so so so gutted
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Forum Name: Life After Miscarriage
Forum Description: Up to one in five pregnancies ends in miscarriage, yet for many the loss of a pregnancy is isolating and lonely. Share your thoughts and feelings here with others who have experienced loss.
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Topic: so so so gutted
Posted By: Kazzle
Subject: so so so gutted
Date Posted: 07 December 2007 at 3:39pm
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While i was at the doctors today, i happened to mention that i thought there was something strange with my period....and he said i am having a missed miscarriage (missed cos i never got the bfp), i was 4 days late, and its already run 2 days longer than normal, and its still really heavy, just no clotting, cramping or pain...excatly 3mths after my last one...I knew i was pregnant, but having it confirmed by the doctor was hard, cos up until that point i had just thought...oh i will just pretend its my period.
I havent said anything to kent, but 15mths of ttcing 1 confirmed miscarriage and 2 unconfirmed (as in no tests or anything) miscarriages, i am beginning to wonder if im destined to have any more kids. I see the hospital specialists on the 20th so will get all the results of my bloods etc then and will talk to them in more depth. I know i am really blessed to have Rhiannon but i want more  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 07 December 2007 at 4:19pm
 that is awful news:( ------------- Mum to two amazing boys! |
Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 07 December 2007 at 4:41pm
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Posted By: Leish
Date Posted: 07 December 2007 at 5:03pm
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Awww Kazzle I'm so sorry to hear that. ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 07 December 2007 at 5:48pm
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aww hunny i,m soo sorry for your loss big big hugs ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 07 December 2007 at 6:06pm
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Does your doc think it's all sad coincidence or is there something else going on that's making it difficult for you to retain pregnancies? -------------  |
Posted By: katie1
Date Posted: 07 December 2007 at 6:28pm
 So sorry Kazzle.
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Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 07 December 2007 at 7:34pm
| big hugs for you and hubby love! |
Posted By: Kazzle
Date Posted: 07 December 2007 at 7:57pm
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the doctor didnt really say much, but i think thats because i had told him that i had an appointment with the hospital obs on the 20th and that i had had a lot of bloods taken so just awaiting the results...I also have a pelvic scan next week as well through the hospital, so hopefully i will get some answers.
I do know though that my blood clotting factor is high, which apparently can hinder the baby taking, so it may just be a case of having to take asprin before i get pregnant not when i find out. So not long to wait now until i have some answers ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 07 December 2007 at 8:07pm
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Big hugs Kaz, I know you've been looking forward to being pregnant again for a while. ------------- |
Posted By: Bubbaloo
Date Posted: 07 December 2007 at 8:39pm
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I'm so sorry Kaz hopefully you get some answers soon ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  Was danni-chick Mum to James My Angel 28/07/08 |
Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 07 December 2007 at 9:29pm
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Oh Kaz that really bites. Hopefully you get some answers on the 20th at the hospital. ------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 07 December 2007 at 9:31pm
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Kaz, that sux, mate. ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: emachan
Date Posted: 08 December 2007 at 10:33am
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Kazzle - that is so horrible for you, I think that you should definately talk to your DH so he knows what you are going through - this is too hard for you to have to go through by yourself.
Take care of yourself chicky - I'm (and lots of others here) are thinking of you!!
emma ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  DD#1 Sept 08 DD#2 Oct 09 |
Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 08 December 2007 at 11:09am
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Posted By: cuppatea
Date Posted: 08 December 2007 at 11:23am
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So sorry Kazzle, I hope the appointment sheds some light on whats happening. ------------- 
 
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Posted By: Kazzle
Date Posted: 08 December 2007 at 2:52pm
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thanks guys for all your support, it really does help, i told Kent last night and today i feel loads better...knowing i have appointments coming up helps i suppose...
So hopefully in a week or so i will have all the answers i need. ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Bumble
Date Posted: 08 December 2007 at 3:37pm
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Hugest hugs to you.
I so know how much you want another ------------- formerly known as "Bee" Ethan ~ March 2003 Big 6 year old school boy! Micah ~ Aug 2008 ~ Smiley pants who loves telephones! |
Posted By: susieq
Date Posted: 10 December 2007 at 2:13pm
| Big hugs |
Posted By: katie1
Date Posted: 10 December 2007 at 3:57pm
| How are you doing Kazzle? Thinking of you still. |
Posted By: Kazzle
Date Posted: 10 December 2007 at 5:15pm
i am doing okay, nothing i can do about it really, so have chosen to just move on and see what happens, i will know on the 20th what is going on hopefully, so fingers crossed for then  ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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