OBVIOUSLY- you need to have sex.....
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Topic: OBVIOUSLY- you need to have sex.....
Posted By: turk13
Subject: OBVIOUSLY- you need to have sex.....
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 7:39am
when your TTC, but i just dont ever feel like it !! Hubby is so patient and understanding, a little confused aswell. ( i am too)our relationship is fantastic, we are only 25, and shoud be going for it.. (you'd think) its embarrassing, but hey, we are all mums here (or trying) so is there many others out there who get like this? I realise I'll not get pregnant the way i'm going, but i cant even force myself to do it ! 
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Posted By: cuppatea
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 8:10am
Well I read somewhere that the more you do it the more you want to do it. So perhaps if you are charting write down the nights that you are going to do it and then just stick to it and then hopefully the more you do it the more you will enjoy it. ------------- 
 
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Posted By: peanut butter
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 8:41am
you dont HAVE to have sex to have a baby The IVF girls would argue with you on that one.
Sorry no help....but you realy only need to do it once |
Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 8:53am
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maybe you should just forget the sex for a while and concentrate on the romance, the sex will come later. I found it hard - and hubby too - to want it when we were only having it to make babies. ------------- http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker"> 
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 8:54am
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After ttc for a few months I got sick of having sex lol, it started to feel more like a chore rather than for fun etc.
Im not really sure what to tell you but...if ya want a baby ya gotta do the deed lol, can you do something to get you in the mood? There is an old thread somewhere on spicing up the BD, I'll try and find it for you. And like Bizzy said, just concentrate on the romance and not WHY you are having sex. This is what we did after our miscarriage and we conceived on the second try without really trying.------------- |
Posted By: MrsMojo
Date Posted: 31 March 2008 at 9:04am
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I was the opposite, knowing that we were finally TTC made me horny all the time.
Maybe you could try to stop thinking about the TTC and just enjoy the intimacy (I know - easier said than done). Red wine always helps me too -------------  
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Posted By: Bombshell
Date Posted: 04 April 2008 at 8:19am
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Bah romance....we ttc for 6 months then altho tempting etc we just relaxed into it and Ella is the result of a quickie the morning of DH catching a plane to oz for rest of my O week!!!
Romance....none!!! Success.....perfect! |