MAN did that sucker bleed!! it bled for hours, i kid you knt. We both sat on the bed howling, me cos i felt so awful and him cos mummy hurt him!! meanest worst mum in the world!! I went back to biting his nails after that! (that was my first and last time with the clippers..) ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: k&jsmum
Date Posted: 09 January 2006 at 8:25pm
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OMG i so know that feeling. Jaidyn got into my razors last year and cut the end of his thumb off - just the skin. But it bled sooo much i ended up ringing that health line cos i couldnt see how bad the cut was. I managed to get dressings on it but had to chage about 3-4 times. I felt soo bad.
But the neonat nurses told me (after i accidently poked keegs in the eye with a themometer in the hosp when he was tiny and the nurses found me in the corner bawling cos i had hurt my baby) there are plenty of times that as mums we accidently hurt our kids be it tripping over them - my most common one - or the finger cutting but our babes will always forgive and love us!!! ------------- Marlene Keegan ~ 14 October 2003 Jaidyn ~ 14 October 2003 |
Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 10 January 2006 at 8:42am
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My friend with 3 kids said "you're not a real mum until you accidently hurt your child" LOLOL dunno if it's true but it made me laugh anyway ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 10 January 2006 at 10:59am
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I burnt jake with the seat belt. We had been shopping for honestly about ten minutes. the car was in the shade, but the setabelt had obviously heated up anyway. No mark though!
Actually when jake was little, he had this huge bruise on his arm. I thought that I had hurt him while changing, and started feeling guilty. Until we discovered, the "bruise" was actually a hickey!!! Jake was sucking on his arm when he went to sleep, or while I was burping him. |
Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 10 January 2006 at 11:56am
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LOLOL! Hey Liz, I think you should start writing a book while you waiting for bubs! Your stories just crack my up!! ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 10 January 2006 at 1:58pm
| hahahaha |
Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 10 January 2006 at 6:23pm
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i'd read it ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 11 January 2006 at 10:24am
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me too! ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 11 January 2006 at 12:19pm
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You could be the next Kaz Cooke... ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: preggy_sunflower
Date Posted: 11 January 2006 at 12:37pm
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Better than Kaz Cooke!!! (BTW, I have Up the Duff, and I LOVE IT!) ------------- Joshua Hadynn - Born 3 May 2006 |
Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 11 January 2006 at 1:42pm
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I loved it too. I think I will get her kid wrangling book as that is supposed to be fab too. ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: lou
Date Posted: 11 January 2006 at 7:28pm
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I seem to be always knocking Sophie over at the moment - she is just tall enough to catch the bottom of my bump ------------- Mother to two beautiful children - Sophie age 6 and Ephraim age 4 |
Posted By: k&jsmum
Date Posted: 11 January 2006 at 7:33pm
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I have the Kid Wrangling and its great!! Am always refering to it ------------- Marlene Keegan ~ 14 October 2003 Jaidyn ~ 14 October 2003 |
Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 15 January 2006 at 9:20pm
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we are off to the beach tomorrow for a week. All the best Liz I know you will have had your little "boy" by the time I get back.
------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 16 January 2006 at 7:35am
| "boy" eh? I really have no idea. I swing depending on the day. |
Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 16 January 2006 at 12:08pm
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At least you get a nice surprise at the end of all this waiting... ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 16 January 2006 at 5:16pm
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hhmmm havent seen liz on this arvo... maybe baby?????? ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 16 January 2006 at 5:34pm
| no. |
Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 16 January 2006 at 8:01pm
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*%$@!!!!!!!! ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 16 January 2006 at 9:09pm
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LMAO!!! I LOVE IT!! (not that you have to wait dearest Liz, just your answer!!) ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 22 January 2006 at 9:53am
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YAY i was right ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 22 January 2006 at 12:41pm
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Well done Maria. You have won a baby!!! He just needs to be picked up from Palmerston North.
(Liz - Sorry for trying to give away your child for you... perhaps you could send Jake instead? Taine probably makes less noise at this stage) |
Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 22 January 2006 at 1:08pm
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ha ha nooooooo. Hey Nikki what was the outcome of your test BTW? I cant remember what thread it was in and cant be arsed looking through all the posts when I was away. ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 22 January 2006 at 3:54pm
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Ha! She didnt do it Maria!! ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 22 January 2006 at 5:07pm
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tsk tsk. ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 22 January 2006 at 9:36pm
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Oooo Aimee I'm going to get you!
Just decided to wait for period then test if it doesn't come.
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Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 23 January 2006 at 8:58am
| so...whats going on now Nikki? Still waiting??? |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 23 January 2006 at 9:38am
| Yep, another week or so |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 26 January 2006 at 8:26am
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Fecking bastard. Took a test this morning and it was positive.
