So total disgusted (VENT!!!)
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Forum Description: Up to one in five pregnancies ends in miscarriage, yet for many the loss of a pregnancy is isolating and lonely. Share your thoughts and feelings here with others who have experienced loss.
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Topic: So total disgusted (VENT!!!)
Posted By: Kazzle
Subject: So total disgusted (VENT!!!)
Date Posted: 17 April 2008 at 3:45pm
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Okay so my miscarriage started on saturday morning, i rang the hospital (since im under their care) at 8.30am on monday morning, and then at 3pm on tuesday after, and im still awaiting the ob to ring me back...
My bleeding is so much longer this time around and no clotting(but we think thats because i have been taking aspirin). No scan to see if everything is gone, no follow up bloods NOTHING. I am seeing my doctor tomorrow, am wanting a referral to a private ob (the same one that ran the recurrent miscarriage clinic in wellington), and i am also going to discuss other options for me. My contiuous monitoring from the hospital consisted of 3 bloods and 1 scan (in 4wks)...i am so disgusted by the lack of concern and treatment that i refuse to go back to them. I have also contacted a acupunturist that has been highly recommended to me...and shes not available to JUNE...arrrggghhhh anyway enough venting from me...thanks for reading  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: MonicaMouse
Date Posted: 17 April 2008 at 3:52pm
 That sucks! I don't blame you for not wanting to go back to the hospital. Good luck with your Drs appointment.
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Posted By: Redbedrock
Date Posted: 17 April 2008 at 5:07pm
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Hey Kaz, that is such poor follow-up at such an awful time. Hope things go better for you, will your GP arrange a scan to check you
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Posted By: nictoddie
Date Posted: 17 April 2008 at 7:33pm
Awww big hugs to you not sure what else to say but am thinking of you  ------------- 
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Posted By: noodle
Date Posted: 17 April 2008 at 7:42pm
kazzle that is shocking!! grrrr that makes me so mad!  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 17 April 2008 at 8:32pm
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I so don't blame you for being upset. ------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 17 April 2008 at 9:06pm
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Sometimes the public health system really sucks, and unfortunately private seems to be the only option. I would be really mad too Kaz. Hope your doc is more helpful. ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: katie1
Date Posted: 17 April 2008 at 9:10pm
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That really sucks Kaz. I can't believe there is not a better support process in the public health system. It is shocking.
I really hope your doctor can be more helpful than what you have already had. Hugs. |
Posted By: kebakat
Date Posted: 17 April 2008 at 9:14pm
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That really sucks that the public system is giving you such slack service. I must say that I'm surprised by the service I've had publicly here in Palmy. It was better than I had expected it to be.
I hope your doc sorts you out with what you want! |
Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 17 April 2008 at 10:31pm
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kaz that is disgusting! i'm not surprised you are angry...i hope your dr appt goes well and you can get a referral ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: emachan
Date Posted: 20 April 2008 at 9:31pm
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Kaz - I would be just as frustrated as you are! How dare they muck you around?! Big hugs chicky - thinking of you. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  DD#1 Sept 08 DD#2 Oct 09 |
Posted By: james
Date Posted: 21 April 2008 at 7:15am
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aww now that suxs you have ever right to be upsett big big hugs ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |