Bit scared
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Topic: Bit scared
Posted By: Danaj
Subject: Bit scared
Date Posted: 20 May 2008 at 6:00pm
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Well, I had a m/c last month from only one month of TTC. 3 weeks later and I have a VFP.
Anyone know the chances of having 2 m/c's in a row? I'm even reluctant to tell DH as I don't want to get him excited if it's not happening. I might go get some bloods tomorrow so i can repeat in a week and make sure the levels are increasing and not decreasing like last time. I do feel crook but don't have sore boobs like last time. It's just the same symptoms but not as bad as before. Perhaps it's just that i'm earlier this time round. Anyone had 2 m/c or are the chances of this quite low? |
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Posted By: peanut butter
Date Posted: 20 May 2008 at 6:03pm
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Congrats!!!I hope there isnt an increased chance coz I am the same as you...as are half of the Jan mums!
Just keep everything crossed and try and enjoy the ride! |
Posted By: cuppatea
Date Posted: 20 May 2008 at 6:19pm
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As far as I am aware it is quite common to have one m/c and quite rare to have recurrent m/c's. Also having one m/c doesn't make you at higher risk of having another.
I am also like nzpiper and am pregnant again after a m/c that I had at the beginning of March. Congratulations and try to relax (I know impossible, but try) and tell your husband  ------------- 
 
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Posted By: Nefertiti
Date Posted: 20 May 2008 at 6:41pm
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I also think you should tell your husband.
And yes, its very common to fall pregnant again after a miscarriage. Good luck - I have my finger and toes crossed for you! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Two Blondinis
Date Posted: 20 May 2008 at 7:28pm
I would tell your husband, you both need all the support you can get after your M/C and besides that - he deserves some good news too 
All the best for the next 8 months ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
 
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Posted By: WestiesGirl
Date Posted: 20 May 2008 at 8:43pm
Awww Danaj no advice on the m/c thing but just wanted to say all the best and lots of  . And you should tell your DH so he can support you and enjoy the good news too! Good luck!------------- Our Angel July 08  Gone but not forgotten
And to complete our family, our princess has arrived 
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Posted By: Danaj
Date Posted: 21 May 2008 at 11:20am
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Well, this morning brought a BFP! I'm off to the doc this arvo.
Told DH. He asked me if I was ok then sat and stared at the wall for about 20 minutes. I think we're both waiting to hear what the doc says today. |
Posted By: queenbean
Date Posted: 21 May 2008 at 12:45pm
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Congrats and good luck!!!
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Posted By: alexbabe
Date Posted: 21 May 2008 at 2:04pm
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Congrats hun and all the best
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Posted By: Phat_Cat
Date Posted: 21 May 2008 at 3:15pm
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Danaj - according to the hospital Drs when I had my miscarraige it is very common for 1st pregnancies to end in a M/C - so its more common than you think. Im pregnant with number two since the M/C and you do tend to worry but unless there was something majorily clinical you should be fine. All the best & happy & healthy 8 monthsXX PS its taken my DH up to the first scan to sink in for him that we are pregnant again (i think even then hes still not 100% convinced LOL) as after my M/C it took 2 years plus fertility treatment to get number one and weve "accidently" fell pregnant with number two!! so try not to worry too much at this stage about your DH's reaction ------------- Tristen - 24/06/07 Rylan - 11/12/08 Angel Babies -14/08/05 & 21/01/2010 Curtis - 26/02/12 |
Posted By: Danaj
Date Posted: 21 May 2008 at 5:36pm
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Well, the doc says i'm due around 4th Feb! Feeling ok, very very tired and struggling with the quitting smoking. Has to go but it's still really hard.
DH is doing fine. I don't think it's sunk in yet but he's happy. |
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 21 May 2008 at 6:39pm
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Hey, congrats on the pregnancy
I had a m/c last July, was due 20th Feb. Then fell pregnant again 2 months later, and I am now due to have my baby in just under 3 weeks  So I dont think their is an incresed risk at all, I actually read somewhere that having 2 in a row is not that common, though it does happen its not common.------------- |
Posted By: WestiesGirl
Date Posted: 21 May 2008 at 9:54pm
Congrats Danaj! Hope you have a happy and healthy 8 months  ------------- Our Angel July 08 Gone but not forgotten
And to complete our family, our princess has arrived
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