So Mad!!
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Topic: So Mad!!
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Subject: So Mad!!
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 8:53pm
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GRRRRR at DF.
He went to the new "New World" that they are building in Waiuku for drinks with the builders and stuff, which is sweet as BUT he said he would be about an hour, which was fine by me cos I have to pick him up. He txt me at 6 to say hed be another hour, so thats cool. Ive tried txting him and ringing his phone(and hanging up so he can ring me back) but he hasnt txt me and its now nearly 9pm and I havent heard from him. Im SOOOO angry, I want to cry, actually I did cry, but Im allowed to Im nearly 9 months pregnant 
Im SO tired and feel yucky and I didnt want to have to drive into town and pick him up late. I cant do the dinner I wanted to cos its way to friggin late. Im so angry with him. **CRIES**
He will get a ear bashing from me, then I will probably cry cos I do that alot these days  ------------- |
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Posted By: arohanui
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 8:56pm
Oh dear you poor thing   Nothing wrong with having a good old cry! Or giving him an ear bashing!! He probably can't hear his phone so I hope he realises soon what the time is. Do you know where they went for drinks?------------- Mama to DS1 (5 years), DS2 (3 years) and... http://alterna-tickers.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: .Mel
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 8:58pm
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I think you should go to bed and cuddle up and he should find his own way home.
ETA: Could they have gone somewhere to watch the game? ------------- Mr Mellow (16) Miss Attitude (8) Destructa Kid (3) 
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Posted By: KH25
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 9:03pm
grrr I would be angry too! Text him and just say you are having contractions 5 mins apart - see how long it takes to ring you back then  ------------- Kelly, mum to DD, 19Jun06 (26wks 1lb15oz) DS1, 24Oct10 (32wks 4lb11oz) and DS2, 31Dec11 (32wks, 4lb11) http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: EmDee
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 9:05pm
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Sheza, I would be angry too! I agree with Mel, let him find his own way home!
Although I really like Kelly's idea too!  ------------- DS 8 DD 6 DS 4 DD 2 |
Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 9:06pm
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I would go to bed with a big supply of crap food and a book and turn off my phone, leaving himto get his own way home, then cold shoulder him all night, make him sleep on couch if poss, then make him take you shopping tomorrow to make up for it. thats what I do, anyhow, lol. ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: AliaDawn
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 9:08pm
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Let him walk home! He was born with feet for a reason! -------------  
 
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Posted By: Paws
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 9:12pm
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I'd let him walk home too! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 9:32pm
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Just after I posted this he called and I hung up then he called again and I answerd.
So I said wait outside new world and hung up on him. Picked him up, he is drunk as hell, had to pull over so he could throw up, oh lovely! I havent spoken to him since I picked him up, I said dont talk to me lol. I am giving him the cold shoulder right now. And I feel like crying lol ------------- |
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 9:33pm
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Eeww I think he is throwing up again in the loo. Frikkin great, serves him right!
Im so mad. Now I feel sick cos he is throwing up  Arghhhhh------------- |
Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 9:34pm
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bloody hormones... ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: Paws
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 9:36pm
EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW! Hope you're going to make him sleep on the couch!  ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: minik8e
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 9:37pm
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Gosh you're nice Sheza!! If my DP asked me to pull over so he could throw up I'd prolly leave him there on the side of the road LOL I'm not so good with pukey people
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 9:37pm
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yup! Im so sick of them lol.
I think Im just annoyed cos the last thing I want to do is have to drive into town and pick up my drunk DF nearly 9 months pregnant, I mean I fell asleep on the couch watching shortland street! LOL thats how tired I am, I thought hed have been ready to come home by then cos he said it was just a "few" beers. PFFFF thats why he has his head in the loo, after a "few" beers!! serves him right ------------- |
Posted By: WRXnKids
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 9:39pm
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DP use to do this to me as well when i was fully preg!! They so dont understand you could pop at any minute and need to do as they say they will and be contactable!!!
