feeling the guilt over BFN
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Topic: feeling the guilt over BFN
Posted By: BaAsKa
Subject: feeling the guilt over BFN
Date Posted: 15 July 2008 at 9:31pm
I had bloods done yesterday to clear up my confussion and they came back today as less than 5 so negative and while im fine with it...actually a little relieved for the moment (i was caught up in the moment at the time) - DH is gutted over it! I feel extremely guilty about it ...even though he knew that we wernt actually "trying" for another month he still got so excited that he went straight to his mates to tell them ....
Anybosy else feeling the guilt?? |
Replies:
Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 15 July 2008 at 9:54pm
Awww don't feel guilty, it was a confusing test! Sometimes you just need a near miss like that to realise how much you want a BFP. I'm sure it will come  -------------  |
Posted By: TraceyA
Date Posted: 16 July 2008 at 7:30am
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I've had that guilt twice now. For some reason it's fine for me to get my hopes up but when DH says that he got his up too I feel horrible. They seem to get over it a lot quicker then we do though. ------------- TTC #2 |