Enough is enough - VERY yuk pix ahead !!!
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Topic: Enough is enough - VERY yuk pix ahead !!!
Posted By: jax
Subject: Enough is enough - VERY yuk pix ahead !!!
Date Posted: 10 March 2006 at 9:57am
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Ok, you guys thought that tinned corn beef in the fridge was gross ? Well, as you may have suspected, it has only been getting worse.
*** WARNING: Again, if you don't have a strong stomach, you probably don't want to see the rest of this... !!! *** I had a word to her about that last lot, and so the next time she had some, this is how she "covered" it: 
That photo was taken on the 7th, so today is the fourth day it has been sitting there. The day after that, on the 8th, *this* appeared... 
Yes folks, defrosted, raw bacon - which is also still just sitting there pretty much uncovered. So to move a long a little bit, today and tomorrow is my "weekend", so I tried to sleep in ... but unfortunately she doesn't know the definition of quiet. I woke up when hubby left, but that wasn't a problem - fell asleep again almost straight after, around 6:30am. However, at 7:15am she gets up, starts banging around, sounded like a bloody elephant had invaded the house the way sbe was stomping around and slamming doors !!  So I gave up, and figured I may as well get up (once she'd actually left mind you).
So I make it out into the hallway and head for the loo, but I only had to take two steps out of the bedroom before the smell hit me  I reckon she probably didn't realise I was going to be home today, and would have had a sneaky smoke in her bedroom. Had to get the scented spray stuff out of the loo and run up and down the hallway with the button held down, but I *still* felt like chucking up.
Anyway, I thought I'd be brave and see just how bad it was so you guys know *exactly* how relieved I am going to be once she is outta here... coz the silly girl didn't even lock her door ! 
That is the view from the door, and here is a close up of her bed - note the beer bottle on the left side, and the plate on the right: 
Then, if we move a little to the right of where her pillow was in that last pic, to the floor next to her bed, there is a whole bunch more exciting stuff like... The bottle collection 
This *was* coffee, but I didn't think coffee was supposed to jiggle... 
And *this* was what was in the bottom of one of that horde of beer bottles - which to me, is what confirms she is still smoking inside ! 
As Gaye will know (jdjzmum), this is really the last straw for us with all of this... and after a bit of a think and a chat to my hubby, he is going to confront her when he comes home from work and ask her about the smoking. If she is honest and says yes, we will be kicking her out on the spot. I just worry that it will turn nasty and she is going to make a scene - but Roland has agreed that I should make myself scarce while he sorts it out. If it does go wrong and she refuses to go (and by go, we mean her AND all of her stuff), the mates we are going to have for dinner tonight are both police officers anyway... so will be handy to have around. So, last but not least, here is a view of the *bottom* shelf of the fridge when I opened it up this morning: 
I can't remember if I pointed it out before, but she goes through around two of these in a week
Anyway, I'm feeling a bit drained, so I am going to sign off for now and try to focus on something else... I may well need what energy I can save for this afternoon. Jax ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater 
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
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Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 10 March 2006 at 11:22am
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oh to be single and responsible for no one but me...
i thought youd already asked her to leave...(and on another note i think that maybe photographing the contents of an empty beer bottle may be going overboard a bit). 
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Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 10 March 2006 at 11:32am
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We had asked her to leave but with a deadline of March 18th, which may well change. And I only took a photo of it because if she says she hasn't been smoking inside, it at least makes me feel better that I have "proof". (Not that I can legally use it sadly...) ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 10 March 2006 at 11:40am
| ew yes i agree jax leaving ciggie butts in an empty beer bottle is gross i used to smoke and know how much it stinks out the house and not only that looks putrid! Its ur house chicka i would have kicked her out last time lol |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 10 March 2006 at 12:01pm
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gross gross gross
even when i was single and childless i couldn't live like that! ew ew ew |
Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 10 March 2006 at 12:40pm
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Gross i would be chucking all her stuff out on the front doorstep and changing the locks then i think i would go away for the weekend. That is FILTH. Thought you were overreacting a bit with the fridge but when i saw how disgusting her room is YUCK. And the smoking is so not on. Yep kick her out. your a saint for putting up with it this long
------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 10 March 2006 at 12:57pm
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I feel for you on the smoking - Willie smokes (outside of course) but just the smell of it wafting in under the door makes me queasy.
Kick her out! -------------  Maya Grace (28/02/03)
 (02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 10 March 2006 at 1:05pm
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Well, if she says yes, we will give her the boot, and perhaps a grace period of this weekend to clear her things out.
