I was attacked again!!!
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Topic: I was attacked again!!!
Posted By: Kels
Subject: I was attacked again!!!
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 7:54pm
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I'll start at the beginning. 2wks ago while in clinic a strange man entered my waiting room. He is extremely intoxicated and was going on about his daughters records. I said we didnt have them as she was 6yrs (he told me her age and name) and we only deal with under 5yrs. He started screaming at me that I didnt care abou this daughter and I didnt love her etc etc. Im freaking by this stage as I am stuck in the rooms with only one entry/exit. I had a mother just leaving and he started swearing at her telling her not to look f'ing at him etc. He finally left and I called the police. After getting the run around they said ring 111 as I had looked the door and had no idea if he was out there. FAST FORWARD to today I am in clinic with a great nana her pg grandaughter and their 15mth old. He comes in again and starts the whole senario again about the daughter and I dont f'ing care etc... I locked the door between the waiting room and my clinic room and call the 111. relayed the whole story including the 1st time he came etc and they want to know what the police did then. NOTHING I say as they never arrived Finaly the police turn up this time after 30mins locked in my room with this poor family. Drunken freak is still in the lounge saying he is waiting for me etc as he isnt going till I sort out his daughters file etc etc ... So now I am completely scared of ever being in clinic alone again and i have 2 clinics next week arghhhhh ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
Busy mum to Miss 15yrs, Miss 10yrs and Master 4yrs |
hence why I am having to go thru it again.Replies:
Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 7:56pm
OMG Kels that is awful!  What did the police do? ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 7:58pm
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OMG, the same guy? Are you serious?! That is so scary! I hope the police were more proactive this time! HUgs! -------------  Maya Grace (28/02/03)
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The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: gemsmum
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 8:00pm
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Wow Kels, how scary. That is one of my nightmares!! What did your CL say? Any idea what the police are going to do?
Big hugs. I don't blame you for not wanting to be there alone. ------------- http://lilypie.com">  
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Posted By: Kellz
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 8:08pm
| Oh gee thats awful. How on earth are u expected to do your job properly with that sort of worry. Can u get plunket to arange for another staff memeber to be there at the same time. Surely they cant ignore something like that, risking their staff and patient safety. |
Posted By: AandRs_mum
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 8:11pm
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OMG Kels
I am so sorry hun, what a thing to have to go thro. It isnt good enough of the police. I hope you are feeling a little better now ------------- http://lilypie.com">  
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Posted By: .Mel
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 8:16pm
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Well they need to give you some kind of protection surely until they can sort him out?
Hope you are ok. ------------- Mr Mellow (16) Miss Attitude (8) Destructa Kid (3) 
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Posted By: emachan
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 8:17pm
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scary Kels - I hope that they took him away and that he has a trespass order or something against him so he can't come back.
Hope that you're ok and it doesn't happen again. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  DD#1 Sept 08 DD#2 Oct 09 |
Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 8:18pm
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Police took him away then decided not to charge him and just trespassed him from the plunket rooms as they said he is what they class a "friendly drunk".... yeah right he looks like a big black dirty scary devil looking drunk in dark glasses Same guy Emma. Gemsm I rang the CL both times and she came both times and today with the area manager and the karitane nurse. They tried to get me to go home but I insisted on staying to see my families already booked in. Our KN nurse stayed with me for the rest of the day and next week if I still dont feel safe she will come down with me. I am not happy with the police at all and making a complaint for the previous attack. AND when I was leaving work I saw the freak at the corner of the street just sitting there ------------- http://lilypie.com">
Busy mum to Miss 15yrs, Miss 10yrs and Master 4yrs |
Posted By: katie1
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 8:20pm
| That is so scary. You poor thing. What do Plunket say when you talk to them about it? Are the Police following it up? |
Posted By: Bombshell
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 8:30pm
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111 him anytime you see him near or he comes in again and demand that they arrest him on the trespass order...threaten that you will go their supervisor and officially complain if they dont lay charges next time...
