Blown Away
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Topic: Blown Away
Posted By: mummy_becks
Subject: Blown Away
Date Posted: 20 February 2008 at 7:52pm
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My friend just rang me from work and I got from her "are you sitting down??" So I sat down and said "yes". She told me that a girl I worked with passed away yesterday - they had to turn her life support machine off The sad thing was she was pregnant and due in May. There are rumours that the baby was delivered by c section but stil don't know if that is true. Now i'm sitting here meant to be all excited as Nigel is coming home in a few hours and all i'm doing is crying Stink thing is that her tangi is probably going to be over in the Hawkes Bay and I won't be able to go to it ------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
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Posted By: Brenna
Date Posted: 20 February 2008 at 8:00pm
That is so sad!!  -------------  My beautiful 2 girls...nearly 4 and 13 months
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Posted By: meow
Date Posted: 20 February 2008 at 8:10pm
That is a terrible thing to happen!
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Posted By: EmDee
Date Posted: 20 February 2008 at 8:18pm
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OMG Becks thats awful ------------- DS 8 DD 6 DS 4 DD 2 |
Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 20 February 2008 at 8:25pm
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Oh Becks, that is so sad. Big hugs. ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: Aprilfools
Date Posted: 20 February 2008 at 8:28pm
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Oh Becks that is really awful. It brought tears to my eyes.
I hope you still manage to enjoy your first night with DH. At least he's there to kiss you better. |
Posted By: Bubbaloo
Date Posted: 20 February 2008 at 8:28pm
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That's so sad take care Becks thinking of you and her family. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  Was danni-chick Mum to James My Angel 28/07/08 |
Posted By: .Mel
Date Posted: 20 February 2008 at 8:36pm
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Aww Becks what a tragedy... hugs to you.. make sure Nigel gives you extra huggles when he gets home! ------------- Mr Mellow (16) Miss Attitude (8) Destructa Kid (3) 
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Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 20 February 2008 at 8:40pm
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Big hugs hun ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: katie1
Date Posted: 20 February 2008 at 8:43pm
| I am so sorry. That is really sad. |
Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 20 February 2008 at 8:50pm
| that is just soooo sad. I dont know what to say except how awful that must be and such a shock for everyone....big hugs. |
Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 20 February 2008 at 8:55pm
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Wow that's really sad. Do they know what her cause of death was? Sounds like it was pretty sudden. ------------- |
Posted By: yummymummy
Date Posted: 20 February 2008 at 8:59pm
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That's very sad. I too wonder what would have caused it? Big hugs anyways ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Freesia
Date Posted: 20 February 2008 at 9:27pm
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How sad I hope that the baby was delivered and is well. At least that would be some consolation for the family. -------------  
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Posted By: Snickerdoodle
Date Posted: 20 February 2008 at 9:40pm
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Man, I'm so sorry to hear that. What an absolute tragedy
Like freesia said, I hope that bubba made it. Good timing that your DH is coming home, he can give you lots of hugs and kisses. Tell him to give you a great big hug from all of us 
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Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 20 February 2008 at 9:49pm
| scary@@@!!! I hope you are okay Becks. glad Nigel will be home wsoon. would go over and keep you company but lewi is at work. |
Posted By: emachan
Date Posted: 20 February 2008 at 9:58pm
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becks - I am so sorry to hear that, I'm glad your DH is at home tonight so he can be with you. *hugs* ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  DD#1 Sept 08 DD#2 Oct 09 |
Posted By: cuppatea
Date Posted: 20 February 2008 at 10:06pm
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Oh that is awful, I hope they managed to save the baby.
Big hugs to you ------------- 
 
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Posted By: Bobbie
Date Posted: 20 February 2008 at 10:31pm
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oh that's so sad Wow you forget that these sudden deaths can happen to young people. -------------  
 
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Posted By: Andie
Date Posted: 21 February 2008 at 8:11am
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Oh that's awful. Really sad. ------------- Andie |
Posted By: nictoddie
Date Posted: 21 February 2008 at 8:13am
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very sad ..... big hugs to you ------------- 
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Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 21 February 2008 at 9:11am
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That is so tragic What an awful shock ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: mamawendz
Date Posted: 21 February 2008 at 9:36am
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Morning Becks, How did you get on through the night? I'm glad Nigel was home so you weren't on your own. It is just so awful hearing news like that, her poor family. ------------- mama_wendz My Girls: Maddisyn Tylr & Layla-Mei Virginia
My Baby Boy: Noah Aotearoa
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Posted By: mum2emj
Date Posted: 21 February 2008 at 9:46am
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that is so sad! thinking of you and her family, what an awful thing to happen
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Posted By: hooper
Date Posted: 21 February 2008 at 11:56am
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that is so sad, i hope the baby lives.
to you. ------------- Desiree 
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Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 21 February 2008 at 7:32pm
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Thanks all. I have heard the the baby was delivered and is now in the NICU (as she was only 6 months pregnant). Still waiting to hear about tangi arrangements, I so want to go but don't think I can (damn petrol prices). I was so glad Nigel came home last night I think I would of been a wreck if not. I had another person ring me and tell me last night as she was worried about me as we were really good friends at work. ------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 21 February 2008 at 7:50pm
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Aww so sad
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 21 February 2008 at 7:53pm
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Im so sorry to hear that , how awful for her family
so unfair |
Posted By: yummymummy
Date Posted: 21 February 2008 at 8:17pm
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Hope baby makes it. This is so so sad ------------- http://lilypie.com"> http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: shelleybean
Date Posted: 21 February 2008 at 9:22pm
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Holy moly - that is so sad, hopefully the wee one will make it through, keep us posted. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Bombshell
Date Posted: 21 February 2008 at 10:37pm
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how terrible...
poor bubba - is dad around? the little battler sure has a road ahead..... |
Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 24 February 2008 at 9:29pm
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Well bad news her little girl passed away on Thursday night. Wasn't nice at all. It is nice that she is with her mummy but it would of ben nice to have a part of her here with her daddy. Yeah the dad is around they were married he is doing as well as you can imagine. They had the Tangi today - but I couldn't get over there for it. But next time I do go to the Hawkes Bay I am so going to visit their grave. ------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
Posted By: mum2paris
Date Posted: 24 February 2008 at 9:31pm
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Hugs Becks ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja 
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Posted By: J&Ls mum
Date Posted: 03 March 2008 at 10:01pm
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I just searched through all the pages to find this thread again. I'm so sorry to hear the baby passed away. I really feel for the dad, i know my DH would be a complete mess if that were be and bubs.
Bigs hugs to you Becks. ------------- J - born 26th April 2008 and L - born 3rd Sept 2010 http://alterna-tickers.com"> 
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Posted By: Roxy
Date Posted: 04 March 2008 at 12:19am
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That was our boarder/workers cousin.He went up for the tangi last weekend.It was really awful.She lived on our farm for a year or so with her uncle that was our worker but I never met her.still broke my heart for her though.feel so sad for her hubby.he has lost so much.could ya really get over something like that???? ------------- Caleb 15/11/02 Brooke 14/11/05 |