Sinking
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Topic: Sinking
Posted By: Kazzle
Subject: Sinking
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 9:08am
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Im not sure where i should post this, so sorry if its in the wrong place.
But i feel like im sinking, everything just seems to be getting on top of me. My brother is struggling so much with his girlfriend that he is going back to the doctors to go back on his antidepressants cos hes having thoughts of self harm again. Our house will be ready in 2 wks to go on teh market and Kents mum is saying put it on, and his dad is saying hold off, ( and since we are buying their house, it means we are in limbo really as we dont know whats happening). I would be due to give birth soon, like in the next couple of weeks, so i am just working through that. My house looks like a bloomin bomb site, but no matter how much i tidy it, within 5 mins Rhi has messed it up again. And i keep losing my rag and its not like anyone is doing anything wrong, im happy one minute and crying the next....and i know as soon as one of the above things sorts itself out i will be okay, but right now i feel like crap and i want the world to go away and come back tomorrow  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: susieq
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 9:16am
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 9:19am
 Im sorry your feeling so down kaz, maybe your a lil bit run down aswell? get some pick me up vitamins This is what happens to me when Ive had a rough time, I get run down and emotional. You might just need a little boost.------------- |
Posted By: Mazzy
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 9:20am
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These times suck, don't they? I've just come out of one of those funks, it's so hard when everything becomes difficult, nothing seems to work and everything is a struggle. Know that it's a phase so therefore will end and things will get better and more enjoyable again. We are in a similar position with selling our house (people giving us conflicting advice) and the housing market is in such a state of change at the moment it's hard to know what the heck to do. So I feel your pain there. And I am currently sitting here in my PJs surrounded by half my pot drawer, bits of garlic bulbs that have been pulled apart and half of DD's toys, all strewn from one end of the house to the other. That was just an hours worth of play. Sigh. It's never ending. Sorry I can't offer any advice. Just know that you're not alone in feeling these things and dealing with the stuff you are dealing with. When things seem out of control for me, I find it helpful to remind myself that the one thing I can control is my reaction to what is happening around me. I hope things start to resolve themselves soon. ------------- Mum to two gorgeous girls! |
Posted By: meow
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 10:02am
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Posted By: Kazzle
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 11:41am
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thanks guys, i have just had an hours sleep while little miss is having her nap and i feel a bit better...but Sheza i do actually feel like im coming down with something, i am feeling like i am being run over by a semi trailer, and i do believe i am starting an ear infection as my ear hurts like anything.....looks like a trip to the doctors might be in order ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Jay_R
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 11:56am
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Big big big hugs Kaz.
I'm sorry things are getting on top of you so badly at the moment. Take time out to be kind to yourself.....
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Posted By: Bubbaloo
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 12:11pm
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Posted By: EmDee
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 12:30pm
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Aww Kaz, big . I hope that the doc's can help you and at least get you feeling healthy. Hopefully it will help you cope with everything else. ------------- DS 8 DD 6 DS 4 DD 2 |
Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 1:34pm
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Big hugs Kaz. ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 1:53pm
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Good girl Kaz Head to the docs and see what they say, they may put you on some vitamins aswell, just to get you back into sorts etc. you've been through an emotional time lately so that would have wrecked havoc on your body aswell. Maybe where the ear infection has come from. ------------- |
Posted By: Kazzle
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 3:01pm
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who knows, im already on multivits, iron tabs, folic acide and bp meds....have been out for 2 hours with Rhiannon and was sweet as as soon as i got home, it was like i just didnt want to be here.
it will sort itself out, tonight i am going to go sit at my quiet spot for a while and just be ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: nictoddie
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 3:08pm
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awww kaz, big hugs hun, you might be feeling a bit like it's not gonna be your home for much longer too if you are selling......... hope it all sorts itself out for ya. ------------- 
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 3:23pm
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Sounds like your feeling a little....closed in where your living, being outside probably made you feel better cos your out in the open and theres nothing to remind you why you feeling sad, know what I mean? Once you move you will probably feel heaps better, fresh start kind of thing I get like that sometimes, and when I do I'll go out for a walk, come home and clean up or something or change something around and i feel a bit better.
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Posted By: AliaDawn
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 3:34pm
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I find it hard to make friends, and get depressed easily and sitting around at home drives me stir-crazy. Try to get out more Just to local parks/beaches. If you exercise a little esp in the mornings you should have more energy for the rest of the day... I find I feel tons better when I keep fit. -------------  
 
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Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 7:59pm
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hope you feel better soon. I get a bit like that sometimes and find even a walk around the block helps.
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Posted By: Kazzle
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 8:05pm
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thanks guys, Kent has taken rhiannon to the park tonight, they have been gone for an hour now...will be home soon as its her bedtime, but its been nice just sitting quietly in the peace and quiet...i am feeling better, off for a shower soon and an early night ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 10:33pm
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Aww hugs Kaz.
I used to feel like that (with the cleaning) so I now don't do any tidying during the day and do it all when the kids are in bed. That way it seems to stay clean for longer and it gives me more time to play with them without feeling guilty for the mess. |
Posted By: yummymummy
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 11:04pm
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Posted By: Kazzle
Date Posted: 26 February 2008 at 7:35am
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morning guys, am feeling a bit better this morning, Rhi is still grumpy, and im still feeling under the weather, but not as bad as yesterday...have a play date today, so that will be good for both Rhiannon and I, and of course i get to meet 2 ppl of here that ive not met yet. ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: nictoddie
Date Posted: 26 February 2008 at 7:59am
yay have a good playdate!! -------------
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Posted By: The_Stuarts
Date Posted: 26 February 2008 at 8:10am
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Oh Kaz, I've only just stumbled across your post. I'm sorry to hear that you are feeling so down. Rhiannon's recent sleep issues prob haven't helped either.
Good on you for taking a sleep with her yesterday, bet that helped and getting outside in that glorious sunshine that would have boosted your vitamin D levels too. Enjoy your playdate today. Am thinking of you out in the beautiful welly weather with your lovely little lady. p.s. I'm only 20 min drive away and since my DH works from 3:30pm - late Michaela and I are always available if you and Rhi want company at odd hours  ------------- http://lilypie.com">   http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 26 February 2008 at 8:17am
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awww hun you stuffing from housewife sydrom you know you got it when your cooped up inside and the house just feels like its never clean big big hgs ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: Kazzle
Date Posted: 26 February 2008 at 8:23am
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yeah i have been feeling like i am losing myself a bit, but i got out yesterday, am out today, tomorrow and thursday, and have friday to myself, so i can finish painting etc
so its a busy week this week, im feeling pretty good this morning as i said, have just had a shower with little miss, thats always fun ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: peanut butter
Date Posted: 26 February 2008 at 8:49am
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Kazzle, I think you are amazing! You have been through some rough times yet you are always one of the first to offer comfort to others going through worrying times.
Hope you feel better soon 
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