I did make him taxi a few times but many a night i remember waddling out to his STUPID van and driving to pick him up then waiting 5-10 min in the car texting him to come out to have him and a few of his mates all wanting rides i use to get so angry with him!!! His excuse was because we were moving to another city for a while when josh arrived he was making the most of the time with his friends. Stupid thing is we have almost spent more time back in chch since Josh arrived than down here. -------------   
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Posted By: Paws
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 9:39pm
I'd probably be the same...I'm no good with pukey people either! Seriously gross...I can barely deal with me being pukey! ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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minik8e wrote:Posted By: KH25
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 9:39pm
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Oh no!!! He definately should be banished to the couch - or the loo for the night! grrr I hate it when they get themselves in such a state and yeah it makes me feel sick when I hear someone else being sick ------------- Kelly, mum to DD, 19Jun06 (26wks 1lb15oz) DS1, 24Oct10 (32wks 4lb11oz) and DS2, 31Dec11 (32wks, 4lb11) http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 9:39pm
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i'd do exactly what fattarts suggested! actually, i have done that....then you get that pathetic 'sorry, woe is me' look from them in the morning! ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 9:41pm
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wrxchic omg that would piss me right off, Im lucky DF doesnt do this alot but he picked the wrong night to piss me off.
He is STILL in the bathroom, probbaly fell asleep on the loo, grr he better not have, the bathroom is mine at night seems as I have to pee ALL the time. ------------- |
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 9:43pm
lOl he already tried that in the car, he said Im sorry a few times, said soemthing about his phone going flat, but I called it just before 9 and it rung
Thats when I said for him to not speak to me. ------------- |
Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 10:21pm
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Just move his head so you can still get to the toilet to pee. I did once not answer my phone and locked the door so DH couldn't get in after he pulled on of those nights when I was pregnant with Andrew. Lets just say it never happened again. And I did let him in after the puking had stopped. ------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 10:24pm
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Hmm or I could just not move his head Mehehe
Yah he is STILL throwing up, I made him go have a shower and I could hear his puking over the sound of the shower. He said he was mixing drinks, WELLLLLLL what doesn he expect! ------------- |
Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 10:26pm
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Well I was going to say that but I thought that might be a bit gross. ------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
Posted By: arohanui
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 10:28pm
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Lol I was thinking the exact same thing Sheena and Becks, glad you said it!!! Lol that is gross. But awesomely funny. It made me smile anyway.
Sheza have you watched the Childbirth Song video? Surely that will put a smile on your dial (yes I am the queen of cheeze)... ------------- Mama to DS1 (5 years), DS2 (3 years) and... http://alterna-tickers.com" rel="nofollow">
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 10:31pm
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lol, would serve him right if he got peed on! lmao gross but true.
He is in the shower now, after having another huge spew, frikkin lovely, I think he can definitly sleep on the couch!! I dont want him near me lol, I cnat handle puke. I havent heard it yet liz, will go have a listen  ------------- |
Posted By: .Mel
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 10:33pm
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Play it up as much as you can Sheza Lay the guilts on him in the morning, turn the stereo up really loud, go out in the car and don't come back for ages!
I hope he stays on the couch.. ------------- Mr Mellow (16) Miss Attitude (8) Destructa Kid (3)
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Posted By: arohanui
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 10:37pm
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Oh yeah, here's to a great day tomorrow - you'll have a hungover, feeling guilty DF!!! He'll be doing lots to make it up to you!!! Hmm now to think of your wish list.... ------------- Mama to DS1 (5 years), DS2 (3 years) and... http://alterna-tickers.com" rel="nofollow">
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Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 10:38pm
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Im with Alia.
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 10:57pm
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lol, he has work tomorrow, starts at 7am.
He is on the couch, grizzling that he deosnt want to sleep there lol. I said he can stay there until he stops throwing up. I HAVE been a bit nice to him, gave him water and covered him up so he is comfy lol But Im not letting him in the bed! ------------- |
Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 11:09pm
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No way is he coming into your bed still spewing. I love my couch I could easily sleep on there - I have done a number of times (not because I was drunk thou). ------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 16 May 2008 at 11:27pm
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ooo Ben did this so many times too. He was actually drunk when i went into labour with Jack.
I hope he makes up for it tommorrow 
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Posted By: Jennz
Date Posted: 17 May 2008 at 1:09am
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My DH did this and I went into pre-term labour! Had to drive myself to the hospital, totally on my own- having contractions and crying the whole way. He turned up after about an hour off his trolley- knocked over the monitor and couldn't even talk properly. Needless to say- he didn't drink a drop for the rest of my pregnancy after that!