Not feeling brilliant. Zeke is sad too. Not the right time for either of us. Grrrr. Going on the freaking injection as I seem to have superhuman fertility. I've been sooo good with the pill!!!!!!! Atleast I can take comfort in the fact that I don't actually hate Zeke, it was just hormones. Anyway, sorry for putting this in a random thread but I don't want to make it a topic on its own as that would make it bigger than I want it to be. Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Man, and my Mum is coming down to Wellington this weekend and I feel like I've done something wrong!!! I want to tell her but I don't want to disappoint her! |
Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 26 January 2006 at 9:50am
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oh my god nikki!!!! i'm sorry i don't know what to say!! we can be superhuman fertility freaks together!!
ummmmm yeah, what a shock! at least, as you say, you can take comfort in the fact you and zeke care for each other?? ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com">
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Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 26 January 2006 at 9:57am
| Niki, just sent you a PM, but I can totally sympathise and understand, as anyone who remembers my reaction to our second bubba (not that i don't adore him now!), Jsut letting you know we support you in any decision you decide on. |
Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 26 January 2006 at 10:02am
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OMG Nikki, I didnt actually think it would be positive , Geez Louise you are superhuman fertile arent you. Thinking of you chick. You have done a brilliant job with Hannah going to uni as well as being a mum. ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 26 January 2006 at 10:04am
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ps dont think you will be dissapointing your mum. Mums are there for support. Im sure she wont judge you. ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 26 January 2006 at 12:39pm
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Oh Nikki, dont know what to say either sorry. Thinking of you ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: preggy_sunflower
Date Posted: 26 January 2006 at 12:51pm
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Ah, feck. Hope you're ok Nikki. Thinking of you. Whatever choice you make is the right one - remember that. ------------- Joshua Hadynn - Born 3 May 2006 |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 26 January 2006 at 1:32pm
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Aw crap. I'm crying now.
Thanks guys. I didn't really think it'd be positive either, hence putting it off for so long! I'd been feeling like it was my fault earlier but I think I've come to terms with the fact that this time it was just bad luck. I went to the doctor and apparently I am about 7 weeks. I'm going to have a termination, which I'm not that stoked about but just can't possibly deal with another child right now. Little bit selfish but nothing is completely stable in my life and I'm already trying to work out ways to follow my dreams with one kid, with two it'd be impossible. (Or very very very hard.) But yeah, sad for what won't be. Maybe in the future.
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Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 26 January 2006 at 1:44pm
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Ohh Nikki. Im bawling too. What a tough decision for you to make. Big hugs. Ive been logging on here all day to see how you are doing. Tell your mum you will need her shoulder to lean on. ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: meow
Date Posted: 26 January 2006 at 1:51pm
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Me too.. I've been wanting to know how you are :( Tell your mum, that's what they're there for aye.. we're all here to support you no matter what, and I'm happy to watch Hannah for you if you need a few hours to yourself too. ((hugs)) ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 26 January 2006 at 2:15pm
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Yeah, I think I'll tell Mum when she's here. She will be good but it's still scary.
Thanks Kat. I kinda like having Hannah round with me at the moment, she has been giving me lots of hugs! If I get sick of her, we both might come round
I think I'm back in denial mode so I'll be right for another couple of hours at least
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Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 26 January 2006 at 3:16pm
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You know I am here for you if you need me Nikki!
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Posted By: preggy_sunflower
Date Posted: 26 January 2006 at 3:19pm
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Lots of hugs to you Nikki. A really tough time, and decision. Remember we're all here for you Look after yourself. ------------- Joshua Hadynn - Born 3 May 2006 |
Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 26 January 2006 at 3:50pm
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awww nikki! your decision is not a selfish one love! its a very brave one! you are also thinking of the futures of your children. as you say, things in your life aren't stable right now and having another child and putting your studies/dreams on hold will definately effect their lifestyles also!
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Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 26 January 2006 at 8:42pm
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New update - told Mum and she was great. She isn't disappointed with me (yay!) and thinks it's a brilliant idea that I go on the injection
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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 26 January 2006 at 8:43pm
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Yay. mums rock.
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Posted By: meow
Date Posted: 26 January 2006 at 9:20pm
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Cool that's great news your mum took it so well.. it was meant to be that she happened to be coming to see you this weekend, so she can be there for you :) :) ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 26 January 2006 at 10:05pm
| yah for mums!!! |
Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 26 January 2006 at 10:26pm
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I bet you feel like a weight has been lifted now. I have to agreee mums are great! ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 27 January 2006 at 7:15am
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YAY!! Mums are the best!! ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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