She refused me!
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Topic: She refused me!
Posted By: busymum
Subject: She refused me!
Date Posted: 29 November 2007 at 7:35am
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Kryssi's overnight routine goes a bit like this:
dinner, bottle, bed (7.30pm), wake (about 6.45am), breast feed, breakfast. This morning at 6.45 she plain out refused me! Shut lips, pushed away, only wanted to play 
So much for planning to drop the morning feed over the Christmas holidays.... I think my DH might need to wake up a bit earlier for baby breakfast time! 
I'm still shocked that she refused me... after 11 hours of empty tummy -------------  |
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Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 29 November 2007 at 9:10am
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yay! self weaning at work... bit sad for you tho but good you dont have to force the issue or anything... and she may want it again tomorrow. I'm pretty sure toby refused me at one stage but came back pretty quicky too!!! ------------- http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker"> 
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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 29 November 2007 at 1:43pm
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Char refused me this morning as well, and once yesterday, but only one side. Has fed about three times since though... Weird, these girls... ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: Bombshell
Date Posted: 29 November 2007 at 2:35pm
| i was thrilled when Ella selfweaned...awesome - i didnt have to force her...go with it Teresa! |
Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 29 November 2007 at 9:04pm
| Aww how sad, kinda. I was really sad when Jack refused me but then after a week was kinda glad to have my girls back to myself. |
Posted By: FionaS
Date Posted: 29 November 2007 at 9:08pm
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It's sad hey. Gabrielle has just weaned as of this week. She hasn't been into it and 2 nights ago she bit me so I decided that was it. It's a funny feeling...freeing but sad. ------------- Mummy to Gabrielle and Ashley |
Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 29 November 2007 at 9:24pm
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Ouch!!!
It just was weird. I'm not too worried though as I feel she's old enough to go without. And I'd like my breasts to settle in "proper" size (whatever that is) so I can wear some nicer bras!!!  ------------- |
Posted By: FionaS
Date Posted: 29 November 2007 at 9:41pm
Jealous! My breastfeeding size was only just a respectable C so now I feel very inadequate and not very "womanly"  ------------- Mummy to Gabrielle and Ashley |
busymum wrote:Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 29 November 2007 at 10:07pm
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Can she have a word to my boobie monster who likes an hour in the morning and an hour at night ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
Busy mum to Miss 15yrs, Miss 10yrs and Master 4yrs |
Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 30 November 2007 at 5:18pm
Nothing to be jealous about - I'm a 12B at biggest ROFL------------- |
Posted By: Bombshell
Date Posted: 30 November 2007 at 7:16pm
| so has she weaned now? |
Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 30 November 2007 at 10:05pm
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She accepted today! Couple of weeks, I think. She's not feeding for long at all. ------------- |
Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 01 December 2007 at 5:15pm
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Ok she was fluffing around too much today. She's not interested. And after not feeding her for 48 hours pre-yesterday morning, I didn't even feel 'full'. So she's obviously not interested and I think it's all over from now.
Gosh... the end.... ------------- |
Posted By: Bombshell
Date Posted: 01 December 2007 at 9:27pm
| oh hon....but hey go with her direction and you will be fine.... |
Posted By: toniellis
Date Posted: 02 December 2007 at 7:59am
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If you are happy to finish up then all good.
Breast strikes are actually really common though where bubs can go off boobie for up to a week! I had it with my boy & thought it was all over but nup he changed his mind 5 days later and we were back into it again. I had a think about it & I've been continuously breastfeeding for over 3 years now and I still have anotheer 3 years to go if my plans stay the same....  ------------- Mum to Alex (11), Blaire (10) & Erika (8) and Damien (6) Successful HWB VBA2Cs! Soon to be surrogate |
Posted By: FionaS
Date Posted: 02 December 2007 at 10:51am
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Elle had a little feed again last night. She is very sick ATM. Interesting...she has only had 2 very very minor colds in 15mths and now suddenly as we wean she gets really really sick! I think in our case breastmilk must have helped her immunity.
Are you feeling ready for weaning busymum? ------------- Mummy to Gabrielle and Ashley |
Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 02 December 2007 at 8:50pm
Yea I am. I was getting a bit sore (nipples) from little milk and grown-up suckling (grown up baby, not the other!!) Was just going to wait until Christmas to help DH out in the early breakfast department lol but I'm decided now and today I enjoyed wearing an un-maty bra  ------------- |