If not, we can't do much, but I am drafting a letter stating the rules and conditions that she must abide by until the deadline she's meant to move out on (18th). As soon as I'm finished that I'm really going to have to find something else to keep me occupied, my heart rate has gone up and I feel dizzy. ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
Posted By: Tami
Date Posted: 10 March 2006 at 1:47pm
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how old is this girl????this is jus GROSS!!!!!! ------------- http://www.babysfirstsite.com"> 
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Posted By: meow
Date Posted: 10 March 2006 at 2:06pm
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Hmm I don't think people like that deserve time to get themselves sorted, you should have thrown her out ages ago.. if it was me and she was smoking inside (esp if it were when I was pregnant) there would have been hell to pay. No one should have to put up with that and I really don't understand why you're being nice to her by giving her time.. just kick the bitch out! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 10 March 2006 at 3:24pm
| i agree - if its your house just kick her out - she cant do anything about it... your house, your rules tough titty for her. if she can afford t o smoke and drink that much she can afford to move. |
Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 10 March 2006 at 3:39pm
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FYI She's 25 years old ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
Posted By: netballgirl4
Date Posted: 10 March 2006 at 3:41pm
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SHE NEEDS HELP ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 10 March 2006 at 4:24pm
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thats just foul jax. i get the fridge thing cos you're preggy. its unhygenic that your stuff is being contaminated by hers, not to mention the retch factor when you have to go in there!
smoking inside is a completely fair reason for kicking her out on the spot i say! it gets into all the carpets and furniture and is a complete pain to get rid of. i can't believe someone sleeps in a bed with bottles and plates in it!!!! ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 10 March 2006 at 6:40pm
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oh i can belive it gross gross gross with mewo on this one kick her out ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 10 March 2006 at 10:04pm
| Let us know how it goes! |
Posted By: deharn
Date Posted: 10 March 2006 at 10:56pm
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oh my gawd............. that is seriously off. Looks like she needs the loveys in off that show on Wednesday night that are the "clean queens".
I can not believe people can live and be comfortable in that environment. Does she shower in the same bathroom as you? Bet you will be happy to see the back of her!!!! |
Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 10 March 2006 at 10:56pm
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She hasn't been home yet on account of her last day at work, my bet is they all carried on into town from the local. *sigh* So that leaves it for tomorrow, because I'm not staying up all night (nigh on impossible in itself) just to have a fight with a drunk.
Heart rate has come down a fair bit though, which is good, was starting to feel really bad - was up around 95bpm earlier, now sitting on 84. It was nice to have a break tonight though when a couple of our friends came over for dinner, it was just completely laid back and a good chance to catch up with them - we last saw them at our wedding. Ok, so not *that* long ago I suppose, but we've always meant to have friends over and socialise a bit more often ! I'm going to bed now though, and will keep you all updated. ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 10 March 2006 at 10:58pm
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And yes, we share the bathroom... with her $30 bottles of shampoo / conditioner !!!!!!! ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
Posted By: deharn
Date Posted: 11 March 2006 at 9:41am
So she keeps her hair clean with quality products???? Theres a little bit of irony there hey!
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 11 March 2006 at 9:51am
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shes a lazy cow ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 11 March 2006 at 10:42am
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This is so disgusting, Jax! My friend has been reading over my shoulder and we are in agreement: your health and your baby's health needs to come first! If I remember correctly, you and Roland have given her plenty of warnings... it's time for her to go! ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 11 March 2006 at 12:50pm
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We would be, for sure - but it's past midday and she's *still* not home And irony is right - $30 on a single bottle of shampoo and another of conditioner - even *we* don't buy stuff that expensive !
So now, we play the waiting game... ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 11 March 2006 at 4:48pm
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good luck! i hope by now she's been home and got the ole foot up the arse and out the door!
god at 25, living like that! she needs to seriously grow up!  ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 11 March 2006 at 5:30pm
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I know this might sound lazy on my part or something, I dunno, but I'm quite glad she hasn't been home yet ! Have had a great afternoon knowing she's not around, mum dropped by to pick up some photos and have a cup of tea, and showed her all the baby stuff as well.
We threw out the corned beef and bacon that had been sitting there for so long, and upon doing so poor Roland discovered that the bacon had leaked its juices all over the shelf in the fridge I literally couldn't watch while he cleaned it out, I could feel myself gagging at the thought of it !
So yes, that is the latest, and I almost couldn't care less if I don't even see her until after I have been and gone to work tomorrow (Friday/Saturday was my "weekend"). After groceries we *were* going to buy some boxes, but then Roland says no coz he reckons she'd pinch them for her own cr*p  ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
Posted By: netballgirl4
Date Posted: 11 March 2006 at 5:38pm
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bug hugs how can she live like that there must be something losed up there really im mean gag ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 11 March 2006 at 6:19pm
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Almost forgot... !!
Bugger. Went to put the ticker in, and it wasn't displaying properly... ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |