Rude People
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Topic: Rude People
Posted By: mummy_becks
Subject: Rude People
Date Posted: 07 June 2008 at 10:38pm
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OMG I have been looking at a few other forums tonight and I can't believe how many people out there are so rude with the comments they make about other people and the things they do/make etc. I am so glad that we don't have people on here that aren't out to pick a fight everytime a new post is done. I do wonder why these people are like this and what they do IRL. ------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
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Posted By: mum2paris
Date Posted: 07 June 2008 at 10:40pm
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i agree, hence why i stay on here ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja 
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Posted By: BuzzyBee
Date Posted: 07 June 2008 at 10:42pm
I don't venture onto other forums, kinda glad I don't. I spend way too much time on here as it is! ...and by the sounds of it, I'm better off staying clear  ------------- Single Mum to a darling wee boy of 3 years :) |
Posted By: .Mel
Date Posted: 07 June 2008 at 10:44pm
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I don't mind it, I quite like to read them, and come to my own conclusion. Sometimes I'll offer an opinion other times I just ignore it.
I have been a "victim" of a sl*gging on another forum and everyone came to my defence it was such a good feeling. ------------- Mr Mellow (16) Miss Attitude (8) Destructa Kid (3) 
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Posted By: Paws
Date Posted: 08 June 2008 at 3:59am
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Yeah I very rarely venture off here these days. It's a little too comfy here! (nice comfy though!) ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 08 June 2008 at 5:46am
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I never go anywhere else either. Just nice to stay here where it is safe and like Steph I spend far too much time on here as it is and yes like Paws it is comfy |
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 08 June 2008 at 9:25am
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Yeah i dont like rudeness, or catty people, thats why I left school!! I refuse to be catty and rude, generally if i dont agree with something someone has said on here and other forums I keep my thoughts to myself.
People just end up getting hurt, and thats not right. Rude people IRL P*ss me off even more, and sometimes I will let them know they are being rude, but in a subtle way! ------------- |
Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 08 June 2008 at 10:49am
And I like that this is such a nice community coz it makes my job so much easier! 
I'd hate to be trying to moderate some of the 'other' forums coz they are just so nasty! -------------  Maya Grace (28/02/03)
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The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 08 June 2008 at 11:46am
| oooh what are these nasty forums? i want to go read them now haha |
Posted By: caliandjack
Date Posted: 08 June 2008 at 11:52am
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TradeMe can be a bit of a shocker, people post for genuine advice / ideas and get sl*gged off. It can be quite heated.
I go on there cause I can't get OHBaby at work. 
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Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 08 June 2008 at 3:48pm
| i went to treasures..or huggies can't remember and was talking about being preggers with Taine without knowing - for four months (i was breastfeeding Jake and didn't get m y period back), and some woman went off at me - about how stupid I was not to have known - blah blah blah. she hadnt realised I had been breastfeeding another child - hence not having a period - hence not "missing" it. But didn't stop to ask. I was so upset, I came back here and bitched and moaned about it....frequently. |
Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 08 June 2008 at 3:53pm
And still do hey Liz... 
Seriously tho, that's not the first time I've heard bad things about the Treasures forums and TM are in a league of their own! Still, you can't control all the nutters, and even we get them here from time to time... ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: Tiff
Date Posted: 08 June 2008 at 4:00pm
Yep TM is just crazy!!! Something so simple can be taken completely the wrong way and it seems quite 'clicky' (from an old lurkers point of view ), so don't much bother with anywhere else since I was made to feel so welcome here!!  ------------- http://lilypie.com">  
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Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 08 June 2008 at 7:11pm
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I use to go on "MB" but they were sooooooooo bitchy! i decided to not go back and now 2 years later and im still recieving emails from the moderator saying they " miss me" yeah right!!!
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Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 08 June 2008 at 7:34pm
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What is MB??? ------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
BaileyandAstin wrote:Posted By: emachan
Date Posted: 08 June 2008 at 8:26pm
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I only post on here cos everyone is so nice! *smiles* I don't even bother with any other forums cos I feel like I've gotten to know you all in the past year and a bit! ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  DD#1 Sept 08 DD#2 Oct 09 |
Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 08 June 2008 at 9:23pm
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I post on TMMB but you need a flame proof suit. Gets verrrrry nasty there. They all hate me in general cos I work for MHJ which is something akin to the devil, and parenting is very cliquey and ass kissy, but, oh well. ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: Peace
Date Posted: 08 June 2008 at 9:37pm
I agree with others, you need to have a thick skin to get on in some places. This is a relatively quiet forum with a closer knit community so when blowups happen it is a HUGE thing rather than a "*yawn* Same sh*t different day" thing. So a big thing to be proud of. ------------- DD1 May 2006 DD2 March 2011 DD3 August 2012 |
Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 09 June 2008 at 11:46am
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I never ever went any where else....never found the need to.
I love OH Baby and quite happy with all the feedback and goss here. LOL I am glad that we are not nasty here, Ihate it when ppl get nasty and upset. YAY for us!!  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: almostthere
Date Posted: 09 June 2008 at 12:29pm
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There are four sites i quite like: EBB, oh baby, diabetes forums and NZWP..
other than that I find that other pleaces arent as welcoming so I tend to stear clear! ------------- http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2128f6"> 
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Posted By: MrsMojo
Date Posted: 09 June 2008 at 12:57pm
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I heard that too and have read some of the posts and can't believe how nasty people there are. My sis used to post on there but she and several online friends moved to another forum when they got sick of they way TM is. eg. One time a picture of one of the forum members was posted and a whole heap of people made some really nasty comments about her looks, weight etc I might be wrong but I don't think TM is moderated. I -------------  
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