i,m so sic of this
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Topic: i,m so sic of this
Posted By: james
Subject: i,m so sic of this
Date Posted: 04 March 2006 at 9:20pm
james has another trought infection which means he wont drink his bottle to sore on hes throght i have to spoon feed him baby juice which takes forever and i feel like the worst mum as he has been upset 4 2 days and i just thought he was being naughty hes now on attiboictios and panadol fr pan and fever i feel so bad as i got upset with him last night (yelled) and therw his bottle across the room and i no i am a total b***** i just have to moan i fell so bad for him as hes qiute sick andall i can do is try to comfert him ok thats fell better now ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
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Posted By: fairsk8
Date Posted: 04 March 2006 at 10:05pm
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Sending big hugs your way Lu. You are not a B****, you were just having a rough time, I'm sure we have all done something as equally bad ourselves, well I know I have. I hope it all gets better for you. ------------- http://www.bump-and-beyond.com/"> 
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 05 March 2006 at 1:25am
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we put too much pressure on ourselves to be perfect mums-and its the hardest job in the world!
Ive had times where ive just gotten frustrated,stressed etc and i yell at caitlyn, children know how to grate on ur nerves and we aint saints its easy to lose confidence in urself once in a while . But i'll tell u what i reckon ur a great mum, a bad mum wouldnt realise their child was sick and even tho u hate it ur still feeding him with a spoon- a "bad" mum wouldnt even do that. Take heart chicky your not the only mum to have these moments,and ur doing a great job 
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 05 March 2006 at 8:49am
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Lu, we've all been there sweetie! I remember sitting up breastfeeding Maya for about the 10th time one night when she was going thru her sick stage with tears rolling down my face thinking "hurry up, just hurry up because I am so scared that I might hurt you if I don't get some sleep". I felt sooooooo awful afterwards about even thinking it, but at the time I was running on no sleep, giving hourly breastfeeds which was taking it out of me physically and I was on my own.
So you are definitely not the only one! The good thing about antibiotics is they usually kick in pretty quickly, so James should be back to his normal self in no time. Take care love! -------------  Maya Grace (28/02/03)
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The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 05 March 2006 at 9:11am
Oh Lu, big hugs chicky  You are not a bad mum at all and like someone else said a bad mum wouldnt be doing what you are now. Hope James (and you) are feeling better soon.  ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 05 March 2006 at 9:30am
| I know what you mean lu. When they are sick, it means that you have to do so much. And they tend to be grizzly and icky. So you get angry with them. Then you feel guilty for getting angry cause they are sick.....ick ick ick. Hope James feels better soon. |
Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 05 March 2006 at 9:37am
| chin up - they forget stuff like that way before we do. hes prob feeling better now already too. |
Posted By: james
Date Posted: 05 March 2006 at 11:53am
thanks guys hes much better today only drinking 100 mls at a time but thats better then nothing thank u for your kind words helps to no i,m not the only one ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: k&jsmum
Date Posted: 05 March 2006 at 6:27pm
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I know where your coming from Lu so dont beat yourself up about it. Like all the other ladies said we all have "moments" where we are so stressed. Good on you for taking James to the doc - hopefully he will be his healthy happy self again soon. And take care of yoru self too ok ------------- Marlene Keegan ~ 14 October 2003 Jaidyn ~ 14 October 2003 |
Posted By: james
Date Posted: 05 March 2006 at 7:34pm
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ohh u guys gonna make me cry u guys rock ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: netballgirl4
Date Posted: 05 March 2006 at 8:18pm
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Sending big hugs your way Lu. You are not a B****, you were just having a rough time ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 05 March 2006 at 10:16pm
thanks guys he already 95% better has had 1 half bottle and 2 full bottles even eat poatoe and gravy for tea so hes much better oh and only used his inhaler 1 time today  ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: nuttymama
Date Posted: 06 March 2006 at 6:25am
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Glad to hear he's feeling better. As the other girls have said we have all felt really stressed at times, there is no such thing as a super mum, but you sound like a great mum. ------------- Abigail 06/01/2005 Jayden 21/11/2001 Micheal 03/04/1997 |
Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 06 March 2006 at 8:24am
Yay! Glad hat James is getting better. We all flip out sometimes, well I do, LOLOL, just part of being a mum I guess  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: fairsk8
Date Posted: 06 March 2006 at 8:36am
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Good to hear that he is feeling better. ------------- http://www.bump-and-beyond.com/">
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 06 March 2006 at 10:09am
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Glad to hear James is feeling better. You get some rest girl! ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 06 March 2006 at 12:55pm
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i will try emma but dont fell like sleeping james went to childcare and had a ball but before i droped him off he was all grumby and annoying lol ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |