Oops, I did it again
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Topic: Oops, I did it again
Posted By: kebakat
Subject: Oops, I did it again
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 10:07am
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.. I got a BFP yesterday morn! Eek.
AF is extremely regular with me and I started spotting 2 days ago but icky brown stuff (sorry if thats TMI) and I thought that was weird, I never get that at the start of AF. So the next morning I took the test. It was really faint but still there! (AF isn't actually due for a couple of days).. so it's likely that my spotting is implantation. I've been to the docs, I am getting bloods done to confirm it whenever Daniel wakes up from his nap. DH and I aren't especially happy yet. I've been on a number of different meds this month.. prescription anti-inflammatorys, sleeping pills and the biggy was canestan for thrush. The doc said that canestan is the big worry out of my meds. It's unlikely it would cause anything as it was only one dose but it could cause limb deformities. I'm not anti-abortion but since having Daniel it makes that thought so much harder. But then the other thought that I have is what if this child does have something wrong with it, can I deal with that guilt? I don't know if I want opinions. I just wanted to rant a bit. |
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Posted By: .Mel
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 10:10am
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I won't give you my opinion, but just wanted to say, feel free to vent... Hugs to you. ------------- Mr Mellow (16) Miss Attitude (8) Destructa Kid (3) 
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Posted By: Jennz
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 10:11am
Wow Congratulations! 
I would tell you not to worry but you're bound to no matter what! The joys of pregnancy again  Hopefully the Dr can help reassure you a bit. Have you looked into a bit yourself?------------- Jen, Charlotte 7 & Kate 3 
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Posted By: kebakat
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 10:13am
| No, I'm not going near google. Google is evil. I'd rather have advice straight from a doctor than torture myself researching it. |
Posted By: Jennz
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 10:16am
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Good thinking! I was going to say have you googled it but then thought better of it. You have more restraint than I would- I would be torturing away in a right state by now!
Let us know what he says- like I said, hopefully he can reassure you a bit  ------------- Jen, Charlotte 7 & Kate 3
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Posted By: kebakat
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 10:19am
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I know that google has some good info but it also has a lot of false information on it too and it's hard to weed out the correct from incorrect so I'd rather not read stuff that I'm not sure is true. DH on the other hand I'm sure won't have that type of restraint.
It's a pity I can't get the results from the bloods immediately. Because by the time that Daniel wakes up and I get down there I won't get to hear until tomorrow. Because AF isn't actually due yet I'm still semi paranoid that I'm stressing myself out over nothing even if I did get a BFP. |
Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 10:19am
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It's no one's place to put their opinions on you Stacey. All I'll say is that I hope it works out for the best, whatever the best is for you and your family.
And ... err ... you might have to go a bit easy on the treadmill!!   ------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: peachy
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 10:39am
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I used Canestan when I was preggars with Lauren as I had thrush big time. Little did I know I was pregnant at the time. I worried myself sick, but she turned out just fine!
Big hugs to you, you must going through so many emotions at the mo. ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 10:52am
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I had minor surgery while unknowingly pregnant with Kiya... it involved being knocked out under general and a weeks worth of heavy-duty pain killers (I also rolled a car a week earlier, and went on a major bender right at the start of the pregnancy) and she's fine if a bit too bright for her own good.
Big hugs, and congratulations. ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 11:26am
| Ooo congratulations Stacey I hope the test goes ok |
Posted By: cuppatea
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 11:29am
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Congratulations, does that mean you will be in the october mummies with me? or will you be in nov?
When I was having ov pain and trying to concieve the doc said it was ok to take meds up until I knew I was pg, I've also heard that until implantation they are pretty unaffected by anthing you do or take (not sure how true that is though). Good luck at the docs, I know how you feel about not getting excited we are stuck in limbo land as well at the moment. ------------- 
 
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Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 11:38am
COMGRATS STACEY!!!!
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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 12:04pm
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OOOh congrats, Luv, hope it all goes well for you, and you get over your shock. Google is evil for scaring people, seems no one ever posts up good stories.
So, has the treddie arrived yet?  ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: Bubbaloo
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 12:08pm
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Congratulations and hope everything goes well at the Dr for you feel free to rant away. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  Was danni-chick Mum to James My Angel 28/07/08 |
Posted By: peanut butter
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 12:26pm
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Oh congrats! I thought oops I did it again meant you had bought another treadmill or the likes
Try not to worry about the meds.....I'm sure a heck of a lot of babies are conceived in a shroud of booze and pills and they turn out ok....natures good like that. Hope you have a plain sailing 8-9 momths.
