ticker and angel
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Forum Name: Life After Miscarriage
Forum Description: Up to one in five pregnancies ends in miscarriage, yet for many the loss of a pregnancy is isolating and lonely. Share your thoughts and feelings here with others who have experienced loss.
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Topic: ticker and angel
Posted By: ElfsMum
Subject: ticker and angel
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 1:03pm
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hmmm...I'm more thinking out loud really...since the due date of my first baby (24th august) I've dealt with it pretty well...sad but ok and don't think all the time what if...just sometimes... but Ethan sure helps with that..anyway just can't bring myself to take my angel baby outta my ticker.. mostly on the other site as you have more characters but i found one that fits here) ....
I know everyone deals with it differently so maybe that's just my way of remembering her..hmm anyway there doesn't seem to be a point to my post:) guess i was kinda asking myself if it's weird that i put the angel ticker in (always look at my posts on here and wanted to put something in as everytime i post on the other site i feel like it makes my ticker complete having it in there)) even though I'm 'over' the hardest part of the mc.... hmmm.. ------------- Mum to two amazing boys! |
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Posted By: emmaohara
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 2:34pm
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I don't think its weird in the slightest, its your way of remebering and no new baby 'replaces' one that was lost but as you say it makes life easier.
I don't have a tikcer for my angel as to be honest it would make me too sad to see it every day although 'she' will always be remembered  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 3:24pm
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yeah i say she but i dont know for sure...just I've always thought she was the opposite to this baby....i hope one day i will be able to take it off:) ------------- Mum to two amazing boys! |
Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 25 February 2008 at 8:17pm
| i dont think its weird but Im not sure if it will help you move on because as emma mentioned its a constant reminder. I know for me I couldnt have one for my babies because i would feel to sad but hey do whatever brings you comfort. |
Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 26 February 2008 at 9:14am
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yeah thats a good point..never thought of it like that..i guess i figured if i didnt have it maybe it would be like she wasnt as important as Ethan.. but it's a different importance.. ------------- Mum to two amazing boys! |