Bad news sorry
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Topic: Bad news sorry
Posted By: Emmecat
Subject: Bad news sorry
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 4:45pm
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Hi I think I might be miscarrying. Gutted. -------------   http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: fire_engine
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 4:48pm
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Posted By: surfergirl
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 4:49pm
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Oh no! Emmecat, I'm a lurker who is waiting for DH to come around to TTC. I have been following your journey (yes, a bit like a stalker, sorry..)
Anyhow - I am soooooo hoping this is not what you think...I was so happy for you. Fingers and everything crossed for you... (just had to de-lurk to let you know I was thinking of you!) |
Posted By: M.i.s.s.y
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 4:54pm
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Aww u poor thing.
Big Hugs
Hopfully its just bubs being silly. I had the same thing happen 2 me for about 2weeks between weeks 6-8, its very scary, but im still pregnant now, so fingers crossed its the same 4 u hun. Best of luck xoxo -------------    
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 4:54pm
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Oh no Emmecat, big hugs! That sucks!
I don't want to give you false hope, but I have had two lots of bleeding/spotting with this pregnancy, and had 3 with the gremlins and everything worked out. I have my fingers crossed for you! -------------  Maya Grace (28/02/03)
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The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 5:22pm
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Fingers crossed for you here too Emmecat!
I really, really hope this pregnancy works out for you hun! ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: Bobbie
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 5:29pm
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we need a 'crossing fingers' icon but anyway - I hope it's not what you think. -------------  
 
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Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 5:46pm
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Awww hun. Big hugs and I have all my fingers crossed for you! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
Busy mum to Miss 15yrs, Miss 10yrs and Master 4yrs |
Posted By: susieq
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 6:10pm
| Big hugs and things crossed from me too |
Posted By: katie1
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 6:12pm
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Oh no Emma. Sending you all my best wishes and positive vibes. That sucks. Fingers crossed so tightly that it will all be ok.
Take care.
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Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 6:22pm
| will have my fingers crossed for you. hopefully everything is ok |
Posted By: Emmecat
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 6:34pm
Thanks everyone, am feeling pretty low. I know bleeding is not uncommon...and it seems to have stopped for now but what worries me is the cramping I have had with it. And this niggly lower right pain that I get when I ov has also been steady throughout this last week. Can anyone tell me if this is what the start of a m/c feels like? The nurse didn't sound positive at all when I spoke to her...kept harping on about 'natures way', which I know is true but still  ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">
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Posted By: cuppatea
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 6:39pm
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All I can tell you is that everything felt "normal" with mine and I still miscarried. The day before it started I had lower back ache (like I get with af) and a few faint moments. My doc came out with the stupid natures way comment, might be true but that doesn't make it hurt any less.
I have my fingers crossed that it was just a scare, when do they want to do a scan? ------------- 
 
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Posted By: JadeC
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 6:46pm
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Oh no!! I really hope it's not happening! ------------- http://pregnancy.baby-gaga.com/" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: tropics
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 6:49pm
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oh no hugs hun hope it all works ok and that bubs is ok oxx ------------- http://lilypie.com">    [/url]
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Posted By: Emmecat
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 6:50pm
I think the Dr might try and get a scan done tomorrow, I really don't know. Not much I can do now except rest with my feet up! The bleeding is not heavy but it still prob shouldn't be happening. I guess we'll see how much my HCG has gone up tomorrow although being Friday I rpob won't get the results back until Monday  In which case I'll prob have the answer either way anyway ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">
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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 7:10pm
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I had an early m/c like you but hadn't done a pg test for. I just thought it was a heavy AF until the cramping and clotting set in. Everyone m/c differently though.
But I really hope it's not what you think. Hope you get answers soon. PS I know natures way sounds awful but I think she was trying to reassure you that if you do m/c that's the kindest way on your body. ------------- |
Posted By: EmDee
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 7:27pm
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I'm so sorry hun, I too have everything crossed that it will be OK ------------- DS 8 DD 6 DS 4 DD 2 |
Posted By: mylilmosaic
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 7:38pm
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Ooh big hun! So sorry this is happening Emmecat, I really hope it is just lil bean settling in.
Hope tomorrow gets some answers for you cause I know the not knowing does your head in. Hope you feel better tomorrow. More coming your way for you and your DP.------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Vanillabean
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 7:42pm
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That really sux. So sorry this is happening.
They say that of people that bleed in early pregnancy about half will miscarry and half will continue with a normal pregnancy. I really really hope you are in the second group. ------------- 5x mc, Jan 08, June 08, Nov 08, May 09, April 11 http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: kobec
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 8:17pm
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Oh no so sorry to hear that Emmecat. Just as the rest of the girls have said hopefully everything will be ok.
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Posted By: FionaS
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 8:24pm
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Bug hugs hon. Keep posting about it on here so we can support you with whatever happens.
Xxx ------------- Mummy to Gabrielle and Ashley |
Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 8:29pm
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Big hugs, hope everything turns out ok. Will be thinking of you tomorrow... ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: AnnC
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 8:32pm
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aww i hope alls well tomorrow ------------- Ann 
Also Mum to Josh (15) and Brooke (10) |
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 8:47pm
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Oh nooo Im so sorry! I know how you feel totally, I m/c last july and then had another bleeding scare this pregnancy aswell. So it can go either way, wait and see how you go, sometimes these things do turn out to be ok.