Im sure he is a harmless drunk but no reason to allow him to continue his behaviour.... |
Posted By: Kellz
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 8:38pm
I dont call it harmless when hes yelling abuse, and makes others so terrified that they cant leave the building cos they feel so unsafe 
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Posted By: AnnC
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 8:42pm
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kels with the trespass order in place he can not be close to the area, loyter around where you work or your home or anywhere you are he has to leave. IF he is anywhere near you ring the police straight away - even if hes sitting on the corner. I don;t beleive they should of called him a friendly drunk - How the hell do they know hes friendly - if you were scared and worried hes not a friendly character. Just keep reporting kels. this ofcause doesn't help if he turns up uninvited - and i would take the KN up on coming with you to your clinics ------------- Ann 
Also Mum to Josh (15) and Brooke (10) |
Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 9:01pm
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OMG the same guy, that is freaky. Def do what the others have said about the trespass order. ------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 9:05pm
Poor you, I can't imagine how scary that must be!   ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 9:05pm
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Scary stuff I have no advice so I'll just say hugs
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Posted By: Leish
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 9:06pm
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Hugs hun. Take care aye and give me a ring if you want ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Bubbaloo
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 9:28pm
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OMG Kels that is awful can they get someone else to be there with you take care hun ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  Was danni-chick Mum to James My Angel 28/07/08 |
Posted By: nictoddie
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 9:50pm
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awwww poor you , the things you guys have to put up with ------------- 
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Posted By: Bombshell
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 9:51pm
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sorry ann but a trespass order only relates to a property...hence he has been trespassed from the premises only.
A restraining order is harder to get and goes further and protection order does all you say but you need to be in a domestic relationship or been in one for a PO...ummmm pretty sure Kels wasnt "intimate" with this freak...altho she does steal hubbies for diamonds from time to time ROFL 
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Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 9:56pm
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Kels! Sorry you've had to go through this twice and I really hope that the trespass order is enough to deter him from coming near you again! ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: FionaS
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 10:09pm
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Hugs. Scary stuff :( I hope he stays far away and you don't have to go through that again with him or anyone else. ------------- Mummy to Gabrielle and Ashley |
Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 10:30pm
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Aww thanks ladies for all your support. BS i am defintely going to be hitting the 111 if I ever see him around my clinic again (thankgooness I start my new district on the 31st) I cannot not believe how scared this second time around I was yet he wasnt as abusive or as close to me as he was the 1st time. All I know is I will be taking the KN up on her offer for sure as I am now stressing about having clinic days.
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Posted By: meow
Date Posted: 11 March 2008 at 11:16pm
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 12 March 2008 at 7:44am
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aww hun how blo@@dy scary is that big hugs hun and i hope that freck donst come back ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: Andie
Date Posted: 12 March 2008 at 8:36am
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No that is jut entirely uncool. I can't believe the Police thought it wasn't so urgent when you were there alone - mentalness! So you have a Trespass Order, or did they just charge him with Trespass for the one occasion? If you have the Order, keep it in the office, and tell 111 about it should you need to ring again. They should take it more seriously. You can apply for one if you don't yet have one. ...betcha miss the days when your only 111 calls were fake ones to scare unruly teens, eh? ------------- Andie |
Posted By: The_Stuarts
Date Posted: 12 March 2008 at 9:42am
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OMG Kels. That is awful!!
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Posted By: Neeks
Date Posted: 12 March 2008 at 12:08pm
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Ick, this is just too freaky to even comprehend!!! *cringe*
I hope your feeling better today Kels, and roll on the 31st..sooner your outta there the better!!! -------------  
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Posted By: kellverona
Date Posted: 12 March 2008 at 12:13pm
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OMG thats shocking. You poor thing... That is so horrible... Big hugs ------------- http://pregnancyplanet.net/tickers/"> 
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 12 March 2008 at 2:51pm
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omg what a total nutter!!! What did the police do? Man thats so fricking typical that they didnt show up last time, the NZ police force are friggin hopeless sometimes!!!!
Id be scared to, can you organise for someone to be be at the clinic with you until the nutter is sorted out for good? ------------- |
Posted By: BuzzyBee
Date Posted: 12 March 2008 at 10:51pm
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Totally off topic, wow Sheza thats a gorgeous bump you have there ...not long now ------------- Single Mum to a darling wee boy of 3 years :) |