I would be pretty fricken mad too- you're kinda than me though, I would have made him walk! And then sleep on the porch ------------- Jen, Charlotte 7 & Kate 3 
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 17 May 2008 at 7:50am
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lol
He knew he was in the dog box, I made him sleep on the couch for a while then when I went to bed I woke him up and he got into bed aswell, he was done spewing by this stage lol, and hed had a shower and brushed his teeth lol He doesnt even have a hang over this morning!! And he was being really nice to me LOL, he is at work now. ------------- |
Posted By: AliaDawn
Date Posted: 17 May 2008 at 8:03am
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You're much nicer than me - I would've made him walk, and taken the money out of something else he likes if he got a taxi, and then probably wouldnt've have peed on him - but would've needed a large cold bucket of water to "clean" the toilet and surroundings. AND he would've been sleeping outside.
But then, neither of us drink, so that's fair. -------------
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 17 May 2008 at 8:09am
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DF never drinks lol, he only did cos it was a work shout and the drinks were free. He told me this morning what he drunk, and then what he ate lol and its no wonder he was so sick.
He did feel very bad this morning and was full of "Im sorrys" so I think Ive tortured him enough lol ------------- |
Posted By: aussiegirl
Date Posted: 17 May 2008 at 10:11am
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It is a pain having to go pick them up!
DH went out last night, but I flatly refused to go get him. Luckily he doesn't get sick. He also knows he is on a time frame (2 more weeks left) as I will need him to drive and be my support for labour. Glad your DF felt bad this morning though Sheza! -------------  Mum to Hayley **30.6.08
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Posted By: Snickerdoodle
Date Posted: 17 May 2008 at 10:21am
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He DOESN'T have a hangover?
How bloody unfair is that?!?!??
He'd better be on his best behaviour for the next 3 weeks!! ------------- 
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 17 May 2008 at 10:56am
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LOL sounds like the only reason he doesn't have a hangover is coz he spewed it all out last night
I feel your pain, Willie did something similar to me when I was preg with Maya and I was fair ready to kill him. These days he's older and wiser - and sleeping outside is too bloody cold! ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
 (02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: Bobbie
Date Posted: 17 May 2008 at 1:05pm
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Yep the spewing = no hangover for my DH too. I think you have been really nice. Not sure he's suffered enough but I guess he can count it as his last drinks for a LONG while. -------------  
 
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 17 May 2008 at 1:18pm
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Hehe yeah he said "this is why I DONT drink" he hate3s feeling like he did last night.
I have to admit in the end I DID feel a tad sorry for him, his phone did go flat and then he ran out of credit and his IOU didnt come thru, but I still think he should have asked someone for the time(he doesnt wear a watch grr) and then left at 7.30 or 8 and walked up to the old new world and called me(which is what he did at 9pm) but he was so trashed he ddint think of that and just left with everyone else and waited for me to let rip into him, which I didnt LOL I was too tired lol But it all good today He is out of the dog box now lol------------- |
Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 17 May 2008 at 1:20pm
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You are too nice! Willie would be setting up residence in the dog box for at least a week! ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 17 May 2008 at 1:39pm
lol, its his first offence so I'll let him off with a warning ------------- |
Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 17 May 2008 at 5:25pm
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gez you ARE nice!! lol my DH pays for it for a LOOOONNGG time!! and sometimes he has the same excuses as your DF but they are always his excuses so not acceptable!! my DH doesnt drink though so its never been about that luckily im very squemish about spew!
I think you should "NEED" a LOONG back masage, foot masage, chocolate, dinner cooked, toilet cleaned....lol ..well thats my usual payday! lol |
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 17 May 2008 at 6:58pm
I made him clean the toilet last night before I used it lmao. I spayed it with cleaner and made him wipe it ------------- |
Posted By: BellaBoo
Date Posted: 17 May 2008 at 7:05pm
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I usually get up early in the morning and vacumm the bedroom over and over again ------------- http://lilypie.com">   http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 17 May 2008 at 8:29pm
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I think I am strange as I can drink and drink and drink and not spew in the morning I don't have a hangover - it is quite good. ------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
Posted By: MissAngel
Date Posted: 18 May 2008 at 8:19am
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LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL! OMG All I could do was laugh - you poor thing :P
Matt did this to me a few weeks ago, and I had to drive from rangiora to chch and back and i'm not supposed to be driving. After 3 hours of being bumped back on when to pick him up, I went down there anyway and screamed at him until he got in the car. Totally embarassed him in front of ALL of his friends and nearly made him cry. I even overheard one of them comment about him leaving me and home so pg, and how bad that was LOL! He's been brilliant since then :P ------------- Alex, Thomas and Lily http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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