BIG HUGS to you hun (((HUGS))) ------------- |
Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 9:06pm
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How is the bleeding now Emmecat? ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: The_Stuarts
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 9:06pm
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Emmecat, I hope Sheza's right and everything is ok tomorrow. I'll be thinking of you. ------------- http://lilypie.com">   http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Huggles
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 9:37pm
Am thinking of you and sending nice vibes to make your baby stick.... Good luck!
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Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 13 March 2008 at 10:12pm
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Posted By: gemsmum
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 7:41am
| Just saw this thread. Big hugs and hope everything has settled down and is ok. |
Posted By: Emmecat
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 8:39am
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Hi everyone. Thank you for all your well wishes and support, it means a lot to me. Unfortunately I started miscarrying in the early hours of this morning. DP and I are gutted so might just take a few days to ourselves to deal. I'm ok and no doubt at some stage will get back on the ttc wagon. Will keep you all informed as to how things are, but might just lay low for a bit. Thanks again guys, you're all wonderful |
Posted By: cuppatea
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 8:42am
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I'm so sorry Emmecat -------------
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Posted By: Kazzle
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 8:45am
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I am so sorry emmecat, if you need to chat just pm me, we are always here so please just post when you feel like it...am thinking about you (((hugs))) ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Emmecat
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 8:47am
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Posted By: Leelee
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 9:14am
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I am so so sorry to hear that Emmecat! Take car of yourself ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 9:32am
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Ohh emmecat Im so sorry Rest up and take some panadol and pop a hot water bottle on ur tum, that was the best thing for my cramps and its what my midwife told me to do. ------------- |
Posted By: mylilmosaic
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 9:38am
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Oh Emmecat I am so so sorry big hugs to you ... Take care of yourself hun ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 10:03am
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Emmecat I'm so very sorry. Thinking of you and your hubby, sending you lots of love. ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and:
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Posted By: nicolaann
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 10:18am
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I'm so so sorry too! Nothing anyone can say will make you feel any better, but atleast you know that we are all thinking of you! ------------- Nicky, Mum to Alex (5) & Sophie (3) http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: The_Stuarts
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 10:23am
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I'm so sorry Emecat. Am thinking of your and your DP. Take care. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: kobec
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 10:32am
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huge hugs to you and your DP. Try and rest up. So sorry this is happening to you.
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Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 11:50am
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oh hun i'm so sorry take care....big hugs to you and DP ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: tropics
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 11:55am
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Im sorry hun big hugs and take care thinking of you ------------- http://lilypie.com"> [/url]
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Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 1:14pm
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I am so, so sorry You do wonder sometimes, how much heartbreak you may have to endure in your TTC journey Take care of you in the coming days and weeks. Losing baby after struggling to conceive is such a desolating feeling. ------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 1:35pm
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OK, this is going to sound like a terrible question - did you get your original bloods back and that confirmed the pregnancy??
(eeeek. Please don't hate me!) |
Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 1:47pm
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I'm so sorry to see this. Take care of yourself, and come back when you are ready ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: katie1
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 2:49pm
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Ohh Emmecat. I am so so sorry. It is not fair.
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Posted By: noodle
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 4:58pm
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Oh hun i'm so so sorry! big to you ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: emachan
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 5:04pm
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hey chicky, I am so sad to hear your news
TTC and pregnancy is such an emotional rollercoaster. sending lots of love.. em ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  DD#1 Sept 08 DD#2 Oct 09 |
Posted By: EmDee
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 5:29pm
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I'm so sorry Emmecat. I'm thinking of you and your DP too ------------- DS 8 DD 6 DS 4 DD 2 |
Posted By: Vanillabean
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 5:37pm
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I'm so very sorry that this happened. Thinking you and take care of yourself. ------------- 5x mc, Jan 08, June 08, Nov 08, May 09, April 11 http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: susieq
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 6:18pm
| Big hugs Emmecat |
Posted By: susieq
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 6:20pm
| Big hugs Emmecat |
Posted By: susieq
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 6:22pm
| Big hugs Emmecat |
Posted By: aussiemum
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 6:36pm
| Oh no Emmecat, I was reading through these posts just dreading that it would turn out this way. Lots of hugs to you. |
Posted By: Mazzy
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 8:09pm
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I am so, so sorry Emmecat ------------- Mum to two gorgeous girls! |
Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 9:36pm
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Posted By: meow
Date Posted: 14 March 2008 at 10:59pm
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I'm so sorry
I didn't want to say it earlier, but with both m/c I had, the line was very faint as yours was I wish you didn't have to go through this, I wouldn't wish it on anyone ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Snickerdoodle
Date Posted: 15 March 2008 at 12:24pm
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Big hugs Emmecat
Such sad news. Look after yourself, hun 
XOX ------------- 
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Posted By: chonny
Date Posted: 16 March 2008 at 1:33pm
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big hugs emma, i'm so sorry things didn't turn out fo ryou. Everyone is thinking of you guys and wish you all the best for your recovery. -------------   
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