I just need
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Topic: I just need
Posted By: BaAsKa
Subject: I just need
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 10:48am
..to have a bit of a winge or cry.. cant really say exactly what about just that im having DH problems and right now all friends and family are at work so cant talk and actually id much rather just sit here and read through OB which is so far cheering me up...
Im glad someone has heard! (makes it somehow feel not so bad..
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Posted By: .Mel
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 10:55am
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Oh that's not good. I find chocolate helps me when I'm having Dumb Husband problems.
Hope you manage to sort it soon, and start to feel better. ------------- Mr Mellow (16) Miss Attitude (8) Destructa Kid (3) 
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Posted By: almostthere
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 10:59am
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Aww, I second the choclate call!!
**hugs** ------------- http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2128f6"> 
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Posted By: AliaDawn
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 11:03am
Chocolate is great. Moreso here because it means mike will go for the hour-round walk to the supermarket to get it!  -------------  
 
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Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 11:19am
i wish i could have some chocolate! but instead im drowning my sorrows in cheese scone with humus! lol but yum!
thanks for the hugs ladies! im glad to have support here that doesnt "go off to work and cant talk!" 
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Posted By: mum2emj
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 11:20am
i third (or fourth!!) the chocolate call 
sorry you are having some problems 
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Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 11:26am
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Aww
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Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 11:26am
| oh and Mel im so glad you said "dumb husband" bcos now i dont feel so bad about typing DH right now as he is really isnt so "DARLING" right now so for now DH for me is "DUMB" husband! |
Posted By: Kellz
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 11:51am
| lol Amber. Sorry A is being a pain! Hope u are ok, wish I was closer to see u and help! |
Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 11:58am
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Kellz you can channel him a boot up the back side for me! ...just think long and hard and hopefully his butt will start hurting!!! if not il manually do it!!
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Posted By: Kellz
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 11:59am
| lol shall I txt him?!! |
Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 12:03pm
lol i wish! but better not cos hes at work and iv already rung him up this morning and done a nut at him! which all his work mates heard! bcos of course im loud even when im not mad! so imagine when im mad! lol just glad to chat about it! |
Kellz wrote:Posted By: Kellz
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 12:06pm
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Lol! Poor guy! What did he do?!
Im always nagging poor Brent, he deserves a medal putting up with me! Although will take ages for me to forgive him for not egtting me a thing on mothers day,..again! |
Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 12:08pm
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Oh Hun!! I know what that can be like!!
Big
My Hubby is the same...I am at work cant talk, have to do this cant talk etc.....Arrrrgggg I use to call him and scream as well....but now I choose to ignore him all together...because the first thing that comes out my mouth is "I WANT A DIVORSE YOU LITTLE PIECE OF ^$@#&$@"....LOL So I just keep quiet till we both calm down. I am sure all will come right...have some chocolate or even better...if you have his Credit Card handy...go shopping.... ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 12:11pm
lets just say - its enough for me to be considering leaving him but too much to write in a public forum, as weird as it is - i dont want to run him down by airing all his dirty laundry for all in sundry ....
Gez B!!! stink hubby for not getting you a mothersday pressie!!.. here il channel him a kick up the wazzoo!!
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Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 12:15pm
lol that is exactly what i did! which i have only done once before (the last time he did this!) and bugger! no credit card here i did buy Bailey some ben 10 toys though which have just arrived so that makes me feel a tad better
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Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 12:32pm
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Well we dont know the whole story but I hope it turns out ok for you....what ever the outcome. But I do hope that all works out and your DH appologizes and makes up big time to you...LOL
We are here to listen.
Edited to say: What did DH say to that?? Mine usually gets very angry and says why do you always say that?? LOL (CAUSE IT MAKES ME FEEL BETTER) lol ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 1:15pm
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Big hugs Amber, I'm sorry things suck for you right now Here if you need to vent - I too have a Dumb Husband sometimes. -------------  Maya Grace (28/02/03)
 (02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: Jay_R
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 1:26pm
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Big hugs from me
I have a Dumb Husband at my place sometimes too..... |
Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 1:37pm
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DH problems are the worst!
I really hope things get resolved for you soon hun ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: NeoshasMummy
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 3:27pm
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Sorry! Hope it gets better for you! ------------- https://secure.fertilityfriend.com/home/30c4ec/" rel="nofollow">  Mrs Te Kani ❤️ Neosha 26/5/2007 |
Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 5:45pm
......and its made worse by the fact that DH didnt get payed today cos they have a uselss new office lady!!!! OH THE STRESS!!!! IM GOING NUTTS!!!
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Posted By: Jay_R
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 5:50pm
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Eeek, hope he doesn't work at my work, cos our guys didn't get paid today either. I do payroll, but can't authorise payments, and my GM only did half of the process accidentally.
I was not popular today I can tell you
Hope you are doing ok 
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Posted By: my4beauties
Date Posted: 15 May 2008 at 8:05pm
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Lots & Lots of Amber! Dumb husband problems suck! I hope you can get through this and Dh learns his lesson. ------------- My babies: R (9),G (7), J (5) http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 12:36pm
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for now im putting it on the back burne bcos i guess its not sooooooooo bad and my boys are my main priority so it feels wrong to uproot them over this...it means heaps to me but im going to make sure DH feels the pinch from me for a while!!!..
sorry i cant mention what it is but i will say just to put it to rest that - he did NOT cheat on me, nothing like that ... joshierocks - hehe no he doesnt work for you we are 4 hours away from you hehe, i rung the office lady last night and gave her an ear full (this is a common occurance for her - forgeting to pay people randomly!)...so anyway miraculously his wage was in there this morning! but im making his boss pay for the $60 worth of bank fees we got because ALL of our payements went out of his account with not enough money to cover!!
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 2:01pm
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Fair enough! Banks are buggers like that! ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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