oh, you have got to be kidding me
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Topic: oh, you have got to be kidding me
Posted By: mum2paris
Subject: oh, you have got to be kidding me
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 1:52pm
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ha.. my little sis is pregnant, with number 4. she is 19.
I knew it.. i told mum, the way she was acting and the fact that her tummy looked like she was. But nooooo, mum kept saying she wasn't. I KNEW IT  ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja 
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Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 1:55pm
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No you have to be joking - seriously that girl has some issues. ------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
Posted By: ShellandBella
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 1:56pm
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Holy heck! Thats a handful! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Bombshell
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 2:01pm
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FOUR KIDS!!!! NINETEEN????????
OMG you have gotta be kidding me...those poor bloomin kids to have a numbskull for a mother... was gonna add slapper but am hoping they are at least all to one guy???? |
Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 2:04pm
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For goodness sake ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 2:08pm
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OMG!! How many of them does she have Janine? ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: mum2paris
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 2:09pm
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well kinda bombshell, the the 2 yr old she adopted out has a different dad, but the rest, (her 3rd old that mum has guardianship of, and her 5 mth old and this newbie) have the same dad, at least, probably lol, her mans' been in jail for 2 months.. but i'm sure she is much further along than that judging by her size.
SO really, the only one she actually has is her 5mth old. ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja
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Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 2:10pm
OH NO!!!!!!
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Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 2:16pm
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Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 4:22pm
| that is so sad Janine. you must be gutted. |
Posted By: AliaDawn
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 5:01pm
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I have absolutely nothing against people wanting kids young... hell I am TTC my second at nearly 19, but to NOT have custody of the elder two (would your mother give her custody of the eldest if she wanted it/deserved it???) And keep popping them out? Madness... -------------  
 
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Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 5:40pm
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Oh geez. I hope she gets herself sorted soon.
I remember being shocked the 2nd and 3rd times. But the 4th?!?! Your poor mum. 
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Posted By: my4beauties
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 5:51pm
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Ok, think she needs to go back to 5th Form & take the SEX EDUCATION class again, because clearly she doesn't get that you should be using CONTRACEPTION in order to prevent things like this. And it's quite neat that her partner is in jail right now. Will he be out in time for the baby's arrival to help out? And she already has a 5 month old? Crikey!! ------------- My babies: R (9),G (7), J (5) http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 6:03pm
 Far enough along to show (probably 2 1/2 mos lol) with a 5mo. What are her plans this time?-------------  |
Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 7:15pm
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Are you going to go along with her to the scan this time Janine?? I am still a bit pi$$ed for you - so not fair. ------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
Posted By: mum2paris
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 7:27pm
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nup, nope and not. lol no way, not an inch of helping coming her way
she knows where babies come from lol, but is very allergic to latex, and thinks the non-latex are obviously too $$$, and well, has apparently done the pill thing, the injection (which is what she told mum she was on this time, like last time, turns out she wasn't) and was "going to" get and IUD but didn't, her man has just got out yesterday. and nup Alia, mum would never want her to take over custody as her first son has mega heart, developmental, behavioural problems and is currently on the road to finally being diagnosed with autism, she wouldn't have the foggiest how to care for him. hence family fights as apparently it is selfish (this is what little sis said) that none of us other girls feel that we could put our own families and kids second to take over his care if something happened to mum. hhhhhm i wonder who's selfish? ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 7:44pm
Me too. But I also add poor YOU! ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
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The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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nikkiwhyte wrote:Posted By: Bubbaloo
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 8:13pm
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Oh no not again. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  Was danni-chick Mum to James My Angel 28/07/08 |
Posted By: Andie
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 8:34pm
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Wow that news seems to hit you repeatedly, Janine. Far out. ------------- Andie |
Posted By: nictoddie
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 8:58pm
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big hugs ------------- 
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Posted By: Bombshell
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 9:51pm
| ARGH and i know that we have people waiting to adopt bubbas too....wish she would look at adoption for them .....wish more in her situation would actually!!!! |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 9:55pm
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I think she did with her second child
And yeah, poor you Janine! |
Posted By: peanut butter
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 10:20pm
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bloody hell. I thought this was an old post as didnt you post exactly the same thing last year (ok it wouldnt have been number 4 but you know what I mean)
Has anyone told her to just keep her legs closed! |
Posted By: meow
Date Posted: 10 February 2008 at 10:22pm
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I can't get over the fact that she's 19 and is on her 4th!
I feel even worse for you as I know how much you were wanting another baby too  Ugh, and I feel for your mum too, having to hear about this over and over.------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 11 February 2008 at 12:00pm
exactly my thoughts too....she needs to wake up to herself!!!! big hugs to you janine  ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: Jennz
Date Posted: 11 February 2008 at 12:03pm
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Wow! Just wow. Thats shocking. ------------- Jen, Charlotte 7 & Kate 3 
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Posted By: 11111
Date Posted: 11 February 2008 at 2:02pm
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oh hun big hugs that totally sux. ------------- Deborah Mum to:   
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Posted By: Mazzy
Date Posted: 11 February 2008 at 2:06pm
I thought it was an old post too - this is nuts! Sorry you have to deal with this all over again Janine. ------------- Mum to two gorgeous girls! |
Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 11 February 2008 at 2:27pm
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Good grief! So not cool.
Thinking of you, Janine. ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: hooper
Date Posted: 11 February 2008 at 3:08pm
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OMG
Does'nt she have a tv? Thats just crazy. ------------- Desiree 
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Posted By: yummymummy
Date Posted: 11 February 2008 at 11:50pm
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OMG! ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: MyMinis
Date Posted: 12 February 2008 at 7:57am
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wow thats um yeah
pity the docs cant jsut go in and fix her during the delivery. if she was a fantastic mum who was looking after all her minis at 19 then id be happy for ehr but yeah to not have 2 of them. just not right how people can do that. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 12 February 2008 at 12:34pm
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Thats terrible, you would think she would know what causes it by now, she is obviously very very careless with contraception. People like this make me very very angry, relying on the state to support them and having kids that they can't afford or look after.
On another note, maybe, and please don't be offended by this, maybe you and Mike could "have" the baby?, adopt it? Hugs to you, it must SUCK. ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: meow
Date Posted: 12 February 2008 at 1:11pm
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Just had a thought
What if her partner (who is in jail, right?) is doing things to her...like if it's not her choice to be pregnant in the first place? ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: alexbabe
Date Posted: 12 February 2008 at 1:30pm
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wow-4 kids
that is just crazy |
Posted By: mum2paris
Date Posted: 12 February 2008 at 6:09pm
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I'm not really too fussed by it, I prob will just stay a bit angry really at how careless she is being and unfair she is to the kids, .... Meow, nope she is deifnately consenting in this behaviour. Is is always all happy happy when she's first pregnant.. until she has the scan and finds out it's a boy. Then that's about the sum total of her interest. after she finds out it's another boy she doesn't want to know. ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja
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Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 12 February 2008 at 6:14pm
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Argh. I just don't know what to say to this. Big hugs to you Janine! ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: AliaDawn
Date Posted: 12 February 2008 at 6:48pm
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She's doing all this just to get a girl??? This should be illegal... -------------
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Posted By: mum2paris
Date Posted: 12 February 2008 at 7:37pm
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well that's our theory, because seriously the change in her after the scan is always like black and white, and she's forever talking about "when" she has her little girl. she is scarily obsessed with Ayja, within 2 weeks of me having ayja she was pregnant with her 2nd, and she has been OTT with Ayja everytime she sees her, in a scary way. Ayja, as a result, is kinda petrified of her and screams or gets realy angry when my sis comes up to cuddle her, she just doesn't want her near her. ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja
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Posted By: nictoddie
Date Posted: 12 February 2008 at 8:54pm
kids are amazing aye, the so know who too trust -------------
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Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 12 February 2008 at 9:26pm
| Eeek those poor kids, hopefully its a girl so she stops now. But then her poor little boy if it is. |