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Posted By: EmDee
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 12:27pm
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Congrats Stacey! I hope it all works out well for you ------------- DS 8 DD 6 DS 4 DD 2 |
Posted By: kebakat
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 12:30pm
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No the treadmill hasn't arrived yet. They said mid this week as it's coming down from Aucks.
Had my bloods done. Gah I hate waiting! lol |
Posted By: AliaDawn
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 12:33pm
Congrats Stacey! I would've loved to have two kids that close together, you lucky thing! Our finances wouldn't have cut it then though  -------------  
 
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Posted By: MummyFreckle
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 1:29pm
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Am sure everything is going to be fine, but at the end of the day you and DH will make the decisions that are right for your family. But on a positive note - YAY! Congrats! ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Mum2ET
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 1:38pm
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Congrats Stacey- hope everything works out alright
Must be something in the water for June 07 Mummies at the moment...... ------------- Mum to Ella (5) and Tom (2) |
Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 1:43pm
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Hope everything is ok Stacey and congrats ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 1:49pm
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Oh wow congrats Stacey!! Thats a hard situation your in...Im sure everything will be ok though, there are heaps of ladies who dont find out they are pregnant until half way thru etc and go on to have healthy bubba's, I guess just see what your doctor says, i agree with you that google is evil, i worried myself sick with googling bleeding etc when i started bleeding this pregnancy at 6 weeks!
Congrats again and good luck with the doctors and stuff **hugs** ------------- |
Posted By: my4beauties
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 2:00pm
Oh wow - congrats Stacey!! Hope all goes well for you!!
why do you say this mum2ella? Is there more June 07 mums preggy?? ------------- My babies: R (9),G (7), J (5) http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Mum2Ella wrote:Posted By: Mum2ET
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 2:02pm
no,no...just meant Stacey and Cuppatea....don't want to start any rumors..... ------------- Mum to Ella (5) and Tom (2) |
Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 2:28pm
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Congratulations!!! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
Busy mum to Miss 15yrs, Miss 10yrs and Master 4yrs |
Posted By: nictoddie
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 3:04pm
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wow congrats........ sure it will all be fine..... your gonna be a busy mummy!!1 ------------- 
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Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 4:07pm
| hope your results turn out the way you want! |
Posted By: susieq
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 6:39pm
| Congrats and I hope everything turns out fine |
Posted By: Leish
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 7:02pm
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Congratulations Stacey ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Andie
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 7:23pm
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Thinking of you, Stacey - try not to stress too much (ha... yeah right!!). Dare I say Congrats too? I wanna congratulate you but slap us all if you just want a shoulder to cry on! ------------- Andie |
Posted By: kebakat
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 7:51pm
| Well, we have decided we aren't going near abortion. So will wait and see what my bloods say tomorrow. And my doc wants me to have an early scan in a few weeks providing I don't miscarry or anything. |
Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 7:58pm
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Congrats Stacey! For what it's worth I had surgery to drain an abscess in my arm before I knew I was preg with Maya so she was exposed to x-rays, general anaesthetic, IV antibiotics and oral antibiotics, neither of which were recommended during pregnancy, plus a heap of nasty painkillers and she's just fine. I did worry a lot to start with, but then the district nurse that did my dressing said that if the drugs etc. had affected baby it would likely miscarry anyway so I tried to focus on the fact that as long as she tuck in there she'd be ok. -------------  Maya Grace (28/02/03)
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The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 8:23pm
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If I say that I'm sure it's probably a veeeeery slim chance anything goes wrong and you'll be fine, does that count as an opinion?
Soooo... congratulations?
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Posted By: AnnC
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 8:48pm
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I am sure when I was around 30 weeks preg I got thrust (cause I got so many Urine infections etc...) and I used a pestery (sp??) not sure what it was but midwife said it was perfectly fine and she was the one who presribed it...
Congrats - even if unplanned ------------- Ann 
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Posted By: yummymummy
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 11:07pm
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Fingers crossed everything is OK. Best of luck for the bloods and scan ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 11:55pm
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congrats stacey!
i hope everything turns out ok at the scan....as the others have said, babies can be subjected to alot and come out fine......try not to stress..yeah i know, hard to do! take care ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: Glow
Date Posted: 26 February 2008 at 8:13am
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Hope it all goes well Stace
And congrats ------------- Mummy of Two Boys B: 2004 K: 2007 |
Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 26 February 2008 at 8:25pm
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Congrats - oh what a surprise for you lol!
I'm sure everything will be ok. Hard for you but you likely won't really know until a scan...or later. ------------- |