my dad is a
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Topic: my dad is a
Posted By: james
Subject: my dad is a
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 8:51am
frist he had a heart attack and didnt tell us now he needs a brain scan and wont tell us why has got all of us relly angery and upset at him but he wont tell us whats going on argghhhh i,m siting here thinking i dont want my dad to die and hes going its fine my mum is a wreck and so are us kids why is he being a dick hes also a ragging ahloclo who will not stop drinking has gpotton wrost since my gran died its quite scary to put this out there soo please dont judge i love my dad soo much and this relly hurtting us see noiw i,m crying bugger it bloody a-hloe argghhhhhhhhhhh  ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
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Posted By: Bubbaloo
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 8:56am
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Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 8:57am
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men are funny creatures... they dont know a thing about emotions or sharing or anything...
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Posted By: cuppatea
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 9:11am
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Yeah I second Bizzy
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Posted By: MumsyMoo
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 11:12am
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Gosh - Sounds exactly like my Dad...
He dropped off the face of the planet for 3 weeks and when he finally came back to the surface I was like "what the hell happened? Why were you not replying to my calls/texts/emails?" And he goes (in *the* most casual tone) "Oh, I had a stroke. And the doctors found a blod clot on my brain" ........ I was sitting here going, "Uhhh, I'm sorry. What? And no one thought to alert me?" Men are daft sometimes -------------  My wee girl is the love and light of my life!
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Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 11:33am
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Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 1:02pm
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okay, my grandfather had terminal cancer, and he swore my nana to secrecy not to tell anyone because "i don't want to worry them". idiot. I wonder if your dad is thinking the same thing?
and also, when my dad had his heartattack, he kinda went into denial - still smokes, still drinks - very much, "oh it won't happen to me" kinda thing. this could also be the same with your dad. Annoying and childish, but kinda understandable at the same time. big hugs to you and your sis Lu. |
Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 7:25pm
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Hugs Lu, bloody stubborn Maori men! He sounds exactly like my Willie, refuses to accept that he isn't bulletproof.
Best of luck to your dad for his scan, keep us posted. ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
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Posted By: nictoddie
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 7:51pm
yup my dad is the same........ it's a man thing  ------------- 
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Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 11:54pm
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Lu! ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 30 March 2008 at 10:45pm
tanks guys yep my dad is stubbord its a familiy thing ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |